Sorry for the TLDR boring story.
This is my diary of my japan trip from end of year 2024. Was there for like 2-3 weeks.
Writing this 6 months later so I won't remember specifics, just my general memory and thoughts.
First my stats: Really tall (Well over 6ft) white, slim, non-autistic looking, autistic brain (I guess just dont like meeting new people and doing extroverted things alone), non-physical incel, mental incel, yellow fever
In Australia I met a chinese childless milf (Rich auntie stereotype) from bumble. We fugged a few times.
She invited me to go to japan. She would pay for accomodation and food when there.
I accepted. My first international trip.
We went to tokyo first.
Prior to our trip I tactically met a japanese girl on hellotalk (4'11, almost 2 feet shorter than me) and planned to meet up with her in tokyo. (Noting I think this is how I found this website, looking for tips on sex tourism LMAO)
I found excuses to ditch the auntie in tokyo for a few hours at a time and went on dates with the hellotalk girl. She was really nice.
Basically ditched the auntie many times, she kept pushing me for sex every night but I kept denying her. Then we had an argument and decided to part ways, without continuing our planned trip to osaka and beyond. She booked a last minute flight to china, left japan and spent christmas and NYE with her chinese friends and family apparently. Also on our last night together at like 3 am I was pretending to sleep and the auntie next to me was like manic because we had a big argument and I kept denying her sex so I was listening to what she was doing, she mustve went on some cam site and was watching porn and kept saying loudly shit like "Oh yes baby just like that yes" I think she was gooning next to me, maybe to make me jealous or horny or sumn. It was almost like she was talking to the person, but I think she was just roleplaying. Maybe she was tipping him money idk LOL. But I was freaked out and just pretended to sleep, interested in the novelty of the weird situation I was in, trying to interpret it from sound only, I did not dare move a muscle.
After the auntie left I went on a date I think on christmas or boxing day night with a girl I met from dating app bumble. We fugged. Then I was lonely a few days later and bugged her to come on a second daytime date with me to hang out. BAD IDEA. It was so awkward and then she left soon after. Guess she just wanted to bang once then not see me again. Also her skin was literally the softest skin I have ever touched ever. She was japanese but lived in USA, was half westernised.
I spent time with the hellotalk girl on NYE, we walked around tokyo and for some reason couldn't find anything to do, and all restaurants were closed. The streets were empty around ginza I think.
Then she left to spend the countdown with her family. I just went to sleep.
The lack of sunlight, the cold, plus the stress of the auntie plus I'm introverted and don't like to go to bars/clubs let alone by myself, plus I was missing my PC. I was just doomering.
A few times I went around places in tokyo by myself. Tokyos IMO 85% just another city like any other city in the world. Plus its full of chinese tourists (Especially around the christmas period when all the japanese largely go elsewhere plus international holidays increase tourists) Lots of japanese shops were closed, streets FULL of chinese, yet everything is closed, weird.
The uniqueness of tokyo compared to other cities, is: Interacting with japanese, unique styles of little bars, novelty of convenience store food, going to 1 or 2 temples (After that its routine largely), The novelty of quirky japanese stores, having many train stations so close.
I think lowkey the highlight of my japan trip is using the local train system. Its just fun.
I saw the tourists in tokyo in the mariokarts. What absolute fuckwits. Its kinda like being a furry in public. Theres something despicable about a normie who is unselfconciously showing off in public. Like that viral guy who drives a scooter around the street blasting music and dancing to it and recording it. Have some self awareness and shame. (I cant find the clip im talking about but its just like this but even worse
)
I picked up a pamphlet from a cute girl in akihabara. She was a new j-idol. I went to her show with the hellotalk girl. It was like 10-15 middle aged japanese men in the crowd. It was so loud it hurt, so me and the hellotalk girl walked out and spent like 40 minutes trying to find some earplugs to buy. We found some, went back to the venue and then realised its awkward to stand at the back in the same room as the old guys, so we just ended up watching the performance from outside the room on a display screen. I got a picture with the idol after. The picture was fun, the concert was fun minus the old guys. It was seedy.
