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@predeterminism-posting since I asked Gemini deep research to go in-depth about it and it was kind of interesting. There are a million threads here about the importance of things like pale skin, androgyny, oblong face/V-shape jawline, bright eyes, etc.:

There's a certain set of features that do really well:
  • Thin facial portrait, gauntness
  • Long, tall, and thin nose (long = protruding from face; tall = vertical height)
  • "Pointy" features in general including the chin and nose, less bulky and more angular
  • Larger forehead (bad in the West; neutral in Japan)
  • Less defined or more recessed chin area (very bad in the West; only slightly bad in Japan)
  • Slender bodily bone structure even at the expense of narrower shoulders (bad in the West; good in Japan)
  • Light-colored hair (obvious)
  • Light-colored eyes (obvious)
  • No facial hair (not an immutable trait but I thought it was worth including)
  • Hair on your head. Even if your hairline sucks, enough to cover it up.
  • Not overweight
High nose bridge is one of many "deep set" facial features. It gets mentioned a lot because it's easy to distinguish and sounds good on the ears. Nobody would compliment you for having "deep eye sockets" because it's weird.

Deep-set features refer to the contrast in depth across the face. A lot of Asians have shallow-set features. Flat forehead, flat nose, shallow eye sockets. If you laid a piece of paper across a typical Asian person's face and made note of the impressions, there would not be many at all, the face does not have many contours.

Tthere's a decent amount of literature out there. There's not a lot of literature on the 'advantages' of Caucasian phenotypes in East Asian beauty standards or anything though really, where attractive caucasians are compared/rated, side-by-side to attractive East asian men or whatever the case may be

To be honest though, I don't even know what to make of any of this, because I don't know which of these things are or aren't worth striving to attain as a caucasian. Maybe some of these are just cope for Asians to do the best they can looks-wise at what caucasians naturally succeed at. Different phenotypes, let alone races, different overall harmony going on; when hardmaxxing enters the picture - even under the same beauty standard - one procedure might looksmin you, while Chang comes out winning. At the end of the day you're not going to radically alter your appearance anyways. Maybe just be your authentic self.

There is something to be said about the difference in complexity between male/female and asian/caucasian faces. If you were to draw it out, asian women are probably the simplest, while caucasian males are probably the most complex in order to be considered attractive. (You see this with surgery, too - women can absolutely ascend with simple surgeries. It's basically just about looking cute and infantile - wtf are bones? This is probably a contributing factor as for why surgerymaxxing is so popular in Korea (tho obviously there are tons of other reasons.)

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There's more going on in the caucasian faces; more data so to say. So it's no wonder that in Korea they gravitated towards minimalism, which is befitting of the Asian psyche I guess.

Some people (like @predeterminism) pose a pretty racist but interesting question: are asian men are literally capped at a certain looks level only achieveable by western phenos? (For asian women though, I do not agree. Go figure: people often comment on slavic women looking too masculine. Thus, WMAF is the most aesthetic pairing possible.)

For Western standards, frankly I think it's completely true. I don't know if there's ever been a single asian male in history that was legit PSL 7/8 like Cavill or Chico and would slay more in a country of white women. For East Asian standards? Well...

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I'm caging brah
In all seriousness K-pop people are insane and probably just voted for him en masse or something so idk if this is just a meme or not.

But with that in mind, I think the Chinese ideal is the most favorable towards European phenotypes. They're generally less of a soy society and celebrities more frequently lean more masculine, have more bone mass, squarer jaws, lengthy mandibles, as well as having a larger/longer face overall rather than the babyish kpop look. The celebrities/actors obviously look pretty similar to Korean ones most of the time, but for instance Xiao Zhan or Song Wei Long have a slightly more robust look:
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I'm pretty sure plenty of Koreans have the bones to look like this, but this isn't as desireable in their beauty standard and is considered more average.

