Yuezhi
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- May 13, 2025
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While I am not looking to get married just yet, I am curious about where the best place in Europe would be to get this when I do consider settling down eventually.
While I am still likely going to China to teach in the near future, in all honestly I would like to find a way to geomax to northeastern Europe as I specifically prefer very light to platinum blonde haired girls and would like to live in a place where I can more easily assimilate relatively in, as if we're being honest you can never really do so in East Asia outside of maybe Hong Kong or Singapore.
My kryptonite is this phenotype specifically which I'd call the angel or elf type like so:

From my research Russia and the Baltics are the best places for this since Scandinavia is off the table for obvious reasons. Via Chatgpt and Grok, specifically north eastern Russian and Moscow seem to be the best areas to look for that exact type of girl in that country which makes sense via the proximity to Scandinavia, with the locals being historically mixed with Finnic and Baltic tribes as well as Norse settlers during the Kievan Rus era.
Russia:
Regarding income, there are some international teaching jobs in Moscow and St Petersburg and I may be able to get a position in those places with 0 to little prior experience just because some schools are very desperate given the geopolitical tensions and therefore lack of western teacher applicants. However, there are a lot of caveats with going there at least until the war ends as an American citizen.
One in particular would be the difficulty in transferring money out of the country. However I do have dual citizenship with another western country so I could apply for a visa that way to reduce the risk of living there.
I'm considering doing this after getting a couple years of experience in China just to ensure that I like teaching and am fully committed by then, plus maybe the conflict will be over by then.
I've seen salaries at the 2nd tier schools that seem to average close to 3k post tax usd equivalent in Moscow and Petersburg and schools usually cover rent and utilities but I'm not sure if that would be enough to save a decent amount with how expensive Moscow can be. I'm thinking St Petersburg could be better as there would be more girls with the phenotype that I like but I remember reading that there were more feminist and hipster types there, although still a minority. Maybe it's gotten worse since the 2010s in that regard.
I also know 0 Russian so would have to work on learning that along with Chinese which is not that conducive. I might be able to also luck out and get a position at the better schools and get more money but that often comes with an increased workload.
Another thing with Russian girls from what I understand is that a some are of the more gold diggerish type in the bigger cities and prefer a macho guy who needs to lead them 100% of the time. I have read many reports of how they can be quite manipulative and cold and you have to have very strong frame with them which is not something I'd like to deal with as I want a girl who is submissive and intelligent and is not an ice queen trying to play crazy mind games and test me most of the time(most women do test you occasionally but this is another level). Can i find girls like this in these cities?
I could also try looking in places like Tver, Pskov, Veliky Novgorod, Petrozavodsk and Murmansk while teaching in either of the biggest cities when I have time off during the summer. Problem is these places have 200-400k people so they are a bit on the smaller side and probably have less attractive women since more of them would have moved to the bigger cities.
Baltics and Belarus:
I did briefly pass through the Baltics when I was younger and do remember seeing some girls that looked like this in Latvia and Estonia and to a lesser extent Lithuania and much lesser so, Poland. Problem is those countries are supposedly more westernized but they'd be easier to live in outside of salary concerns of which subject teaching jobs pay poorly outside of the top schools for the most part which i may be able to get jobs at with some more experience. So would finding a wife material girl be more difficult in these places?
I'd try Belarus as well but not sure about teaching jobs there. Llms have also told me there are less platinum blondes there, anyone been there to confirm?
Me:
My stats by the time I would go if i delay this for a few years would likely be early 30s, 5'11, HTN+ to Chadlite since by then I'll be in shape. Im also Mediterranean looking. While I act NT for the most part, I may still slip up here and there but the cultural barrier would probably smooth that over if its still otherwise a slight issue.
While I am still likely going to China to teach in the near future, in all honestly I would like to find a way to geomax to northeastern Europe as I specifically prefer very light to platinum blonde haired girls and would like to live in a place where I can more easily assimilate relatively in, as if we're being honest you can never really do so in East Asia outside of maybe Hong Kong or Singapore.
My kryptonite is this phenotype specifically which I'd call the angel or elf type like so:

From my research Russia and the Baltics are the best places for this since Scandinavia is off the table for obvious reasons. Via Chatgpt and Grok, specifically north eastern Russian and Moscow seem to be the best areas to look for that exact type of girl in that country which makes sense via the proximity to Scandinavia, with the locals being historically mixed with Finnic and Baltic tribes as well as Norse settlers during the Kievan Rus era.
Russia:
Regarding income, there are some international teaching jobs in Moscow and St Petersburg and I may be able to get a position in those places with 0 to little prior experience just because some schools are very desperate given the geopolitical tensions and therefore lack of western teacher applicants. However, there are a lot of caveats with going there at least until the war ends as an American citizen.
One in particular would be the difficulty in transferring money out of the country. However I do have dual citizenship with another western country so I could apply for a visa that way to reduce the risk of living there.
I'm considering doing this after getting a couple years of experience in China just to ensure that I like teaching and am fully committed by then, plus maybe the conflict will be over by then.
I've seen salaries at the 2nd tier schools that seem to average close to 3k post tax usd equivalent in Moscow and Petersburg and schools usually cover rent and utilities but I'm not sure if that would be enough to save a decent amount with how expensive Moscow can be. I'm thinking St Petersburg could be better as there would be more girls with the phenotype that I like but I remember reading that there were more feminist and hipster types there, although still a minority. Maybe it's gotten worse since the 2010s in that regard.
I also know 0 Russian so would have to work on learning that along with Chinese which is not that conducive. I might be able to also luck out and get a position at the better schools and get more money but that often comes with an increased workload.
Another thing with Russian girls from what I understand is that a some are of the more gold diggerish type in the bigger cities and prefer a macho guy who needs to lead them 100% of the time. I have read many reports of how they can be quite manipulative and cold and you have to have very strong frame with them which is not something I'd like to deal with as I want a girl who is submissive and intelligent and is not an ice queen trying to play crazy mind games and test me most of the time(most women do test you occasionally but this is another level). Can i find girls like this in these cities?
I could also try looking in places like Tver, Pskov, Veliky Novgorod, Petrozavodsk and Murmansk while teaching in either of the biggest cities when I have time off during the summer. Problem is these places have 200-400k people so they are a bit on the smaller side and probably have less attractive women since more of them would have moved to the bigger cities.
Baltics and Belarus:
I did briefly pass through the Baltics when I was younger and do remember seeing some girls that looked like this in Latvia and Estonia and to a lesser extent Lithuania and much lesser so, Poland. Problem is those countries are supposedly more westernized but they'd be easier to live in outside of salary concerns of which subject teaching jobs pay poorly outside of the top schools for the most part which i may be able to get jobs at with some more experience. So would finding a wife material girl be more difficult in these places?
I'd try Belarus as well but not sure about teaching jobs there. Llms have also told me there are less platinum blondes there, anyone been there to confirm?
Me:
My stats by the time I would go if i delay this for a few years would likely be early 30s, 5'11, HTN+ to Chadlite since by then I'll be in shape. Im also Mediterranean looking. While I act NT for the most part, I may still slip up here and there but the cultural barrier would probably smooth that over if its still otherwise a slight issue.
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