Advice Thoughts on lying about age? (3 Viewers)

[Autisticpleighboi]

Most of us know the "men age like fine wine" concept is cope and the ageism among gen Z/Gen Alpha is only going up.


10-15yr age gaps are no longer deemed as acceptable unless ur rich and most quality young girls that are MTB+ are most likely only dating guys that are 1-3yrs older than them. Maybe 5 years max.

As an 25yo oldcel who can pass as 21-22yo on a good day, I'm starting to think that me and many other men here have less time than we thought when it comes the "male peak" timeline of having the party/slay phase and then settling down with quality a woman.

Lying ab age might be good for slaying but for LTR would you guys recommend it? Like for example if im 29 but tell her im 24 or 25 instead and then when she finds out eventually I'll just gaslight and tell her that I always told her I was 29. Ik sounds messed up but feminism has really done its damage when it comes to the mainstream consensus of what an acceptable age gap is. I'm hoping culture in LATAM or EE doesn't frown on larger age gaps

 

[14passport]

I would never do it for a LTR, any smart girl that is worth it would dump you the moment she finds out

no idea why people think age gaps are bigger in LATAM or other continents, its not
a middle class latam girl has no interest dating big age gaps, the ones that do, do it for money

 

[PointOfNoReturn]

i put my age as 21 on dating apps. they fraud with make up
0 winners here

 

[AlexBrown84]

Not worth it. You’ll look autistic af when she playfully asks to see your passport

I guess it could be fun for some larping online with no intention to meet but that’s it

 

[Autisticpleighboi]

I would never do it for a LTR, any smart girl that is worth it would dump you the moment she finds out

no idea why people think age gaps are bigger in LATAM or other continents, its not
a middle class latam girl has no interest dating big age gaps, the ones that do, do it for money

I don’t think this is true. Esp if you’ve been dating for around 1y+ bcuz at that point she’ll have oneitis for u and won’t easily be able to discard you unless there was a massive SMV discrepancy and you’re super replaceable.

Even amnesia from looksmax has done this (he’s almost 40 and can pass as mid 20s and says he’s 25) and says that some girls leave and others don’t care and accept it eventually. At the end of the day it’s more about SMV discrepancy and replaceability like I said.

 

[Autisticpleighboi]

i put my age as 21 on dating apps. they fraud with make up
0 winners here

Yea they’re too high inhib

 

[myeyes]

I’m honest to girls who I potentially see a future with but fraud for girls who I don’t

 

[RenaissanceMan]

Most of us know the "men age like fine wine" concept is cope and the ageism among gen Z/Gen Alpha is only going up.


10-15yr age gaps are no longer deemed as acceptable unless ur rich and most quality young girls that are MTB+ are most likely only dating guys that are 1-3yrs older than them. Maybe 5 years max.

As an 25yo oldcel who can pass as 21-22yo on a good day, I'm starting to think that me and many other men here have less time than we thought when it comes the "male peak" timeline of having the party/slay phase and then settling down with quality a woman.

Lying ab age might be good for slaying but for LTR would you guys recommend it? Like for example if im 29 but tell her im 24 or 25 instead and then when she finds out eventually I'll just gaslight and tell her that I always told her I was 29. Ik sounds messed up but feminism has really done its damage when it comes to the mainstream consensus of what an acceptable age gap is. I'm hoping culture in LATAM or EE doesn't frown on larger age gaps

Personally for LTRs i wouldn't do it, there is a high chance she is going to walk away as soon as she finds out, in a young woman mind a man agefrauding is really odd and weird, borderline creepy, unless you are chadlite/chad level, but at that point there is no need to agefraud in the first place

 

[Yuezhi]

Acceptable age gaps aren't the same everywhere, in anglo countries where they are autistic about it, you can only get away with 3 maybe 4 years at most. I'd say twice that at 7-8 years is still possible in sea and east Asia with no or minimal betabuxxing. Agree that 10-15 years is very difficult without money or status.

 

[14passport]

Acceptable age gaps aren't the same everywhere, in anglo countries where they are autistic about it, you can only get away with 3 maybe 4 years at most. I'd say twice that at 7-8 years is still possible in sea and east Asia with no or minimal betabuxxing. Agree that 10-15 years is very difficult without money or status.

i would say thats about right, although once you are into your 30s i think more than 4 years is easy in the west too
37 with 32 would be seen as common

 

[14passport]

I don’t think this is true. Esp if you’ve been dating for around 1y+ bcuz at that point she’ll have oneitis for u and won’t easily be able to discard you unless there was a massive SMV discrepancy and you’re super replaceable.

Even amnesia from looksmax has done this (he’s almost 40 and can pass as mid 20s and says he’s 25) and says that some girls leave and others don’t care and accept it eventually. At the end of the day it’s more about SMV discrepancy and replaceability like I said.

i think thats creepy as fuck and sad, that you need to fraud everything to get a girl
but i know incel communities will tell you to fraud everything, and then they wonder why they get bad results

 

[Autisticpleighboi]

i think thats creepy as fuck and sad, that you need to fraud everything to get a girl
but i know incel communities will tell you to fraud everything, and then they wonder why they get bad results

Don’t be an age cuck. You’re better than that

 

[Autisticpleighboi]

Acceptable age gaps aren't the same everywhere, in anglo countries where they are autistic about it, you can only get away with 3 maybe 4 years at most. I'd say twice that at 7-8 years is still possible in sea and east Asia with no or minimal betabuxxing. Agree that 10-15 years is very difficult without money or status.

What about LATAM?

 

[Yuezhi]

What about LATAM?

Can't comment on any of those countries as I've never been. Doubt anywhere in that region is as bad as the US, Canada or Australia tho

 

[enrique]

What about LATAM?

latam being extremely nt and low inhib, a huge age gap its seen as a massive failo specially if the girl is from a more "trad" background with family and friends as they will constantly tell her about that age difference and everyone will make jokes about it, gold diggers on the other hand could care less how old you are

 

[Autisticpleighboi]

latam being extremely nt and low inhib, a huge age gap its seen as a massive failo specially if the girl is from a more "trad" background with family and friends as they will constantly tell her about that age difference and everyone will make jokes about it, gold diggers on the other hand could care less how old you are

Define huge gap