Why do girls write on tinder „no hookups“ and then meet up with me and have a hookup

[explorer7878]

I do not understand the female brain

 

[predeterminism]

Cos having sex is part of building a relationship

Or maybe they just can't resist a whitey

In reality she means 'no hookups with ricedicks but bwcs welcome'

 

[14passport]

I do not understand the female brain

1. They dont want to be seen as a slut if any of their friend finds the profile, or even internally it helps them rationalize it as not being like the other slutty girls
2. It filters out the desperate men that send dick pics after the second message and only think about fucking
3. A few of them probably mean it but many just want you to know it won't be easy

 

[AlexBrown84]

never listen to what dem hoes say

 

[Orientalist]

never listen to what dem hoes say

 

[Someone]

“No hookups” means “don’t approach if you’re ugly”. It basically makes it clear that she only wants Chad