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[Sneep]

What do I put for the section 'what do you like to talk about?'
I can't think of anything NT. I guess I'll just put TV and movies and science.

@geneblackman

 

[geneblackman]

science isn't NT and high iq girls don't like to talk about academic things off rip. just say movies, traveling, and cafes to start then ask her what she studies and go from there

 

[Sneep]

science isn't NT and high iq girls don't like to talk about academic things off rip. just say movies, traveling, and cafes to start then ask her what she studies and go from there

Too late tbh. I put science but I put movies and TV first so maybe that's a save. It's saying it can take a week for me to be invited to the app.

 

[Sneep]

How do I meet the Indian girls? Do I need to put my desired language as some Indian language? I don't really want to learn a language, I just want to have sex with Indian girls.

 

[geneblackman]

you got this. just don't sperg out on rants like a lot of dudes do and make sure your profile picture isn't a selfie if possible

 

[geneblackman]

How do I meet the Indian girls? Do I need to put my desired language as some Indian language?

put hindi or tamil. you can change it every so often too

 

[Sneep]

you got this. just don't sperg out on rants like a lot of dudes do and make sure your profile picture isn't a selfie if possible

It's a pic of me in the bathroom but I didn't hold the phone myself. It was sitting on a shelf so it doesn't look that terrible.

 

[Sneep]

put hindi or tamil. you can change it every so often too

I put Japanese but hopefully I can change it when I enter the app. I saw some Indian languages but didn't recognize them.

 

[Sneep]

put hindi or tamil. you can change it every so often too

I'm on hellotalk now and an Indian girl 'waved' at me. What do I do now? Can I get banned if I immediately start trying to flirt with her?

 

[masonfrancis]

You need to chill..

 

[Sneep]

You need to chill..

I've never used this app before, bro.

 

[geneblackman]

I'm on hellotalk now and an Indian girl 'waved' at me. What do I do now? Can I get banned if I immediately start trying to flirt with her?

just start the convo with language learning topics then start asking about what she likes to do

 

[Sneep]

you got this. just don't sperg out on rants like a lot of dudes do and make sure your profile picture isn't a selfie if possible

This is the pic I used.

 

[confused]

This is the pic I used.
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holy shit you look even uglier now

 

[Life]

It's just beyond me why anyone would ever publish a picture they took in a boring indoor environment let alone the bathroom. "Take pictures outside" has become a meme advice but it is actually true. Sub chads have to show some sort of quality in their pictures that isn't their looks.

Just go outside on an overcast day, let someone else take your pic while you "naturally" walk towards the camera. Don't look directly into the lens. Boom. Photo quality raised by magnitudes. Ofc you can massively improve further from that point, but that's the basics down.

 

[wannaimprove]

It's just beyond me why anyone would ever publish a picture they took in a boring indoor environment let alone the bathroom. "Take pictures outside" has become a meme advice but it is actually true. Sub chads have to show some sort of quality in their pictures that isn't their looks.

Just go outside on an overcast day, let someone else take your pic while you "naturally" walk towards the camera. Don't look directly into the lens. Boom. Photo quality raised by magnitudes. Ofc you can massively improve further from that point, but that's the basics down.

@Sneep

He is right boyo

didnt you brag about having 120+ iq

yet havent figured out how to take a good picture with all the information available on the internet ?

damn nigga

 

[Sneep]

@Sneep

He is right boyo

didnt you brag about having 120+ iq

yet havent figured out how to take a good picture with all the information available on the internet ?

damn nigga

I don't care about all this looksmaxxing crap. I took that picture almost a year ago, anyway.
Don't mistake my lack of effort for ignorance. If I ever meet a girl IRL for sex, she's going to see all my flaws anyway. No point in taking the 'perfect picture' when it's going to be fake.

 

[Sneep]

holy shit you look even uglier now

Says the guy with 3 posts and no pics of his own.

 

[Life]

I don't care about all this looksmaxxing crap. I took that picture almost a year ago, anyway.
Don't mistake my lack of effort for ignorance. If I ever meet a girl IRL for sex, she's going to see all my flaws anyway. No point in taking the 'perfect picture' when it's going to be fake.

This is a very common autist delusion. Changing this mindset is the #1 thing that helped me become more NT.

Stop self sabotaging by trying to be "genuine", as if who you are is something static. Who you are to yourself is a matter of your own philosophy or spiritual beliefs. Who you are to the outside world, however, is a product of the interactions you have with the world in question. You are whoever you can convince other people that you are. People, especially women, don't give a fuck about who you "really are". They care about who you are to them.

What you need to thrive in the NT world is a goal oriented approach to socializing.

Your goal in this case is to fuck pussy, right? In order to do that, you need to sell yourself. The hardest part by far in the selling process is the first step, to get the girl initially interested in you. It takes a lot less for a girl to swipe left than to back out once you're already at your place.

Inb4 "but I don't want to be NT". Enjoy celibacy then. You can't have the cake and eat it.