Geomax Thailand > Malaysia

[JustGo]

Been in Malaysia only a couple weeks and already I want to go back to Thailand. Thailand's urban life mogs Malaysia's. More fascinating, more liberated, more choices, and better value. Yes, Malaysian food is tasty, but most restaurants are giant food halls serving up the same set meals and a la carte entrees with rice, noodle, ramen, etc. How boring. Nobody specializes in unique dishes and flavors here; there is hardly any point in prowling the streets and checking out all the little eateries & stalls for something new to try. And no, the food courts here are not any more clean or sanitary than in Thailand. The concrete is just as grimy, the prepared dishes that most people eat sit out uncovered all day, food is not heated before being served, rats scamper underfoot after dark, etc. Yes, many Malays are more friendly and chatty than Thais, but there are a fair share of workers here who hate their job and treat customers rudely. Inefficiency is rampant as well; during busy times, the dining process can degenerate into complete chaos.

Bukit Bintang is a laughable tourist trap with its aggressive masseuses and $6 "happy hour" pints. It rains or pours most every night, ruining the fun on the street. Weather forecast is fucking worthless here; yesterday it called for 100% chance of rain, but it only drizzled for five minutes. Today was 28% chance, but it dumped down close to 3 inches over two hours after dusk. Street food is limited and pricey, though some things like hamburgers and fried dough or pastries stuffed with curry slurry are very cheap. 25 RM ($5.50) for five tiny satay of grilled lamb on Jalan Alor; in Thailand I could get the same amount of haram pork for under 40 baht anywhere, around a dollar. One restaurant with cushy chairs and tablecloths advertised a delicious chicken soup with carrots and greens, but what I got was a small bowl of turbid slurry with a few rubbery shreds of chicken in the bottom, along with insistent hustle to buy something else. No wonder the place was empty.

Rooms in Malaysia are also inferior to rooms I enjoyed in Thailand, even at a higher price point. $15/night in Malaysia doesn't get you a two-star room with a fridge, desk, coffee service, and maybe a nice view, but rather a windowless and often smelly box with a bed and a bathroom, nothing more. Cleanliness is lower, maintenance is more lax, traffic noise is prevalent.

$30 USD gets you a tourist visa for 60 days in Thailand, and $54 extra will extend that to 90 days. Staying 60 days in Malaysia will cost you $130 in tourism fees; you pay $195 for 90 days here.

 

[AlexBrown84]

thailand is one of the best countries in the world so of course

 

[Tai Bwo Wannai]

Good write up. Can you compare the personalities of Thai and Malaysian people? Who do you vibe with more? Stuff like that.

 

[JustGo]

Good write up. Can you compare the personalities of Thai and Malaysian people? Who do you vibe with more? Stuff like that.

I've met two Malaysians so far who were quite intelligent and engaged in hourslong conversations about a wide range of topics. Both were hotelkeepers, and our conversations started as business chats before progressing into discussion of world affairs, national cultures, and a whole slew of topics. Someone who is highly extroverted can spend the entire day in conversation here if they wish. In Malaysia it is very common to see groups of male friends engaging in prolonged and intense conversations...it's one way to pass the time in a society with few vices & distractions. Of course, they rarely speak English amongst themselves, as friend groups are usually monoethnic...but most Malaysians (in KL at least) are both capable and willing to speak fluent English with foreigners.

Malaysian men are simple extroverts, and Malaysian efforts at befriending you are rarely an attempt at hustling, scamming, or conning. Single women can be willing to talk to men as well, but if their dad or uncle is keeping a watchful eye from nearby, they will be more careful and demure. In Malaysia, Indians are the most deferential, Chinese tend to be more curt and businesslike, while Malays run the gamut from exuberant to grumpy.

The language barrier in Thailand is the #1 greatest influence on a foreigner's experience with the Thai people. However, even amongst themselves, Thais are not extremely chatty, and tend to be subdued when they are visiting with their friends. Even low-class Thais who drink many bottles of beer in the street don't get loud and rowdy, and wouldn't think of hollering at a passing stranger like drunks in the rest of the world do. If you are someone who loves making small talk while traveling and using a lot of words to get your point across, you are far more likely to perceive coldness, rudeness, and exasperation on the street in Thailand. Whereas if you are someone who prefers to communicate minimally and be silent when you are have nothing to say, you will feel very comfortable interacting with the Thai people.

