Thailand has become more difficult than other SEA countries to get laid

[AlexBrown84]

Disagree. Dating in my 30s is exponentially easier. I just published a piece on this actually. I was back in the US for my early 30s as well so I'm also using that as a reference point.

Is dating in your 30s easier than your 20s?

A look into biology and modern dating dynamics around the world

borderlesscollective.substack.com

looks interesting, i’ll read it later tonight

 

[QuantativeAnalyticalBS]

Disagree. Dating in my 30s is exponentially easier. I just published a piece on this actually. I was back in the US for my early 30s as well so I'm also using that as a reference point.

Is dating in your 30s easier than your 20s?

A look into biology and modern dating dynamics around the world

borderlesscollective.substack.com

Your article is pseudo red pill outdated nonsense. The manosphere has moved on.

All of the available data shows that women prefer a partner who's only a couple of years older than themselves in developed countries and they select for status and looks. They have their own careers and don't need a man's resources anymore to survive. In deprived countries like the Philippines, the women select primarily for wealth, so of course older males will be prefer by them but that doesn't mean they desire them sexually. Let's call it what it is, it's glorified betabuxing on a global scale.

 

[jbw4life]

Your article is pseudo red pill outdated nonsense. The manosphere has moved on.

All of the available data shows that women prefer a partner who's only a couple of years older than themselves in developed countries and they select for status and looks. They have their own careers and don't need a man's resources anymore to survive. In deprived countries like the Philippines, the women select primarily for wealth, so of course older males will be prefer by them but that doesn't mean they desire them sexually. Let's call it what it is, it's glorified betabuxing on a global scale.

I guess it also depends how good you look in your 30’s or if you can get away saying you are younger than your real age
but it’s funny how they always give the leonardo dicaprio example in these articles

 

[bittersweet]

This is the reason why. @KingOfAsia watch this!

"How you know BBC. "
Spit out my drink. Cage. It's over for JBW. Why the fuck would a thai hoe want to get laid with this:
*pictured: average nomad.
When she has a lean Tyrone. Let's be real for a sec. It's saturated. It's time to move on.

 

[QuantativeAnalyticalBS]

"How you know BBC. "
Spit out my drink. Cage. It's over for JBW. Why the fuck would a thai hoe want to get laid with this:

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Let's be real for a sec.

Yep. It's a fact that rough around the edges types of women who drink and do drugs prefer black men sexually, not white men. That's not to say they won't find the odd masculine tanned white guy attractive. The data also shows this.

 

[QuantativeAnalyticalBS]

I guess it also depends how good you look in your 30’s or if you can get away saying you are younger than your real age
but it’s funny how they always give the leonardo dicaprio example in these articles

Indeed. In rare cases, some men do look better in their early to mid 30s compared to their 20s.

 

[biggunsar]

Thanks for letting me know. I really try to avoid that. Seemingly it will be very lonely...

I guess since PH is cheap, you meet a lot of weird people. Even more for Thailand.

in my one day there, i didn't find PH that cheap, to be honest.

and thats' coming from a year living in DR

 

[biggunsar]

Your article is pseudo red pill outdated nonsense. The manosphere has moved on.

All of the available data shows that women prefer a partner who's only a couple of years older than themselves in developed countries and they select for status and looks. They have their own careers and don't need a man's resources anymore to survive. In deprived countries like the Philippines, the women select primarily for wealth, so of course older males will be prefer by them but that doesn't mean they desire them sexually. Let's call it what it is, it's glorified betabuxing on a global scale.

correct
women who want love, usually look for partners their age. They want to "last a lifetime" with their partners. They are not looking at getting everything now. They know the men don't have everything. It's why cars, almost any car. or he lives in his own apartment. Small insignificant things that men with money don't register as special. Is an attraction factor for women like this. The challenge is to face life together. and gain wealth together.

women who want everything NOW, look for the provider. no matter the age. it's not love they are doing it for. they want a comfy lifestyle now, and usually only older men can provide that for them. We are talking about men on averages not exceptions.

