i do understand it but its not how it works outside of incel forums
women also want men to have 6 pack and perfect body, yet most of them end up with someone that doesnt have that
women want men that are rich, charistmatic and handsome, yet most of them dont end up with a guy like that
and the same happens with height, they want someone tall over 6', yet its statistically impossible for all of them to get that
so you are telling me all relationships where a guy isn't handsome, 6', 6 figures and 6 pack, are all fake, and the wife doesn't desire and love him?
you are saying women will wait 10 years, yet i go on the street and see all kind of couples
but its the same from the POV of men, we all like women with big boobs, ass, and beautiful face, that will suck your dick everyday, and let you cum on her face, but its just not realistic to get that
does that mean you can't love a woman that's not perfect? that you can't desire a women because her tits are just average instead of big?
you have never been in love with an average girl? or were all your relationships with models?
everyone lowers their standards, and women are no exception, if you have other things going for you, average height is fine
now if you are short, ugly, out of shape, boring and racist, then yeah that's going to be tough
and height is the biggest waste of time since you can't change it at all
only thing it does is destroy the confidence of those obsessed with it