Of course, your experience in tourist-oriented areas of Thailand will be vastly different from your experience in local eateries. The kiss-ass, smiling service many foreigners expect is a behavior adopted to make tourists feel more welcome in a country where everything is unreadable and unpronounceable. The real Thai nature is to show no emotion toward a complete stranger, only basic politeness and service with maximum efficiency. To keep things simple, I go about life in Thailand as if Thais don't understand English. Their little expressions of appreciation for my hassle-free business brighten my day more than the most extroverted overtures of friendship.

Of course, when interacting with youths, sometimes you just have to laugh together over the mutual incomprehension. With older folks I am deferential and never pushy. Dignity is very important for the seniors who work as street vendors, and insistent demands in English are humiliating to them. Whereas in Malaysia, you often have to badger restaurant staff, because everything is a shitshow and the staff will repeatedly ignore you if you wait silently with money in hand. Bullshitting over the menu offerings or prices before ordering is also standard behavior in Malaysia's heavily staffed restaurants, while in small Thai eateries, it is an annoying disruption to the smooth flow of work.

 

[JustGo]

Yada yada, what about the cooming in Malaysia?

Lots of negresses loitering along Changkat Bukit Bintang at 1:30 AM on a Thursday night (or Friday morning). I'd say negresses are a majority of the obvious hooker girls on the street; maybe the more desirable Asian women have already found clients, or else they stay in the back of the bars. Saw a white Hispanic dude walk out of my hotel with two negresses. Muslim guy at reception must've told him to get lost and take his niggers with him, JFL. Bars had a good evening turnout after the rainstorm, enough diversity to feel like an Asian America.

The corner bar outside my room has a live rock band still going at 2:30 AM, but most of the Changkat bars are low-energy. High drink prices and open-air table seating means nobody really gets rowdy...or naughty. Maybe Friday night there will be more action, more girls willing to take the risk of loitering about and propositioning men in bars. A certain cluster of massage trannies here are aggressive in their targeting of solitary men, but overall the area feels very safe. Late-night drunk eating here is not ideal, as many of the stalls and restaurants along Jalan Alor wrap up business by midnight. But there are still options on the nearby streets. Many bars serve food as well, but expect to paypig for it.

Compared to Walking Street in Angeles City, KL's Bukit Bintang is far more upscale and respectable...but drinks are a third the price in Angeles, and the women are so much more plentiful and shameless. Walking Street is definitely a rougher place; you know a red-light district is a shithole when there are no ATMs on the street. This isn't that kind of place, the streets away from the bars are quiet and safe. Don't come to Malaysia for the cooming, but if you are here in KL and have a weekend free, Bukit Bintang is worth a visit.

 

[JustGo]

A single man walking down traffic-clogged Changkat Bukit Bintang on a Friday night gets a lot of women looking his way and smiling or saying "hello". Basically, any woman on the street without a man around is free game for your approach. The prettiest street girls wander through the milling crowds, continually surveying her surroundings, so you can easily fall in any girl who catches your eye, introduce yourself, and invite her to a nearby bar to get a drink, much like you were hooking up with a chick at an American bar. It's much more freestyle than Thailand's organized nightlife, without the awkwardness of walking up to a row of loitering whores and negotiating a price for a "massage" in full view of everyone passing by.

These bars are mostly open to the street, loud & busy with normies from the nearby luxury hotels. Girls who are not customers are not welcome to loiter inside, it seems. But any coomer hanging out with his street hookup would blend in with the other couples who are having drinks together. Here it's all about keeping it low-profile. However, the inside of some clubs are not visible from the street, and have touts who solicit solitary males to enter with a "welcome bro, come on in". Chances are, that's where the more attractive girls are hanging out...but how many ringgit will you have to part with before you can get your dick wet?

To the north of Changkat Bukit Bintang are some rather sketchy and poorly lit streets which I will now venture down, to see if there are Indian women selling themselves outside their apartment buildings.

