This is a very common autist delusion. Changing this mindset is the #1 thing that helped me become more NT.
Stop self sabotaging by trying to be "genuine", as if who you are is something static. Who you are to yourself is a matter of your own philosophy or spiritual beliefs. Who you are to the outside world, however, is a product of the interactions you have with the world in question. You are whoever you can convince other people that you are. People, especially women, don't give a fuck about who you "really are". They care about who you are to them.
What you need to thrive in the NT world is a goal oriented approach to socializing.
Your goal in this case is to fuck pussy, right? In order to do that, you need to sell yourself. The hardest part by far in the selling process is the first step, to get the girl initially interested in you. It takes a lot less for a girl to swipe left than to back out once you're already at your place.
Inb4 "but I don't want to be NT". Enjoy celibacy then. You can't have the cake and eat it.