now i believe what decides a womans "goals" is their sexual orientation. Let me explain. In a guys language.

some of us will fuck an older woman. Some of us wont. Some of us who wont' will make exceptions if she's incredibly hot older 40 or 50 year old (there are some that are still hot like, salma hyek or sophia vargera or whatever the fuck their names are). But since most older women look like dog shit. You REALLY have to like older women. if you want to date an older woman only for money. Otherwise, you just dont' think the money or "things" are worth it.

women are the same. Depending on their sexual orientation (we like to call it daddy issues). if a woman will fuck an older guy with passion, she's more likely to want material things. Because she knows she can get them. And their is not "puking everytime she fucks the old guy" thought process.

women who are not attracted to sex with an older guy will always migrate to "love". cause there is no other option for them.

and that's how i break that situation down

 

[younglivinglife]

in my one day there, i didn't find PH that cheap, to be honest.

and thats' coming from a year living in DR

I know its not cheap but it also has many more options. Its one of most expensiv places besides Singapore. Compared to EU can be still cheaper by few hundred.

I would say price isnt all

 

[biggunsar]

I know its not cheap but it also has many more options. Its one of most expensiv places besides Singapore. Compared to EU can be still cheaper by few hundred.

I would say price isnt all

for me, i have an inner jew. So i go where it's cheapest. but i try to live well, while living cheap. that's the challenge. I bank most of my money.
I can hear yoda's voice when describing me "hmmm the jew is strong in this one" LOL

 

[QuantativeAnalyticalBS]

correct
women who want love, usually look for partners their age. They want to "last a lifetime" with their partners. They are not looking at getting everything now. They know the men don't have everything. It's why cars, almost any car. or he lives in his own apartment. Small insignificant things that men with money don't register as special. Is an attraction factor for women like this. The challenge is to face life together. and gain wealth together.

But there's ultimately incompability with these types of 'loving' long term relationships. One is that a man doesn't want to fuck the same woman his entire life, hence married men visiting escorts, and another being that women are hypergamous whores who are never satisfied, hence the high divorce rates. I personally don't like the idea of compromising on my manhood to appease a bitch in a modern gynocentric shit show of a society.

 

[biggunsar]

But there's ultimately incompability with these types of 'loving' long term relationships. One is that a man doesn't want to fuck the same woman his entire life, hence married men visiting escorts, and another being that women are hypergamous whores who are never satisfied, hence the high divorce rates. I personally don't like the idea of compromising on my manhood to appease a bitch in a modern gynocentric shit show of a society.

i have a theory about this too

there are bucks and bluejays my friend

bucks are men who will never be happy with simply one piece of pussy. (most men fall into this catagory) and the reason for this and the need for most men to be like this, is to keep the human race going. So they will never be happily married with one woman.

(look at world population and then look at morality. as morality declines populations increase) good or bad, it keeps humanity alive.

then there is the blue jay, happy to mate for life. SOME men are like this. some men who are bucks try to be bluejays, but rarely does it work for them. usually ends in divorce.

 

[Borderless Collective]

correct
women who want love, usually look for partners their age. They want to "last a lifetime" with their partners. They are not looking at getting everything now. They know the men don't have everything. It's why cars, almost any car. or he lives in his own apartment. Small insignificant things that men with money don't register as special. Is an attraction factor for women like this. The challenge is to face life together. and gain wealth together.

women who want everything NOW, look for the provider. no matter the age. it's not love they are doing it for. they want a comfy lifestyle now, and usually only older men can provide that for them. We are talking about men on averages not exceptions.

now i believe what decides a womans "goals" is their sexual orientation. Let me explain. In a guys language.

some of us will fuck an older woman. Some of us wont. Some of us who wont' will make exceptions if she's incredibly hot older 40 or 50 year old (there are some that are still hot like, salma hyek or sophia vargera or whatever the fuck their names are). But since most older women look like dog shit. You REALLY have to like older women. if you want to date an older woman only for money. Otherwise, you just dont' think the money or "things" are worth it.

women are the same. Depending on their sexual orientation (we like to call it daddy issues). if a woman will fuck an older guy with passion, she's more likely to want material things. Because she knows she can get them. And their is not "puking everytime she fucks the old guy" thought process.

women who are not attracted to sex with an older guy will always migrate to "love". cause there is no other option for them.

and that's how i break that situation down

Disagree.