 

[BeardedUnicorn]

Thailand could have prices rise up overnight and doubled with chads and normies and would still mog most of SEA. Only issue right now is higher prices right now in pattaya due to asian simps overpaying and saving face. Flip is only good for trucel ascension

 

[You are cucks!!]

SEAcels

 

[geomaxer]

Thailand could have prices rise up overnight and doubled with chads and normies and would still mog most of SEA. Only issue right now is higher prices right now in pattaya due to asian simps overpaying and saving face. Flip is only good for trucel ascension

fuck ricecucks

 

[biggunsar]

Been in Malaysia only a couple weeks and already I want to go back to Thailand. Thailand's urban life mogs Malaysia's. More fascinating, more liberated, more choices, and better value. Yes, Malaysian food is tasty, but most restaurants are giant food halls serving up the same set meals and a la carte entrees with rice, noodle, ramen, etc. How boring. Nobody specializes in unique dishes and flavors here; there is hardly any point in prowling the streets and checking out all the little eateries & stalls for something new to try. And no, the food courts here are not any more clean or sanitary than in Thailand. The concrete is just as grimy, the prepared dishes that most people eat sit out uncovered all day, food is not heated before being served, rats scamper underfoot after dark, etc. Yes, many Malays are more friendly and chatty than Thais, but there are a fair share of workers here who hate their job and treat customers rudely. Inefficiency is rampant as well; during busy times, the dining process can degenerate into complete chaos.

Bukit Bintang is a laughable tourist trap with its aggressive masseuses and $6 "happy hour" pints. It rains or pours most every night, ruining the fun on the street. Weather forecast is fucking worthless here; yesterday it called for 100% chance of rain, but it only drizzled for five minutes. Today was 28% chance, but it dumped down close to 3 inches over two hours after dusk. Street food is limited and pricey, though some things like hamburgers and fried dough or pastries stuffed with curry slurry are very cheap. 25 RM ($5.50) for five tiny satay of grilled lamb on Jalan Alor; in Thailand I could get the same amount of haram pork for under 40 baht anywhere, around a dollar. One restaurant with cushy chairs and tablecloths advertised a delicious chicken soup with carrots and greens, but what I got was a small bowl of turbid slurry with a few rubbery shreds of chicken in the bottom, along with insistent hustle to buy something else. No wonder the place was empty.

Rooms in Malaysia are also inferior to rooms I enjoyed in Thailand, even at a higher price point. $15/night in Malaysia doesn't get you a two-star room with a fridge, desk, coffee service, and maybe a nice view, but rather a windowless and often smelly box with a bed and a bathroom, nothing more. Cleanliness is lower, maintenance is more lax, traffic noise is prevalent.
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$30 USD gets you a tourist visa for 60 days in Thailand, and $54 extra will extend that to 90 days. Staying 60 days in Malaysia will cost you $130 in tourism fees; you pay $195 for 90 days here.

been looking at all the SEA countries, all of them have some fucked up visa bullshit.

where you can only stay 30 or 90 or 180 days, but you gotta leave for at least one day and come back.

that sucks. especially the "you can stay 90 or 180 days but every 30 or 60 days you gotta reup your visitor visa"
like why be such cock gobblers. if it's a money grab, just make a fucking choice. 30 day visa is 30 bucks, a 90 day visa is 120. (so the country makes more money the longer you stay with less fucking immigration work). christ, i just liteerally came up with a better visa scheme / idea, in 15 seconds.

i swear these sub 80 cock gobblers just want to be annoying.

play the fucking visa shell game. it sucks, and EVERY SEA country does it.

 

[AlexBrown84]

been looking at all the SEA countries, all of them have some fucked up visa bullshit.

where you can only stay 30 or 90 or 180 days, but you gotta leave for at least one day and come back.

that sucks. especially the "you can stay 90 or 180 days but every 30 or 60 days you gotta reup your visitor visa"
like why be such cock gobblers. if it's a money grab, just make a fucking choice. 30 day visa is 30 bucks, a 90 day visa is 120. (so the country makes more money the longer you stay with less fucking immigration work). christ, i just liteerally came up with a better visa scheme / idea, in 15 seconds.

i swear these sub 80 cock gobblers just want to be annoying.

play the fucking visa shell game. it sucks, and EVERY SEA country does it.

thailand cambodia and philippines visas aren’t that bad

and nobody says they have problems doing visa runs for vietnam

 

[JustGo]

been looking at all the SEA countries, all of them have some fucked up visa bullshit.

where you can only stay 30 or 90 or 180 days, but you gotta leave for at least one day and come back.

