How feasible, regarding laws and overall, could be to have many babies with different women in many different places? What i mean is that, i believe one of the endgoals of life itself is reproduction, the thought of having kids, a lineage, someone to carry your surname too in some cases. HOWEVER, having kids can be a nightmare for modern "quality of life" standards (it definitely takes a big hit on modern qol, i think we all know what raising a kid takes, physically and emotionally mostly) not only that but if you do it "on your homeland" its like public news for everyone, and if the partner decides she doesnt want you anymore in her life then she takes your kids, money, prestige, etc. Its pretty bad and i think its this way for the majority of the western world
My very simple and "naive" idea would be to, maybe in the future, once i got a good amount of $ and my life a little bit more in order, go to some countries, the furthest from my city/less culturally similar/with laws protecting the father more the better, go there enjoy myself have a nice vacation, meet girls and such, and then maybe start a family there with some girl if we hit it off well and we both decide to, or if it just "happens". But i wouldnt be present most of the time (maybe come for like 2 weeks per year and such), like i would still continue travelling on my own and doing my things, or being at my hometown, but i would go visit them from time to time, and keep contact via cellphone almost constantly. I know for some people that may sound foul and "bad", but you would be helping them financially, which for them is worth 1000x than if you were just helping her with raising him/her. The overall idea behind would be that, yes you have a kid, or many, somewhere in the world, yes you have contact with them, yes you talk to the mother and such, yes you CAN if you want go there and help her as much as you want (be more present), but you also got a whole lot more liberty, and pay for it with $ as all things in the world.
I know some people also think they could get her pregnant then leave, but i dont think thats the best idea, its a pretty dick move, sure its a good way to have as many kids as possible, by taking random chances every time you go with a girl (and also risk getting diseases), its like spraying seeds on a field hoping one or a couple will grow, but at the same time you would have no idea who your kid is, you would know you probably have some going around the world, but no connection with them, almost like gengis khan. (Mind you this is still very common nowadays in a lot of underdeveloped countries around the world, even in 1st world countries like the USA, its something HUNDREDS of MILLIONS of men have ever done in their lifetime, and a lot even multiple times)
Its a very premature idea that i was just thinking, nothing too "serious" but i think it has its pros and cons, ¿what do you guys think about it? can you help me find some more pros and cons?
My very simple and "naive" idea would be to, maybe in the future, once i got a good amount of $ and my life a little bit more in order, go to some countries, the furthest from my city/less culturally similar/with laws protecting the father more the better, go there enjoy myself have a nice vacation, meet girls and such, and then maybe start a family there with some girl if we hit it off well and we both decide to, or if it just "happens". But i wouldnt be present most of the time (maybe come for like 2 weeks per year and such), like i would still continue travelling on my own and doing my things, or being at my hometown, but i would go visit them from time to time, and keep contact via cellphone almost constantly. I know for some people that may sound foul and "bad", but you would be helping them financially, which for them is worth 1000x than if you were just helping her with raising him/her. The overall idea behind would be that, yes you have a kid, or many, somewhere in the world, yes you have contact with them, yes you talk to the mother and such, yes you CAN if you want go there and help her as much as you want (be more present), but you also got a whole lot more liberty, and pay for it with $ as all things in the world.
I know some people also think they could get her pregnant then leave, but i dont think thats the best idea, its a pretty dick move, sure its a good way to have as many kids as possible, by taking random chances every time you go with a girl (and also risk getting diseases), its like spraying seeds on a field hoping one or a couple will grow, but at the same time you would have no idea who your kid is, you would know you probably have some going around the world, but no connection with them, almost like gengis khan. (Mind you this is still very common nowadays in a lot of underdeveloped countries around the world, even in 1st world countries like the USA, its something HUNDREDS of MILLIONS of men have ever done in their lifetime, and a lot even multiple times)
Its a very premature idea that i was just thinking, nothing too "serious" but i think it has its pros and cons, ¿what do you guys think about it? can you help me find some more pros and cons?