Vent we're all aware of looks inflation but no one discusses the effort inflation

[geneblackman]

besides societies like china and japan where politeness is paramount. you can't even be 6'2 blue eyed with a full head of hair and say "hi how are you" to some broad because another guy can stroll up and say "hi how are you, X thing in your profile is interesting" and now this guy has the focus. maybe this is NT?

the hi how are you pill is that it only works on ethnics and even then some of them have been getting uppity about it too

maybe women would think it's an indian catfishing if they just say hi how are you so it works as a filter? either way effort inflation is out of control