The border runs are a loophole in immigration law, rather than official policy. Governments want to ban irregular residency on tourist visas, while making it easy for vacationers to take multiple trips a year to the country. The latter is a higher priority, for Thailand at least. The country allows people to take up to six vacations per year. In practice, that means you can stay up to 180 days per year in Thailand visa-free...but you have to leave every 30 days before returning for your next "vacation", maybe even in the same day if you have a monthly rental. Not how it was intended to be used, but it is technically within the rules.

Methinks the 30 day stay limits in SEA are primarily intended to make sure foreign visitors stay in short-term lodging instead of monthly rentals.

 

[JustGo]

thailand cambodia and philippines visas aren’t that bad

and nobody says they have problems doing visa runs for vietnam

Until Vietnam immigration decides not to approve your "tourist" visa because you have not spent any time outside the country in a couple years, kek. /trv/ had some rumors of that happening.

It's tough to find info on annual stay limits for foreigners in some countries, which is the most important factor for foreigners seeking to maintain an irregular residency in a country. I know some countries base it on the date of arrival, while for others it is based on the calendar year. Colombia, for instance, allows a maximum of 180 days in a calendar year, so you can technically stay 360 days in Colombia visa-free if you start on Day 185 of the calendar year and do your little exit and re-entry thing three times in the interim, getting 90 days each time. Others base the stay limit on a year starting on your arrival date, so it doesn't matter what time of the year you arrive.

 

[biggunsar]

The border runs are a loophole in immigration law, rather than official policy. Governments want to ban irregular residency on tourist visas, while making it easy for vacationers to take multiple trips a year to the country. The latter is a higher priority, for Thailand at least. The country allows people to take up to six vacations per year. In practice, that means you can stay up to 180 days per year in Thailand visa-free...but you have to leave every 30 days before returning for your next "vacation", maybe even in the same day if you have a monthly rental. Not how it was intended to be used, but it is technically within the rules.

Methinks the 30 day stay limits in SEA are primarily intended to make sure foreign visitors stay in short-term lodging instead of monthly rentals.

either way, that sucks

 

[biggunsar]

Until Vietnam immigration decides not to approve your "tourist" visa because you have not spent any time outside the country in a couple years, kek. /trv/ had some rumors of that happening.

It's tough to find info on annual stay limits for foreigners in some countries, which is the most important factor for foreigners seeking to maintain an irregular residency in a country. I know some countries base it on the date of arrival, while for others it is based on the calendar year. Colombia, for instance, allows a maximum of 180 days in a calendar year, so you can technically stay 360 days in Colombia visa-free if you start on Day 185 of the calendar year and do your little exit and re-entry thing three times in the interim, getting 90 days each time. Others base the stay limit on a year starting on your arrival date, so it doesn't matter what time of the year you arrive.

ya but the whole thing is a fucking farce

i mean, does the country NOT want your dollars?

make people pay 2 or 3 thousand dollars for a year long visa. Which can be renewed indefinetly

and they also make their citizens money from your spending

it's fucking retarded to do visa runs

im not old enough to retire, so i gotta play this fucking game. Im lazy, I like to do nothing

 

[JustGo]

ya but the whole thing is a fucking farce

i mean, does the country NOT want your dollars?

make people pay 2 or 3 thousand dollars for a year long visa. Which can be renewed indefinetly

and they also make their citizens money from your spending

it's fucking retarded to do visa runs

im not old enough to retire, so i gotta play this fucking game. Im lazy, I like to do nothing

Countries want your visitor dollars, but they don't want the average Joe Schmo living in Thailand long-term. Short-term tourists are more likely to spend $100+ per day and enjoy the local culture instead of being a cheapshit, complaining about the way things are, and demanding that everything change to better suit their Western tastes.

However, if you are determined to live in Thailand, that's what the Thailand Privilege program is for. Requirements are stringent, but you can stay up to 20 years in the country. No poorfags allowed.

