Changing my looks to be more attractive to Asian girls (1 Viewer)

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I was recently in Thailand and I have also dated a Chinese girl from HK as well

I have came to realisation that my phenotype / fashion / appearance is not ideal for those dating markets

I have a big frame and am very tall (198) I am also a steroid user with 18 inch arms and weight over 120kg

Some girls like it (black / brasilian) but it seems like for asians I am too ogre / too intimidating/big

Walking around I dont get stares or catcalls and if I do it's more like - look how big you are and not "you're handsome"

I also often get complements from men like in this meme gymcel reality vs expectations

After my trip to Thailand I have decided I will go to Asia again but next time I vist I would like to look better and appeal to females there more since i have a bit of a yellow fever ( I like Chinese or Thai-Chinese better than Thai btw - pure Thais are not so attractive in my opinion - at least the class and level am being able to attract)

Obiously I wil need to lose weight and lean down to not look just like an average steroid monkey

I will never be able to look like a pretty boy due to my genetics but I want to go from looking like a felon to a good mix of aesthetics and masculinity

I know there are users on this forum that live in either China or Thailand and have more experience with Asian females

I would genuinely appreciate some advice

If you have been living in those countries feel free to shoot a PM to me or comment under this thread in terms of what worked for you

Thanks boyos
 
have you even tried in the west ? bluds a giant ? im jealous
in the west i had 1 chinese girlfriend

in fact when i went out with her to some decent restaurants let's say a decent hotpot restaurant there were a lot of chinese couples and i mogged the guys physically to oblivion but they had those very good looking girls with them whilst mine was slightly above avg

i suppose it's because they have the language and probably come from rich families (international students)

the fashion on them also seemed a bit different
 
Yeah westernised Asian girls are height queens, I think you shouldn’t even need to go to asia
in the UK outside London there are only students and they seem to stick to each other and speak only mandarin

unless you did well with them in the uk and have some advice based on personal experience of course i am willing to listen
 
face is average I believe

body I am not 10/10 obviously I will work towards leaning down but I bench 315 on incline for reps etc so it's not that am fat or weak
I don't know if this is cope but I also heard that too tall is not good. like 190-195 cm is optimal in Asia; 195-200 cm optimal in the west. Maybe your height is better suited for the west
 
go for a lean and defined physique
change your fashion
change your haircut
yeah i know brother i am leaning down

but i wanted to get some advice from people living in asia what works what doesnt

but brutal no replypill

its ok i will figure it out on my own
 

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