Vent I hope more dudes keep believing the “women are the same everywhere brah” cope

[Autisticpleighboi]

For years we’ve seen PPB haters say “women are the same everywhere, if you’re a lame in the west you’ll be a lame in every country”

Ppl who say this 1. Never traveled and/or actually dated extensively in a different market and 2. Watched one episode of 90 day fiance and think they know everything about dating dynamics for geomaxxers

And sure that quote will be true if ur bottom 40% looks + ND + are old, fat, balding, etc

But for guys in the LTN-MTN range who aren’t turbomanlet or autist, geomaxxing is still a way better deal but these Americans who don’t have the means or opportunity to live the geomaxx lifestyle have to cling onto copes like the one above to justify playing the rigged low ROI game of western dating and accepting a shittier deal.

 

[Life]

The "women are the same everywhere" platitude is an example of why I believe normies are more autistic about women than people like us.
Yes women share inherent qualities, but those qualities such as hypergamy are adaptable by design. The situation that women subconsciously adjust their mating strategies to is not the same everywhere.

If you're a simp you'll have a miserable time in the long run anywhere though, I'll give him that much.

I'm happy every time I see these doomers doing their job as unpaid gatekeepers. Let's also not forget that a lot of failed PPB:s are the type that fall for the most bottom shelf scam. They marry prostitutes ffs.

 

[14passport]

For years we’ve seen PPB haters say “women are the same everywhere, if you’re a lame in the west you’ll be a lame in every country”

But that's mostly true. Women everywhere want to date up, they cheat, they play games, have high standards, want someone tall, rich, attractive... The only difference is you benefit from it if you geomaxx, but that doesn't change the nature of women, you now have higher SMV and can check most of those boxes.
Lame guys in the west are more often than not still lame abroad, just because now they can betabuxx/simp, everything is cheaper or they can slay 4s, that doesnt change that top women and locals will see them as lame.
Ask any middle to high class girl in those countries what they think of PPBs and sexpats...
If those guys aren't lame why do they end up with the low attractive women in those countries? With ex bar girls, single mothers, gold diggers? With the uneducated women that leech their western income?

But for guys in the LTN-MTN range who aren’t turbomanlet or autist, geomaxxing is still a way better deal but these Americans who don’t have the means or opportunity to live the geomaxx lifestyle have to cling onto copes like the one above to justify playing the rigged low ROI game of western dating and accepting a shittier deal.

That's true but how does that change anything?
These guys are benefiting from the nature of women and hypergamy.
Just because they can slay or can get dates, or can retire with their western savings, that doesnt make them better than they were before.

It's better to geomaxx of course but i mostly agree that it wont fix all your issues, nor make you high value and respected.
People confuse all the time having money and simping, with being respected.
And thats why so many older guys or incels, end up broke in a few years, due to women in those countries taken everything from them.

 

[Autisticpleighboi]

Women everywhere want to date up, they cheat, they play games, have high standards, want someone tall, rich, attractive... The only difference is you benefit from it if you geomaxx, but that doesn't change the nature of women, you now have higher SMV and can check most of those boxes.

Tell me you have no experience geomaxxing without telling me. A woman who grew up speaking a completely diff language, in a completely different culture, with completely different history is not gonna grow up with the same habits, behaviors, and tendencies that the average western woman has so pretty much all the BS you deal with in America is minimized to 30-40% when it comes to the games, bad attitudes, lack of cooperation, etc.

And I say 30% because only 2 out of the 11 dates I went on in bogota, I felt like I was somewhat dating an American woman again but outside of that it was still a night and day difference

And you have to take the overly negative geomaxxing reports with a grain of salt since most geomaxxers are old subhumans trying to date girls half their age that mog them by 2 points. Recipe for failure.

 

[14passport]

Tell me you have no experience geomaxxing without telling me. A woman who grew up speaking a completely diff language, in a completely different culture, with completely different history is not gonna grow up with the same habits, behaviors, and tendencies that the average western woman has so pretty much all the BS you deal with in America is minimized to 30-40% when it comes to the games, bad attitudes, lack of cooperation, etc.