I then spent a few more dates with the hellotalk girl and she decided to come to osaka with me. (YES we boned.)
I spent only a few days in osaka. To me it was largely like tokyo, but I didnt really experience it much.
I went to kobe with the hellotalk girl. I like the starbucks by the bay and ship area of kobe. Thats all I can remember. It looked like sydney australia and not really japan, but I liked kobe.
Then the hellotalk girl left to go home to tokyo. She cried when she left, she liked me a lot. I could have loved her but she was way too short for me to marry unfortunately. We have since stopped talking online.
I spent a couple days in osaka myself. Went to osaka castle. Was cold, was doomering. Everything just felt bland and meaningless when experienced alone.
I also had a cold.
Fucking pissed me off how APA hotels kick you out every 3 days to do housekeeping. Sometimes I just wanted to chill in my room for a bit, but had to get out and do some shit like go to a convenience store to buy an onigiri and eat it alone in a random park where lots of other people are and then just aimlessly walk around a bit. Or catch a train to a crowded popular shrine or shopping area to windowshop.
Women would sometimes stare at me (Im tall and white). One girl who looked youngish like 16 kept staring at me on the train with her parents. Like even if I stared at her back, for like 5 mins. Then I looked at her and winked and she started laughing and I think talked to her parents about me in a good way it seemed. Weird.
i think if I was more outgoing I would be DROWING in jap pussy, but probably the same here in australia too lol., the night before I left I tried my hand at cold approaching, not much luck walking around market, seemed everyone was in a relationship or busy to get to where they were going. Then I hung around shinjuku station and a girl looked at me, I knew that was my in. So I talked to her with her friend, she apparently really liked tall guys (Thank god im tall its literally so easy for the girls who have a tall guy fetish, if I wasnt tall it would be a lot harder as Im mentally autistic sometimes, or at least just have social anxiety but can pretend I dont, it just mentally stresses me out I hate it). I just hate interacting with new people and going out alone too much to capitalise. I do cold approach though when I force myself, to some success (Maybe like 1/4 girls I get their number, and out of that maybe another 1/5 end up in a date).
Also funny thing, literally as soon as your phone connects to the internet in japan, without even the plane landing, you get liked by like 5-10 trannies on bumble instantly LMAO. They must be fiending for the foreigner cock. Also it wasnt even jap trannies, they were like middleeastern and shit I cant remember. I didnt meet up with them tho lol.
Anyway I found a flight to transfer my departure flight to and left early. Didnt go to planned kyoto or hiroshima or do the shimanami kaido. A few hours before my flight out of osaka I went on a date with a girl I think I also met on bumble. We had a tea or sumn then she helped me find the right train to go to KIX (It was really confusing, usually google helps, but wihtout this girls help I woulda actually not been able to find this train so thanks to her), I was glad to be home.
If I went again I would definitely only do osaka/tokyo for a few days, and go during summer, idc about the heat, or at least a sunny time, and fuck going during peak tourist times. And I'd explore the countryside more. But then, am I going to end up with the meme https://knowyourmeme.com/photos/2018647-thing-japan
Of just being in a desolate industrial looking run down village.
If I travelled to japan with a gf it would be infinitely more enjoyable as I'm actually motivated to go out and do stuff and dont feel social anxiety. But then the dilemma: travelling alone and dealing with my introversion. Or travelling with a gf, and not being able to do sex tourism.
Also I think travelling in summer would be way better. The vitamin D and heat would power me up.
I think travelling alone is just not for me. I like my bedroom, I like spending all day alone not interacting with people I'm not close with. I like not having to go out to eat. I like my PC, I like watching youtube, I like having days where I dont even leave the house. I like being able to walk outside in nature in my suburb without being surrounded by people.
But I do like going out and doing stuff when it's with friends or gf. Just not nightclubs or loud bars or sumn like karaoke, never could enjoy that.
If you've read this far, here is a japanese girl sex tip. They say "No" a lot but its just roleplay. And they say "kimochi" or sumshit, idk what it means. Also they like you to stick ur tongue in their ear. A taiwanese girl taught me this.
