Oh, you're in Indo. You won't find girls without Instagram or Facebook in South East Asia besides in Burma, Laos, and maybe Vietnam. Thailand too but probably not accessable to foreigners even if they're fluent in Thai.
I've heard Indonesia's bad though. Friend of mine in Cambodia who did business in Indo for 5 years said to never marry and Indonesian woman because they fuck like rabbits and can never stay faithful. He was still in his 20's when I knew him ten years ago and he himself never married an Indonesian woman.