Anyways tl;dr: The ideal East Asian male face has an oval outline with a small overall face size, a longer than wide proportion (no extreme width), moderately broad cheekbones that are not flat but also not too projecting, and a tapered jaw/chin that gives a graceful lower face. The profile is gently convex, thanks to a well-defined nose and adequately prominent chin.The lips are full and balanced (upper ~half to two-thirds the thickness of lower)j with the mouth making up about one-third of the nose-to-chin distance. The philtrum is on the shorter side, adding to a youthful look. The eyes are large with double lids, and the expression is softened by straight brows and lack of facial hair. Cheeks are smooth and youthful, avoiding the gaunt look that might be fashionable in the West.
 
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  • The chin and nose should be in proportion to each other. A weak chin may cause the nose to look larger, while an overly strong chin can make the rest of the face look imbalanced. This reminds me of what this guy has going: making contour/angularity on his face by having a weird bone shaved jawline rather than via forward growth, lol. I guess this could be one reason why they don't pay too much attention to the lower third.
  • While a "firm chin" is considered attractive, excessive forward projection is not the goal. Aesthetic surgery literature indicates that for male patients in Asia, the aim is typically a "narrower, slightly longer and moderately prominent chin". A large survey of Chinese aesthetic preferences found that a "round and pointy chin" was the most preferred shape for both men and women.

  • has been commonly used in South Korea since the late-1990s to refer to men who are especially concerned with personal style, grooming and fashion. This lifestyle also includes the significant usage of cosmetics. Although they are sometimes regarded as bishōnen (androgynous), generally gender or sexual orientation is unambiguous
  • It has always shown the strongest manifestation in Japanese pop culture, gaining in popularity due to the androgynous glam rock bands of the 1970s but it has roots in ancient Japanese literature, the androsocial and androerotic ideals of the medieval Chinese imperial court and intellectuals, and Indian aesthetic concepts carried over from Hinduism, imported with Buddhism to China.
  • Today, bishōnen are very popular among girls and women in Japan.
  • In the original Japanese, however, bishōnen applies only to boys under 18.
  • In art, bishōnen are usually drawn delicately, with long limbs, silky or flowing hair and slender eyes with long eyelashes that can sometimes extend beyond the face
  • Some manga are completely drawn in the bishōnen style, such as Saint Seiya. bishōnen manga are generally shōjo manga (girls' comics) or yaoi (girls' comics focused on homosexual relationships between beautiful boys), however shōnen manga (boy's comics) may use casts of bishōnen characters for crossover appeal to female readers. Mainstream shounen and seinen fare also often uses such characters as rivals for a traditional masculine protagonist, with some degree of comic relief, or for the blander everyman, whether as the embodiment of his insecurities in a grittier realism, or as a more lighthearted constant reminder of his less than advantageous social status and the constraints thereof.

  • Ikemen are typically characterized as being sharply dressed individuals with deep-set, slender, and intelligent-looking eyes; husky voices; slender wrists and fingers; a manly build; an unruffled appearance; pale skin; and clean smelling with an air of mystery around them. IIkemen are typically reserved with the ability to become passionate in their interests with the impression that they are literary geniuses.
  • a normalized gendered performance that involves a cute display of affection often expressed through a cute voice, changes to speech, facial expressions, or gestures.
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  • relatively large forehead, reduced mandible, and rounded face.
  • increased upper facial width and middle facial depth, larger mouth, and more voluminous lips
  • Conclusions: Attractive men had several facial characteristics suggesting babyness
  • Our findings show that the ratio of nose length to nose width, the ratio of inner canthus width to nose length and the ratio of inner canthus to nose width play a significant role in determining facial attractiveness

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This one has a ton of charts of different desired traits/procedures vs their phenotype - amongst a few asian populations. For example the jaw. Chinese guys seem to prefer keeping a squarer mandible:

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good thread even though it's about women


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kudos for the effort-post.
one thing that's for certain, is that East Asians prefer more neotenous and less dimorphic faces. some of the men who are considered very handsome in Korea literally look like girls to me.

just look at this guy Hwang Hyunjin, who also placed high on the "most handsome men" ranking more than once:
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The average white persons face, coloring, and body proportions definitely fit asian beauty standards more than the average asian, but most white guys in asia are so looksminned that it doesn't even matter, and in the end they have lower smv than the average asian anyway.