Contrary to what the Jewish world order insists with their open borders agenda, nobody has a right to establish residence in a foreign country.

 

[biggunsar]

Countries want your visitor dollars, but they don't want the average Joe Schmo living in Thailand long-term. Short-term tourists are more likely to spend $100+ per day and enjoy the local culture instead of being a cheapshit, complaining about the way things are, and demanding that everything change to better suit their Western tastes.

However, if you are determined to live in Thailand, that's what the Thailand Privilege program is for. Requirements are stringent, but you can stay up to 20 years in the country. No poorfags allowed.

Contrary to what the Jewish world order insists with their open borders agenda, nobody has a right to establish residence in a foreign country.

in no way am i saying we have a right to stay indefintely, unless you have the money

that is why i say, charge 2 or 3k for a year long visa. which you do not have to do a border run, but just renew.

I would be happy to pay that

 

[younglivinglife]

Malysia is catered to (usually Asian) foreign businessman looking to retire. The visa is not sustainable either.

 

[Noodlewhoreslayer]

Thailand is a great country for geomaxxing. Just make sure you can tell the difference between the trannies & the real biological women though jfl.
I actually can. Skull size is the biggest giveaway for me.

 

[younglivinglife]

Thailand is a great country for geomaxxing. Just make sure you can tell the difference between the trannies & the real biological women though jfl.
I actually can. Skull size is the biggest giveaway for me.

Be careful about Tinder dates.

 

[RetireAndCope]

I've met two Malaysians so far who were quite intelligent and engaged in hourslong conversations about a wide range of topics. Both were hotelkeepers, and our conversations started as business chats before progressing into discussion of world affairs, national cultures, and a whole slew of topics. Someone who is highly extroverted can spend the entire day in conversation here if they wish. In Malaysia it is very common to see groups of male friends engaging in prolonged and intense conversations...it's one way to pass the time in a society with few vices & distractions. Of course, they rarely speak English amongst themselves, as friend groups are usually monoethnic...but most Malaysians (in KL at least) are both capable and willing to speak fluent English with foreigners.

Malaysian men are simple extroverts, and Malaysian efforts at befriending you are rarely an attempt at hustling, scamming, or conning. Single women can be willing to talk to men as well, but if their dad or uncle is keeping a watchful eye from nearby, they will be more careful and demure. In Malaysia, Indians are the most deferential, Chinese tend to be more curt and businesslike, while Malays run the gamut from exuberant to grumpy.

The language barrier in Thailand is the #1 greatest influence on a foreigner's experience with the Thai people. However, even amongst themselves, Thais are not extremely chatty, and tend to be subdued when they are visiting with their friends. Even low-class Thais who drink many bottles of beer in the street don't get loud and rowdy, and wouldn't think of hollering at a passing stranger like drunks in the rest of the world do. If you are someone who loves making small talk while traveling and using a lot of words to get your point across, you are far more likely to perceive coldness, rudeness, and exasperation on the street in Thailand. Whereas if you are someone who prefers to communicate minimally and be silent when you are have nothing to say, you will feel very comfortable interacting with the Thai people.

Of course, your experience in tourist-oriented areas of Thailand will be vastly different from your experience in local eateries. The kiss-ass, smiling service many foreigners expect is a behavior adopted to make tourists feel more welcome in a country where everything is unreadable and unpronounceable. The real Thai nature is to show no emotion toward a complete stranger, only basic politeness and service with maximum efficiency. To keep things simple, I go about life in Thailand as if Thais don't understand English. Their little expressions of appreciation for my hassle-free business brighten my day more than the most extroverted overtures of friendship.

Of course, when interacting with youths, sometimes you just have to laugh together over the mutual incomprehension. With older folks I am deferential and never pushy. Dignity is very important for the seniors who work as street vendors, and insistent demands in English are humiliating to them. Whereas in Malaysia, you often have to badger restaurant staff, because everything is a shitshow and the staff will repeatedly ignore you if you wait silently with money in hand. Bullshitting over the menu offerings or prices before ordering is also standard behavior in Malaysia's heavily staffed restaurants, while in small Thai eateries, it is an annoying disruption to the smooth flow of work.