I'm late 30s and solely date 18-25 years old, but most GFs are about 22. This 'last a lifetime' theory is false IME.

Women looking for love do what their DNA tells them to do: Secure a high value male with resources to take care of her, the offspring, and the family. They want a guy that already has wealth (women wait at the finish line for the winners, after all). They're looking at long-term prospects of the guy, and a 30+ year old guy already has a clear track record in this regard. She can see his lifestyle and has a much better marker for the provider he'll be.

I don't play the sugar role either.

It all comes down to status.

 

[JustGo]

I have avoided Thailand since so many foreigners there. Novelty is completly off unless you try Chiang Mai suburbs or villages.
Spent 2 months there spending a lot of money tho

Heads turn in Uttaradit when they see a foreigner. Kids say "hi" and wave. Go downtown and you don't see any signs of modern Thailand. It's like stepping back in time.

 

[younglivinglife]

Heads turn in Uttaradit when they see a foreigner. Kids say "hi" and wave. Go downtown and you don't see any signs of modern Thailand. It's like stepping back in time.

Thanks, will definitly check that out!
Excited

 

[JustGo]

Meeting a significant other by randomly approaching women on the street has never been the norm. People, even in the current year, primarily meet women through their social circles formed during their formative years or at work. You know nothing.

what's all this about "significan other"? Good-looking men have always left a trail of conquests wherever they go. No, they don't walk up to random chicks and beg them to accept gifts & entertainment like a beta faggot. That kind of cold approach tells a tale of desperation. And no, Chad doesn't push himself on girls who are not in heat.

 

[JustGo]

Meeting a significant other by randomly approaching women on the street has never been the norm. People, even in the current year, primarily meet women through their social circles formed during their formative years or at work. You know nothing.

what's all this about "significan other"? Good-looking men have always left a trail of conquests wherever they go. No, they don't walk up to random chicks and beg them to accept gifts & entertainment like a beta faggot. That kind of cold approach tells a tale of desperation.

Disagree.

I'm late 30s and solely date 18-25 years old, but most GFs are about 22. This 'last a lifetime' theory is false IME.

Women looking for love do what their DNA tells them to do: Secure a high value male with resources to take care of her, the offspring, and the family. They want a guy that already has wealth (women wait at the finish line for the winners, after all). They're looking at long-term prospects of the guy, and a 30+ year old guy already has a clear track record in this regard. She can see his lifestyle and has a much better marker for the provider he'll be.

I don't play the sugar role either.

It all comes down to status.

The power dynamics differ tremendously between age-parity and age-disparate relationships, though a lot depends on the character of the man. If you have a strong, stable and mature character, you will naturally dominate a younger woman, without having to use aggression or petulance to get your way.
On the flip side, a man at 30 who has spent his 20s wandering around and bullshitting is going to be unattractive to virtually all 30 yo roasties.
THEY had their fun whoring around and wasting money in their 20s, but they'll be damned if they'll settle down with a man who did the same.

 

[Borderless Collective]

what's all this about "significan other"? Good-looking men have always left a trail of conquests wherever they go. No, they don't walk up to random chicks and beg them to accept gifts & entertainment like a beta faggot. That kind of cold approach tells a tale of desperation.

The power dynamics differ tremendously between age-parity and age-disparate relationships, though a lot depends on the character of the man. If you have a strong, stable and mature character, you will naturally dominate a younger woman, without having to use aggression or petulance to get your way.
On the flip side, a man at 30 who has spent his 20s wandering around and bullshitting is going to be unattractive to virtually all 30 yo roasties.
THEY had their fun whoring around and wasting money in their 20s, but they'll be damned if they'll settle down with a man who did the same.