@predeterminism said it well:
Thai rats are mogging you because they get curtains and clean shaven and edit their photos to have white skin

I can't really overstate the failo in asia of having a beard, terrible fashion, balding/western fade haircut, bad/sun damaged skin, bad hygeine, strong body hair, and not being lean.
These are all common white guy failos, and they will quickly outshine any inherent feature advantages.

Korean guys are the gold standard for looksmaxxing to east asian beauty standards, so in general it can be good to follow them, but of course some of the stuff they do like their surgeries and harsh makeup is just too much for us whiteboys.

Overall, if you're white and like asians you should be twinkmaxxing, staying out of the sun, getting your fashion up, and really staying on top of hygeine.
That should probably be enough to see the benefits of your genetic advantage unless you're subhuman.

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The average white persons face, coloring, and body proportions definitely fit asian beauty standards more than the average asian, but most white guys in asia are so looksminned that it doesn't even matter, and in the end they have lower smv than the average asian anyway.

@predeterminism said it well:


I can't really overstate the failo in asia of having a beard, terrible fashion, balding/western fade haircut, bad/sun damaged skin, bad hygeine, strong body hair, and not being lean.
These are all common white guy failos, and they will quickly outshine any inherent feature advantages.

Korean guys are the gold standard for looksmaxxing to east asian beauty standards, so in general it can be good to follow them, but of course some of the stuff they do like their surgeries and harsh makeup is just too much for us whiteboys.

Overall, if you're white and like asians you should be twinkmaxxing, staying out of the sun, getting your fashion up, and really staying on top of hygeine.
That should probably be enough to see the benefits of your genetic advantage unless you're subhuman.

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but most white guys in asia are so looksminned that it doesn't even matter, and in the end they have lower smv than the average asian anyway.
I think this is mainly the key issue. Not a lot of good looking white guys tend to go to East Asia because they can get into a relationship in their own countries so there's still a great market for HTN+ in Asia. If you can attract a MTB+ white woman then you can attract decent looking women of any other race.
 
I think this is mainly the key issue. Not a lot of good looking white guys tend to go to East Asia because they can get into a relationship in their own countries so there's still a great market for HTN+ in Asia. If you can attract a MTB+ white woman then you can attract decent looking women of any other race.
Furthermore, the decently attractive guys probably don’t know about looksmaxxing. If they do end up in EA, they won’t feel compelled to looksmax and will stick with their facial hair, etc. and SMVminn themselves. When I checked out the Bumble competition in Shanghai, that was most of the foreigners’ profiles: ~HTN guys who were clearly oblivious to all the things mentioned in this thread using the same pics you’d use in the UK flexing their back muscles and shit lol
 
Overall, if you're white and like asians you should be twinkmaxxing
from your experience in Japan, isn't there even a niche of Asian women that prefer white masculine features like facial hair, body hair, and broad muscular frames? or do they all prefer hairless twinks?
 
Btw if you're a fan of the squishy squishy face phenotype with a tiny lower third/chin and more circular/wide face shape, then Vietnam might be where you want to get your mail order bride rather than EA. I think SEA girls have better harmony with that look
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I hope I'm in luck in China especially somewhere like Guangdong, because I genuinely don't find most Chinese actresses particularly "hot" myself (although that's probably because plenty of them are on the mature side). Like they definitely don't look unaesthetic but it's like I'm observing a different lifeform or a barbie doll. I think the pointy ass chins every Korean girl wants is some weird alien looking shit tbh.
To pick some random pictures for example, I personally think these first 2 (I'm pretty sure they're both Cantonese) basically instantly fogs many of the actors, etc. that moreso resemble the 3rd (Yang Chao Yue) ❌🧢:

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If she doesn't have apple cheeks I'm not taking a peek
 
Like they definitely don't look unaesthetic but it's like I'm observing a different lifeform or a barbie doll. I think the pointy ass chins every Korean girl wants is some weird alien looking shit tbh.