Great info about Malaysia cheers

 

[Jamesothy]

Been in Malaysia only a couple weeks and already I want to go back to Thailand. Thailand's urban life mogs Malaysia's. More fascinating, more liberated, more choices, and better value. Yes, Malaysian food is tasty, but most restaurants are giant food halls serving up the same set meals and a la carte entrees with rice, noodle, ramen, etc. How boring. Nobody specializes in unique dishes and flavors here; there is hardly any point in prowling the streets and checking out all the little eateries & stalls for something new to try. And no, the food courts here are not any more clean or sanitary than in Thailand. The concrete is just as grimy, the prepared dishes that most people eat sit out uncovered all day, food is not heated before being served, rats scamper underfoot after dark, etc. Yes, many Malays are more friendly and chatty than Thais, but there are a fair share of workers here who hate their job and treat customers rudely. Inefficiency is rampant as well; during busy times, the dining process can degenerate into complete chaos.

Bukit Bintang is a laughable tourist trap with its aggressive masseuses and $6 "happy hour" pints. It rains or pours most every night, ruining the fun on the street. Weather forecast is fucking worthless here; yesterday it called for 100% chance of rain, but it only drizzled for five minutes. Today was 28% chance, but it dumped down close to 3 inches over two hours after dusk. Street food is limited and pricey, though some things like hamburgers and fried dough or pastries stuffed with curry slurry are very cheap. 25 RM ($5.50) for five tiny satay of grilled lamb on Jalan Alor; in Thailand I could get the same amount of haram pork for under 40 baht anywhere, around a dollar. One restaurant with cushy chairs and tablecloths advertised a delicious chicken soup with carrots and greens, but what I got was a small bowl of turbid slurry with a few rubbery shreds of chicken in the bottom, along with insistent hustle to buy something else. No wonder the place was empty.

Rooms in Malaysia are also inferior to rooms I enjoyed in Thailand, even at a higher price point. $15/night in Malaysia doesn't get you a two-star room with a fridge, desk, coffee service, and maybe a nice view, but rather a windowless and often smelly box with a bed and a bathroom, nothing more. Cleanliness is lower, maintenance is more lax, traffic noise is prevalent.
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$30 USD gets you a tourist visa for 60 days in Thailand, and $54 extra will extend that to 90 days. Staying 60 days in Malaysia will cost you $130 in tourism fees; you pay $195 for 90 days here.

This thread didn't age well.

 

[Jamesothy]

Thailand is a great country for geomaxxing. Just make sure you can tell the difference between the trannies & the real biological women though jfl.
I actually can. Skull size is the biggest giveaway for me.

Biggest give away is in their behavior. A girl, no matter what, will always show a little hint of shyness about taking off her clothes and getting fucked by you if you're a little bit intimidating in your natural demeanor or as a strategic behavior. It's a kind of shyness that a man could never imitate.

 

[biggunsar]

This thread didn't age well.

i been to malaysia twice. never liked it. it was cool cause i can speak a caveman level bahasia indonesia. So they understood me.
english was fairly common there
i found teh girls somewhat more attractive than indos

BUT they were fucking snobby.
maybe i was in the wrong area

but i had WHITE girls hitting on me. more than the malaysians.

like thirsty white girls (and no not fat or ugly) normal bar chicks. But i was not interested. simply because i left the west cause i was tired of my "age" being my baggage. So white girls are written off. As shallow only thinking about the now and never ahead of the game cunts.

I mean the way i see it. im 45. middle age is 35. and average. AVERAGE life expectancy of a western person is 74. That means in 30 years or less, i am no longer on this planet. that means if a 25 YO chick gets with me. when shes' 55 at worst case senario. she's independantly wealthy with properties in the cayman islands. get preggo and that is the anchor.

it baffles me why asian girls think "long term" but white girls cannot. they try to get with guys their age or a bit older. 30 years later, the guy doesnt' want her old saggy ass. leaves her for younger. (usually a fling) and she's undatable. So...how did that "i don't date older guys thing" work out for you, you stupid cunt

get with a guy who is 45 now. in even 20 years. im 65. Im not clubbing LOL. you have absolutely ZERO competition. I am on lock down for you, until i die. Its like a guaranteed million plus. that will continue making you money (rental properties) and once im 60. my libido goes down like all men, you do absolutely nothing but drink, chill and relax.