Once 30 year olds hit 'the wall,' they'll settle for a lot more than they thought they would a few years earlier. Plenty of blue pilled guys will happily swoop them up.

In my case, I screwed up majorly from age 18-25. I had no money / status / etc. I turned that around and now in my late 30s it's night and day different. Girls like the fact that I went through this transformation. I solely date girls ~22 years old on average, w/out going over 25 or so.

 

[biggunsar]

Once 30 year olds hit 'the wall,' they'll settle for a lot more than they thought they would a few years earlier. Plenty of blue pilled guys will happily swoop them up.

In my case, I screwed up majorly from age 18-25. I had no money / status / etc. I turned that around and now in my late 30s it's night and day different. Girls like the fact that I went through this transformation. I solely date girls ~22 years old on average, w/out going over 25 or so.

i still do this, and im 44

 

[biggunsar]

Disagree.

I'm late 30s and solely date 18-25 years old, but most GFs are about 22. This 'last a lifetime' theory is false IME.

Women looking for love do what their DNA tells them to do: Secure a high value male with resources to take care of her, the offspring, and the family. They want a guy that already has wealth (women wait at the finish line for the winners, after all). They're looking at long-term prospects of the guy, and a 30+ year old guy already has a clear track record in this regard. She can see his lifestyle and has a much better marker for the provider he'll be.

I don't play the sugar role either.

It all comes down to status.

it's not false, women who go in it for "love" do not expect a shelf life on that relationship. They are thinking they are building something.
its why they have low expectations of your "worth" concerning what you have "now".

women who do it for money, don't care how long the relationship lasts, they look at your worth NOW. And you can see their mental time line of you, by how much they try to gouge you. Girl is trying to take everything you got. she doesn't care if the relationship is done tomorrow. She got what she could from you. There was no more planning other than that.

girl who is slowly siphoning from you, wants it to last a little longer than tomorrow.

 

[QuantativeAnalyticalBS]

it's not false, women who go in it for "love" do not expect a shelf life on that relationship. They are thinking they are building something.
its why they have low expectations of your "worth" concerning what you have "now".

But if the man doesn't live up to the woman's expectations, she'll eventually discard of him. Every woman has differing levels for their hypergamy.. Women are primarily serial maters who go from man to man trying to fulfil their hypergamy. Ultimately, we're better off not getting involved with a woman for the long term but as men we should only aspire to get involved with women for short term relationships during the initial honeymoon phase. Without enforced monogamy, long term relationships are completely worthless.

 

[Borderless Collective]

it's not false, women who go in it for "love" do not expect a shelf life on that relationship. They are thinking they are building something.
its why they have low expectations of your "worth" concerning what you have "now".

women who do it for money, don't care how long the relationship lasts, they look at your worth NOW. And you can see their mental time line of you, by how much they try to gouge you. Girl is trying to take everything you got. she doesn't care if the relationship is done tomorrow. She got what she could from you. There was no more planning other than that.

girl who is slowly siphoning from you, wants it to last a little longer than tomorrow.

All girls do it for 'money.' Some are just more explicit about it (e.g. Colombia, EE). As long as the cash comes in and she can post IG photos from beachside resorts and rooftop bars, it's all good. Once that stops, she's gone.

It just represents resources for her and the offspring. It's deeply embedded in her subconscious. Just like how guys see big boobs and wide hips representing deeply embedded signals.

Especially for those looking for love / LTRs.

Short-term they'll go for the dark triad stuff and date losers with no money but are 'bad boys,' however once they look to settle down they ultimately shift their desires to 'what can he bring me in terms of resources.'

It's why guys flash watches, cars, penthouses. It represents all of this to women. It's all part of competing in the sexual marketplace. It also boosts our egos because we can flash it to other men as well since they don't have what we have (but again, this all ties back to the SMP, that we can outcompete them).