This is my diary of my japan trip from end of year 2024. Was there for like 2-3 weeks.
Writing this 6 months later so I won't remember specifics, just my general memory and thoughts.
First my stats: Really tall (Well over 6ft) white, slim, non-autistic looking, autistic brain (I guess just dont like meeting new people and doing extroverted things alone), non-physical incel, mental incel, yellow fever
In Australia I met a chinese childless milf (Rich auntie stereotype) from bumble. We fugged a few times.
She invited me to go to japan. She would pay for accomodation and food when there.
I accepted. My first international trip.
We went to tokyo first.
Prior to our trip I tactically met a japanese girl on hellotalk (4'11, almost 2 feet shorter than me) and planned to meet up with her in tokyo. (Noting I think this is how I found this website, looking for tips on sex tourism LMAO)
I found excuses to ditch the auntie in tokyo for a few hours at a time and went on dates with the hellotalk girl. She was really nice.
Basically ditched the auntie many times, she kept pushing me for sex every night but I kept denying her. Then we had an argument and decided to part ways, without continuing our planned trip to osaka and beyond. She booked a last minute flight to china, left japan and spent christmas and NYE with her chinese friends and family apparently. Also on our last night together at like 3 am I was pretending to sleep and the auntie next to me was like manic because we had a big argument and I kept denying her sex so I was listening to what she was doing, she mustve went on some cam site and was watching porn and kept saying loudly shit like "Oh yes baby just like that yes" I think she was gooning next to me, maybe to make me jealous or horny or sumn. It was almost like she was talking to the person, but I think she was just roleplaying. Maybe she was tipping him money idk LOL. But I was freaked out and just pretended to sleep, interested in the novelty of the weird situation I was in, trying to interpret it from sound only, I did not dare move a muscle.
After the auntie left I went on a date I think on christmas or boxing day night with a girl I met from dating app bumble. We fugged. Then I was lonely a few days later and bugged her to come on a second daytime date with me to hang out. BAD IDEA. It was so awkward and then she left soon after. Guess she just wanted to bang once then not see me again. Also her skin was literally the softest skin I have ever touched ever. She was japanese but lived in USA, was half westernised.
I spent time with the hellotalk girl on NYE, we walked around tokyo and for some reason couldn't find anything to do, and all restaurants were closed. The streets were empty around ginza I think.
Then she left to spend the countdown with her family. I just went to sleep.
The lack of sunlight, the cold, plus the stress of the auntie plus I'm introverted and don't like to go to bars/clubs let alone by myself, plus I was missing my PC. I was just doomering.
A few times I went around places in tokyo by myself. Tokyos IMO 85% just another city like any other city in the world. Plus its full of chinese tourists (Especially around the christmas period when all the japanese largely go elsewhere plus international holidays increase tourists) Lots of japanese shops were closed, streets FULL of chinese, yet everything is closed, weird.
The uniqueness of tokyo compared to other cities, is: Interacting with japanese, unique styles of little bars, novelty of convenience store food, going to 1 or 2 temples (After that its routine largely), The novelty of quirky japanese stores, having many train stations so close.
I think lowkey the highlight of my japan trip is using the local train system. Its just fun.
I saw the tourists in tokyo in the mariokarts. What absolute fuckwits. Its kinda like being a furry in public. Theres something despicable about a normie who is unselfconciously showing off in public. Like that viral guy who drives a scooter around the street blasting music and dancing to it and recording it. Have some self awareness and shame. (I cant find the clip im talking about but its just like this but even worse
I picked up a pamphlet from a cute girl in akihabara. She was a new j-idol. I went to her show with the hellotalk girl. It was like 10-15 middle aged japanese men in the crowd. It was so loud it hurt, so me and the hellotalk girl walked out and spent like 40 minutes trying to find some earplugs to buy. We found some, went back to the venue and then realised its awkward to stand at the back in the same room as the old guys, so we just ended up watching the performance from outside the room on a display screen. I got a picture with the idol after. The picture was fun, the concert was fun minus the old guys. It was seedy.
