Advice Does being in shape help?

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Obviously face and height matter more but I'm curious on the stories of guys who are in shape.

What were East Asian women's reaction?

Being mulatto Latino I think it more important for me to be in shape (think calisthenics athletes) then white brahs.

What's your experience?
 
Obviously face and height matter more but I'm curious on the stories of guys who are in shape.

What were East Asian women's reaction?

Being mulatto Latino I think it more important for me to be in shape (think calisthenics athletes) then white brahs.

What's your experience?
time and time again you see on those "insta interviews" were randos ask girls questions

tall/muscles/skinny

tall is number 1. skinny is number 2. RARELY does any girl say "muscles"

yes, there will always be some girls that are wired that way. But most just want a tall skinny guy. or a skinny guy
 
time and time again you see on those "insta interviews" were randos ask girls questions

tall/muscles/skinny

tall is number 1. skinny is number 2. RARELY does any girl say "muscles"

yes, there will always be some girls that are wired that way. But most just want a tall skinny guy. or a skinny guy
Agreed the ideal for women in terms muscle is something like Bruce Lee or Michael Phelps
 
Perception matters. If you look high trust you are high trust. If look like a bad person(even if you're not) you are a bad person. Humans assume before they know based on their senses ,and with that they make judgments.
If you have a good physique people will assume you have your shit together and are reliable and disciplined even if you're a neet
 
If you have a good physique people will assume you have your shit together and are reliable and disciplined even if you're a neet
Facts lol. Also this is why Chads sometimes have problems with LTRs. Women will make perceive them to be a certain way based off their looks. And if they don't match the imaginary person that woman came up with in her head, they'll break up or have a toxic relationship.
 
Obviously face and height matter more but I'm curious on the stories of guys who are in shape.

What were East Asian women's reaction?

Being mulatto Latino I think it more important for me to be in shape (think calisthenics athletes) then white brahs.

What's your experience?
yeah of course it matters, also your face will look the best if you are in shape
 
i think the appropiate question would be, does it matter as much as in other regions of the world?
or is getting in shape the best use of your time and money vs other things you could improve?

but between a skinny fat and a guy with gym body, girls will always choose gym body
no better proof than dating apps always having top profiles of shirtless guys
 
Speaking purely to East Asia:

The shape of your body matters. You are not going to alter that very much with resistance training. That is the mistake that guys make when they get sucked into gymcel holes. You cannot make your shoulders broader or your hips narrower in a major way.

Now, is it a good incremental change? Of course. Strong delt work will broaden your shoulders. Bigger arms always look good too. Improved posture from a good core. Etc.

Being muscular is probably about as important as having a good pair of shoes. That is to say, a little bit.

But whether it helps a little or helps a lot is irrelevant. The fact is that fitness is one of the few SMV modifiers that's almost entirely within your control. You'd be stupid to not work out. Plus, it's good for your health.
 
That is the mistake that guys make when they get sucked into gymcel holes. You cannot make your shoulders broader or your hips narrower in a major way.

Being muscular is probably about as important as having a good pair of shoes. That is to say, a little bit.
I can tell you're from the West, because when you hear "in shape", you think of big gymcel muscles

in some parts of the world, "in shape" basically just means slim
 
I can tell you're from the West, because when you hear "in shape", you think of big gymcel muscles

in some parts of the world, "in shape" basically just means slim
Yeah I was going to add a caveat for that but I figured it was self-evident. Obviously you want to be slim, no, you HAVE to be slim or you take a gigantic SMV hit. And what "slim" means varies by country. In the U.S. a BMI of 22-25 is probably best, whereas in Japan something like 19-23.
 

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