Any of you approached?

[younglivinglife]

I soft approached in Europe, went pretty well! If I was a bit more fit could went even better.

I tried it in Philippines but no experience, but that's how I ended up meeting my girlfriend

 

[Rance]

Not nearly as much as I should have. My friends made fun of me for not approaching enough. Always kind of waited for them to come up to me or give me an "in".

It's one of my main goals for China, to cold approach, because it just yields better results than everything else

 

[Langelf]

Can someone explain me how cold approaching can give better results? Are we really saying there are women that are not on dating apps AND would be interested in you? If we agree these are the same women, what will make them consider you as an option IRL as opposed to swiping left on a dating app?

 

[14passport]

Can someone explain me how cold approaching can give better results? Are we really saying there are women that are not on dating apps AND would be interested in you? If we agree these are the same women, what will make them consider you as an option IRL as opposed to swiping left on a dating app?

Most people over exaggerate and think all dating apps women are whore, but if you cold approach you somehow find all the untapped virgins

Dating apps have lots of advantages especially if you have a good profile, you can have pretty much unlimited volume and filter much more efficiently

Approaching is also great in many ways though, especially if you approach in specific areas where you know the kind of girls you like hangout

 

[younglivinglife]

Can someone explain me how cold approaching can give better results? Are we really saying there are women that are not on dating apps AND would be interested in you? If we agree these are the same women, what will make them consider you as an option IRL as opposed to swiping left on a dating app?

Yes.

In Asia it's red flag girls on dating apps...

 

[14passport]

Yes.

In Asia it's red flag girls on dating apps...

What a dumb fucking take

Dating apps have all kind of women, it's all about who you attract and who you match with

It's 2025 not 1980

 

[EEmaxxer]

Can someone explain me how cold approaching can give better results? Are we really saying there are women that are not on dating apps AND would be interested in you? If we agree these are the same women, what will make them consider you as an option IRL as opposed to swiping left on a dating app?

Cold approaching is one of the best ways you actually have a chance of dating above your level. IRL approaches actually gives you a chance to display your charisma and vibe where on dating apps the girl you approached IRL may have swiped left on you. And yes, there are plenty of women who are not on dating apps. Actually, some of the best women are not on there because they get flooded with matches and it's too ridiculous for them.

I have probably done IRL cold approaches into the 1000s...and my results from there have been the most consistent. As an MTN, I can pull HTBs consistently though cold approach. Def not easy but cold approach makes it possible. I def can't pull HTBs consistently through dating apps.

 

[younglivinglife]

What a dumb fucking take

Dating apps have all kind of women, it's all about who you attract and who you match with

It's 2025 not 1980

Yes, that is true but In Asia 90% of locals date other locals, happy to be proven wrong... Why would a hot girl go on dating app? They have so many chances.

 

[myeyes]

I did it a bit 2 years and the main advantage is you can get hotter girls. Any guy who’s done both online and cold approach usually says his hottest girls came from cold approach. As for these guys obsessed with EE, it’s probably essential

As for me the hottest girl I slept with I approached at a language exhchange bar and the two second hottest after that I approached at a mall

Another interesting fact is that for me in Bangkok, it was also more time effective simply because there’s so many hookers and time wasters on the apps and the foot traffic in the malls is so high it just takes less time

 

[Rance]

I think a lot of my understanding of getting girls has revolved around the principle that girls do NOT know what they want right away. They don't use dating apps because they say in their heads "I don't want that, I don't need that", but they don't really know. When you approach them in a mall or w/e they aren't immediately thinking "I want to have babies with this man", they just think it's a fun and interesting encounter. Then, gradually, they become attracted to you. That is why cold approach works so well, and also language exchange apps. They are environments of plausible deniability.

 

[Orientalist]

I don't like cold approaching because it hurts

 

[14passport]

Yes, that is true but In Asia 90% of locals date other locals, happy to be proven wrong... Why would a hot girl go on dating app? They have so many chances.

Locals date mostly locals almost everywhere in the world, and you'll be excluded from many girls due to language and cultural differences, but I dont see that as a big deal in many countries. As the dating pool open to date foreigners is quite big in SEA.

It's true you will rarely find girls 8+ on dating apps, but you don't have any chance with them anyway. Girls 5-7s have many reason to go on dating apps such as easiness to filter or find someone specific, many may be new to the city or dont want to date within their own friend group, they want to have ONS being realitvely anonymous, they dont like hitting clubs, or are maybe they are just shy IRL...

 

[younglivinglife]

Locals date mostly locals almost everywhere in the world, and you'll be excluded from many girls due to language and cultural differences, but I dont see that as a big deal in many countries. As the dating pool open to date foreigners is quite big in SEA.

It's true you will rarely find girls 8+ on dating apps, but you don't have any chance with them anyway. Girls 5-7s have many reason to go on dating apps such as easiness to filter or find someone specific, many may be new to the city or dont want to date within their own friend group, they want to have ONS being realitvely anonymous, they dont like hitting clubs, or are maybe they are just shy IRL...

Well I haven't really seen a +8 in Philippines
But I did date up to 6.5 which is top 1%. I don't think the 8 IRL live in Philippines. They probably move abroad.

 

[14passport]

Well I haven't really seen a +8 in Philippines
But I did date up to 6.5 which is top 1%. I don't think the 8 IRL live in Philippines. They probably move abroad.

There's very hot filipinas born in the US

I assume there's not many in the philippines because of all the poverty
many 8s are due to great genetics, nutrition, gym, surgeries, makeup, style
when almost nobody in the philippines have access to that it leaves very few 8s+, and they are probably all in BGC/Makati and maybe a few other areas

 

[Meeks]

I prefer the idea of a warm approach much more than a cold approach

 

[younglivinglife]

There's very hot filipinas born in the US

I assume there's not many in the philippines because of all the poverty
many 8s are due to great genetics, nutrition, gym, surgeries, makeup, style
when almost nobody in the philippines have access to that it leaves very few 8s+, and they are probably all in BGC/Makati and maybe a few other areas

Yes I agree. Or abroad searching better options. A shame

 

[younglivinglife]

There's very hot filipinas born in the US

I assume there's not many in the philippines because of all the poverty
many 8s are due to great genetics, nutrition, gym, surgeries, makeup, style
when almost nobody in the philippines have access to that it leaves very few 8s+, and they are probably all in BGC/Makati and maybe a few other areas

Fair to say they are mix not pure like 98%. its a myth most filipinas are spanish its about 2% mixed. so dont expect to come to little colombia when coming to php