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this look of big eyes, small noses, small mouths, small lower thirds and little pointy chins is basically grey-alien-maxxing

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from your experience in Japan, isn't there even a niche of Asian women that prefer white masculine features like facial hair, body hair, and broad muscular frames? or do they all prefer hairless twinks?
Wonder if it’s the same in China esp with the much higher population
 
Btw if you're a fan of the squishy squishy face phenotype with a tiny lower third/chin and more circular/wide face shape, then Vietnam might be where you want to get your mail order bride rather than EA. I think SEA girls have better harmony with that look
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I hope I'm in luck in China especially somewhere like Guangdong, because I genuinely don't find most Chinese actresses particularly "hot" myself (although that's probably because plenty of them are on the mature side). Like they definitely don't look unaesthetic but it's like I'm observing a different lifeform or a barbie doll. I think the pointy ass chins every Korean girl wants is some weird alien looking shit tbh.
To pick some random pictures for example, I personally think these first 2 (I'm pretty sure they're both Cantonese) basically instantly fogs many of the actors, etc. that moreso resemble the 3rd (Yang Chao Yue) ❌🧢:

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If she doesn't have apple cheeks I'm not taking a peek
Agreed, and I'll also note that the first two could pass as Japanese, while the last third are unequivocally Han phenotype.

Do note that the makeup (especially lipstick) and hair style may be looksminning here for us.
 
from your experience in Japan, isn't there even a niche of Asian women that prefer white masculine features like facial hair, body hair, and broad muscular frames? or do they all prefer hairless twinks?
There are, but it's exactly that, a niche. Similar to the ones who have a thing for black guys. Easier to find in Shibuya, almost impossible to find out in the inaka
 
Btw if you're a fan of the squishy squishy face phenotype with a tiny lower third/chin and more circular/wide face shape, then Vietnam might be where you want to get your mail order bride rather than EA. I think SEA girls have better harmony with that look
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I hope I'm in luck in China especially somewhere like Guangdong, because I genuinely don't find most Chinese actresses particularly "hot" myself (although that's probably because plenty of them are on the mature side). Like they definitely don't look unaesthetic but it's like I'm observing a different lifeform or a barbie doll. I think the pointy ass chins every Korean girl wants is some weird alien looking shit tbh.
To pick some random pictures for example, I personally think these first 2 (I'm pretty sure they're both Cantonese) basically instantly fogs many of the actors, etc. that moreso resemble the 3rd (Yang Chao Yue) ❌🧢:

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If she doesn't have apple cheeks I'm not taking a peek
Interestingly I read most people here prefer the northern Chinese pheno but when I was actually there I preferred the southern pheno. I was in both regions. Not sure why but hey less competition for us in the future I guess
 
Interestingly I read most people here prefer the northern Chinese pheno but when I was actually there I preferred the southern pheno. I was in both regions. Not sure why but hey less competition for us in the future I guess
Northern girls that look like edo period woodblocks with oval faces like a work of art is cool in theory but it usually has no sex appeal lol
Northern guys definitely mog south most of the time though (let alone being way taller). One reason after another that it’s a geomax
 
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Interestingly I read most people here prefer the northern Chinese pheno but when I was actually there I preferred the southern pheno. I was in both regions. Not sure why but hey less competition for us in the future I guess
Every Chinese woman I've been attracted to and have gotten along with the best has been Southern
 
Want to love the southern women but I just cannot stand the puffy lips and flared nostrils. Lips are kind of outward-turning and the nose gets super wide at the bottom. So ick for me sadly. However this isn't ubiquitous among southern Chinese. The only group of people I've seen where EVERY girl had these features were the Thai girls, I've never felt attracted to any Thai girl even for a moment because of this
 
from your experience in Japan, isn't there even a niche of Asian women that prefer white masculine features like facial hair, body hair, and broad muscular frames? or do they all prefer hairless twinks?
yes that's a good niche everywhere but you need to look like a gym bro/hollywood actor, the average PPB wont fill their fetish
 

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