 

[Jamesothy]

i been to malaysia twice. never liked it. it was cool cause i can speak a caveman level bahasia indonesia. So they understood me.
english was fairly common there
i found teh girls somewhat more attractive than indos

BUT they were fucking snobby.
maybe i was in the wrong area

but i had WHITE girls hitting on me. more than the malaysians.

like thirsty white girls (and no not fat or ugly) normal bar chicks. But i was not interested. simply because i left the west cause i was tired of my "age" being my baggage. So white girls are written off. As shallow only thinking about the now and never ahead of the game cunts.

I mean the way i see it. im 45. middle age is 35. and average. AVERAGE life expectancy of a western person is 74. That means in 30 years or less, i am no longer on this planet. that means if a 25 YO chick gets with me. when shes' 55 at worst case senario. she's independantly wealthy with properties in the cayman islands. get preggo and that is the anchor.

it baffles me why asian girls think "long term" but white girls cannot. they try to get with guys their age or a bit older. 30 years later, the guy doesnt' want her old saggy ass. leaves her for younger. (usually a fling) and she's undatable. So...how did that "i don't date older guys thing" work out for you, you stupid cunt

get with a guy who is 45 now. in even 20 years. im 65. Im not clubbing LOL. you have absolutely ZERO competition. I am on lock down for you, until i die. Its like a guaranteed million plus. that will continue making you money (rental properties) and once im 60. my libido goes down like all men, you do absolutely nothing but drink, chill and relax.

I don't know about all that. Incentivising her to be with you by promising she'll be a millionaire when you're dead.

 

[biggunsar]

I don't know about all that. Incentivising her to be with you by promising she'll be a millionaire when you're dead.

maybe cause im a guy and think logically

i don't know

 

[BiggChungus]

I like the variety of girls there. theoretically you could also get married to three women at the same time. gotta look for the silver lining

 

[Jamesothy]

maybe cause im a guy and think logically

i don't know

You want a girl to want you for your money? You want her sitting around waiting to die so they can be "free" with their money? "When's this mother fucker gonna die already?" That's what you want the theme on her end of the relationship to be?

I honestly cannot see the logic in this.

 

[Lebensraum]

maybe cause im a guy and think logically

i don't know

Women don't think logically, so it's naive to expect them to. Logic is pussy drying attribute. You should learn to play with people's emotions.

 

[jar crib]

Malaysian women are annoying little shits who don't put out easily on the first date.

I find Malaysia to be a vain, useless country whose buildings are made of carboard (you can hear traffic noise even if in a high standing building). The people are nasty little vermin that hate each other and are despicable.

 

[AlexBrown84]

Malaysian women are annoying little shits who don't put out easily on the first date.

Skill issue

 

[biggunsar]

Women don't think logically, so it's naive to expect them to. Logic is pussy drying attribute. You should learn to play with people's emotions.

im a sociopath, so i don't understand emotions that well (at all!). I am getting better. But ya, i am useless at reading faces

 

[Lebensraum]

im a sociopath, so i don't understand emotions that well (at all!). I am getting better. But ya, i am useless at reading faces

If you are a sociopath, you should be able to academically learn everything about body language.

 

[biggunsar]

If you are a sociopath, you should be able to academically learn everything about body language.

no, not true. And sociopaths are good at manipulation. true. but we have no filter when it comes to saying things. so we can end up heating someone's feelings and not even realize it. its happened to me many many many times.

 

[Lebensraum]

no, not true. And sociopaths are good at manipulation. true. but we have no filter when it comes to saying things. so we can end up heating someone's feelings and not even realize it. its happened to me many many many times.

I'm not sure sociopaths can be good at manipulation if they have no filter. Maybe your confusing with psychopaths? Psychos generally are unhinged, sociopaths have some street smarts and awareness of body language, cues and superficial (fake) charisma.

 

[biggunsar]

You want a girl to want you for your money? You want her sitting around waiting to die so they can be "free" with their money? "When's this mother fucker gonna die already?" That's what you want the theme on her end of the relationship to be?

