myeyes
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- Mar 7, 2025
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Been using Bumble every day for about 1.5 weeks, only resulted in one date with a black girl from Kenya which is tonight, she’s fairly pretty for a black girl unless she’s fatter irl, we’ll see. Never slayed a black girl before so I’m a bit invested.
In terms of cold approach, started on Wednesday, I have a bunch of approach anxiety unless it’s the “perfect approach” which is a singular girl outside of earshot of other people and when nobody is really watching, but these sets are super hard to find so it takes me ages of walking around like an autist. But out of 6 approaches, 4 were immediate rejections and 2 went well, both light skinned pretty Chinese looking girls with good English, better than any of my matches on Bumble and both have moved into the talking stage on Insta.
Usually the lighter their skin the higher chance they know English and the higher chance the set goes well.
So far no crazy results but this seems to be a continuation of my experience last time where I approached for 3 weeks every day and my results were way better than online.
Mainly posting this to inspire myself to improve my cold approach rather than trying to convince other it’s worth it, but definitely worth a try
In terms of cold approach, started on Wednesday, I have a bunch of approach anxiety unless it’s the “perfect approach” which is a singular girl outside of earshot of other people and when nobody is really watching, but these sets are super hard to find so it takes me ages of walking around like an autist. But out of 6 approaches, 4 were immediate rejections and 2 went well, both light skinned pretty Chinese looking girls with good English, better than any of my matches on Bumble and both have moved into the talking stage on Insta.
Usually the lighter their skin the higher chance they know English and the higher chance the set goes well.
So far no crazy results but this seems to be a continuation of my experience last time where I approached for 3 weeks every day and my results were way better than online.
Mainly posting this to inspire myself to improve my cold approach rather than trying to convince other it’s worth it, but definitely worth a try