I then spent a few more dates with the hellotalk girl and she decided to come to osaka with me. (YES we boned.)
I spent only a few days in osaka. To me it was largely like tokyo, but I didnt really experience it much.
I went to kobe with the hellotalk girl. I like the starbucks by the bay and ship area of kobe. Thats all I can remember. It looked like sydney australia and not really japan, but I liked kobe.
Then the hellotalk girl left to go home to tokyo. She cried when she left, she liked me a lot. I could have loved her but she was way too short for me to marry unfortunately. We have since stopped talking online.
I spent a couple days in osaka myself. Went to osaka castle. Was cold, was doomering. Everything just felt bland and meaningless when experienced alone.
I also had a cold.
Fucking pissed me off how APA hotels kick you out every 3 days to do housekeeping. Sometimes I just wanted to chill in my room for a bit, but had to get out and do some shit like go to a convenience store to buy an onigiri and eat it alone in a random park where lots of other people are and then just aimlessly walk around a bit. Or catch a train to a crowded popular shrine or shopping area to windowshop.
Women would sometimes stare at me (Im tall and white). One girl who looked youngish like 16 kept staring at me on the train with her parents. Like even if I stared at her back, for like 5 mins. Then I looked at her and winked and she started laughing and I think talked to her parents about me in a good way it seemed. Weird.
i think if I was more outgoing I would be DROWING in jap pussy, but probably the same here in australia too lol., the night before I left I tried my hand at cold approaching, not much luck walking around market, seemed everyone was in a relationship or busy to get to where they were going. Then I hung around shinjuku station and a girl looked at me, I knew that was my in. So I talked to her with her friend, she apparently really liked tall guys (Thank god im tall its literally so easy for the girls who have a tall guy fetish, if I wasnt tall it would be a lot harder as Im mentally autistic sometimes, or at least just have social anxiety but can pretend I dont, it just mentally stresses me out I hate it). I just hate interacting with new people and going out alone too much to capitalise. I do cold approach though when I force myself, to some success (Maybe like 1/4 girls I get their number, and out of that maybe another 1/5 end up in a date).
Also funny thing, literally as soon as your phone connects to the internet in japan, without even the plane landing, you get liked by like 5-10 trannies on bumble instantly LMAO. They must be fiending for the foreigner cock. Also it wasnt even jap trannies, they were like middleeastern and shit I cant remember. I didnt meet up with them tho lol.
Anyway I found a flight to transfer my departure flight to and left early. Didnt go to planned kyoto or hiroshima or do the shimanami kaido. A few hours before my flight out of osaka I went on a date with a girl I think I also met on bumble. We had a tea or sumn then she helped me find the right train to go to KIX (It was really confusing, usually google helps, but wihtout this girls help I woulda actually not been able to find this train so thanks to her), I was glad to be home.
If I went again I would definitely only do osaka/tokyo for a few days, and go during summer, idc about the heat, or at least a sunny time, and fuck going during peak tourist times. And I'd explore the countryside more. But then, am I going to end up with the meme https://knowyourmeme.com/photos/2018647-thing-japan
Of just being in a desolate industrial looking run down village.
If I travelled to japan with a gf it would be infinitely more enjoyable as I'm actually motivated to go out and do stuff and dont feel social anxiety. But then the dilemma: travelling alone and dealing with my introversion. Or travelling with a gf, and not being able to do sex tourism.
Also I think travelling in summer would be way better. The vitamin D and heat would power me up.
I think travelling alone is just not for me. I like my bedroom, I like spending all day alone not interacting with people I'm not close with. I like not having to go out to eat. I like my PC, I like watching youtube, I like having days where I dont even leave the house. I like being able to walk outside in nature in my suburb without being surrounded by people.
But I do like going out and doing stuff when it's with friends or gf. Just not nightclubs or loud bars or sumn like karaoke, never could enjoy that.
If you've read this far, here is a japanese girl sex tip. They say "No" a lot but its just roleplay. And they say "kimochi" or sumshit, idk what it means. Also they like you to stick ur tongue in their ear. A taiwanese girl taught me this.