And I say 30% because only 2 out of the 11 dates I went on in bogota, I felt like I was somewhat dating an American woman again but outside of that it was still a night and day difference

And you have to take the overly negative geomaxxing reports with a grain of salt since most geomaxxers are old subhumans trying to date girls half their age that mog them by 2 points. Recipe for failure.

I'm not saying the treatment and results you will have wont be better, it's night and day if you arent stupid.
What I'm arguing is that the change comes from your higher SMV, and their lower standards because its a poor country, with less than ideal genetics when it comes to global attractive standards

you think the equivalent of your stats but of a local colombian would have the same success?

 

[Life]

I'm not saying the treatment and results you will have wont be better, it's night and day if you arent stupid.
What I'm arguing is that the change comes from your higher SMV, and their lower standards because its a poor country, with less than ideal genetics when it comes to global attractive standards

you think the equivalent of your stats but of a local colombian would have the same success?

This is completely true. But it doesn't make any sense how some people use this angle to try to discredit geomaxing. You might as well flip that around and say that ascending in your own country (looks/moneymaxing) is no better than geomaxing. They are just different tactics to achieve the same goal - beating the competition.

Then again, when I am in Thailand I see way more young looksmatched thai couples on the street than I see couples in my own country. They also seem more affectionate. In the west, when I see a girl warmly embracing her bf and acting clingy she will most often be asian. Makes me think it's actually more to it than just the competition difference.

 

[Autisticpleighboi]

Makes me think it's actually more to it than just the competition difference.

Exactly. In Colombia I saw at least 10 couples where the dude was LTN-MTN 5’8-5’11 and they’d be dating a bodymaxxed HTB. And I was only there for a week and half ish. In the US you see that once in a blue moon and I’ve lived there my whole life.

 

[14passport]

This is completely true. But it doesn't make any sense how some people use this angle to try to discredit geomaxing. You might as well flip that around and say that ascending in your own country (looks/moneymaxing) is no better than geomaxing. They are just different tactics to achieve the same goal - beating the competition.

Then again, when I am in Thailand I see way more young looksmatched thai couples on the street than I see couples in my own country. They also seem more affectionate. In the west, when I see a girl warmly embracing her bf and acting clingy she will most often be asian. Makes me think it's actually more to it than just the competition difference.

Yeah that's dumb, i'm not discrediting geomaxx and it's not my argument at all, all i'm saying is thinking women are different is dangerous, because thats how so many guys get played and end up broke, or with bad results

->women abroad are so feminine, loyal and traditional
->incels, simps and old guys land in Colombia, Thailand, Philippines and match with 25yo
-> he ends up drugged and robbed, played for his visa, or divorce raped

 

[14passport]

Then again, when I am in Thailand I see way more young looksmatched thai couples on the street than I see couples in my own country. They also seem more affectionate. In the west, when I see a girl warmly embracing her bf and acting clingy she will most often be asian. Makes me think it's actually more to it than just the competition difference.

not sure where in the west are you, but most of the couples i see are looksmatched and look normal/happy
and I have traveled to lots of countries

the biggest difference I see is you can't slay in the west, the amount of options you will have is a lot lower, and you will have to put in more effort

 

[Autisticpleighboi]

not sure where in the west are you, but most of the couples i see are looksmatched and look normal/happy
and I have traveled to lots of countries

the biggest difference I see is you can't slay in the west, the amount of options you will have is a lot lower, and you will have to put in more effort

No. Even from an LTR standpoint the west is still garbage.

All the happy looksmatched couples in the west are either 1. Immigrants, 2. Boomers, Gen Xers that dated pre social media, 3. Guys who got lucky and are still dating HS/College sweetheart.

In the west, if you dont find ur future wife in HS/College, ur fucked.