I honestly cannot see the logic in this.

well no, but if you REALLLY think a girl isn't contemplating "how he's going to take care of me" then you are retarded.
any girl past teh age of 30 is thinking EXACTLY that.
have you not been on insta and seen all the girls who say EXACTLY what i just said. I mean, yes im being crass. i could be more "politically" inclined to put it in a better way. but why the small talk. Just tell it how i actually see all relationships.

thats why teen and 20 is prime bitches, cause they are all stupid. They think for teh now, not the future.

 

[Jamesothy]

well no, but if you REALLLY think a girl isn't contemplating "how he's going to take care of me" then you are retarded.
any girl past teh age of 30 is thinking EXACTLY that.
have you not been on insta and seen all the girls who say EXACTLY what i just said. I mean, yes im being crass. i could be more "politically" inclined to put it in a better way. but why the small talk. Just tell it how i actually see all relationships.

thats why teen and 20 is prime bitches, cause they are all stupid. They think for teh now, not the future.

No, I haven't looked at what girls have said in Instagram. And I wouldn't date girls who are on there either.

 

[Lebensraum]

No, I haven't looked at what girls have said in Instagram. And I wouldn't date girls who are on there either.

ALL girls are on instagram. NO EXCEPTIONS. If she isn't on Instagram, there is something SERIOUSLY wrong with her.

 

[Jamesothy]

ALL girls are on instagram. NO EXCEPTIONS. If she isn't on Instagram, there is something SERIOUSLY wrong with her.

Yeah, I'll pass on them all. No girls in my life are on Instagram, or Facebook, or Snapchat, or twitter etc.

 

[Lebensraum]

Yeah, I'll pass on them all. No girls in my life are on Instagram, or Facebook, or Snapchat, or twitter etc.

I'm sorry, but you are delusional. Literally 100% of the girls are on instagram. At least in the West, maybe China is different.

 

[Jamesothy]

I'm sorry, but you are delusional. Literally 100% of the girls are on instagram. At least in the West, maybe China is different.

They got their own weibo shit. No man. I beg to differ. There are girls to be found who aren't on any of that junk. You just don't know where and how to look for them. That's one thing young people always got going against them no matter where they're from. They're often too inexperienced to find the finer things in life that they really want. I'm not delusional at all.

 

[ExcuseMe]

They got their own weibo shit. No man. I beg to differ. There are girls to be found who aren't on any of that junk. You just don't know where and how to look for them. That's one thing young people always got going against them no matter where they're from. They're often too inexperienced to find the finer things in life that they really want. I'm not delusional at all.

where do you find women that don't use social media?

 

[geneblackman]

I'm sorry, but you are delusional. Literally 100% of the girls are on instagram. At least in the West, maybe China is different.

I can confirm that even many Chinese girls take the effort to go through a VPN in order to get on Instagram

 

[Jamesothy]

I can confirm that even many Chinese girls take the effort to go through a VPN in order to get on Instagram

You just don't know where to find the good ones.

 

[Jamesothy]

where do you find women that don't use social media?

At work.

 

[biggunsar]

Yeah, I'll pass on them all. No girls in my life are on Instagram, or Facebook, or Snapchat, or twitter etc.

ahh so you date amish or 7 yo's?
Good strategy

 

[ExcuseMe]

At work.

you work at a kindergarten?

 

[Jamesothy]

you work at a kindergarten?

Yeah that's a good place. They hire lots of young pretty girls fresh out of college.

 

[Jamesothy]

ahh so you date amish or 7 yo's?
Good strategy

Oh, you're in Indo. You won't find girls without Instagram or Facebook in South East Asia besides in Burma, Laos, and maybe Vietnam. Thailand too but probably not accessable to foreigners even if they're fluent in Thai.

I've heard Indonesia's bad though. Friend of mine in Cambodia who did business in Indo for 5 years said to never marry and Indonesian woman because they fuck like rabbits and can never stay faithful. He was still in his 20's when I knew him ten years ago and he himself never married an Indonesian woman.

 

[geneblackman]

You just don't know where to find the good ones.

I don't think it's fair to say that because a (Chinese) woman has IG that means she's not a good one. Many Chinese women from first and second tier cities will be on IG. In Russia, it's the same thing. Many women use a VPN there too to get on it.

Women are highly social. I would find it weird if she didn't have an IG or Tiktok to be honest