Never use mainstream dating apps

[younglivinglife]

Only use them if you want to waste time and money

Better solution I read here is apps for making friends, learning together, or apps as social hangouts (Instagram, Boo) that are friendship first, dating second

Hope this saves some people a lot of time, Instagram is a social but not a dating app. Building rapport first is key

 

[AlexBrown84]

Why

Ideally you would be a normal person with a social network in whatever place you live geomaxxing

But for non NT freaks like myself, that’s never gonna happen

Which means I’ll most likely never go thru the marriage ritual, simply cuz I have no social circle to begin the courting process

Thus I must double down on looksmaxxing to survive off of pure aesthetics only

 

[myeyes]

I’ve found the opposite actually. I think this depends on if you’re the type of guy who gets friendzoned a lot

 

[younglivinglife]

Why

Ideally you would be a normal person with a social network in whatever place you live geomaxxing

But for non NT freaks like myself, that’s never gonna happen

Which means I’ll most likely never go thru the marriage ritual, simply cuz I have no social circle to begin the courting process

Thus I must double down on looksmaxxing to survive off of pure aesthetics only

Bumping to this someone said tandem here. Anyone have experience with that?

 

[Life]

Ideally you would be a normal person with a social network in whatever place you live geomaxxing

But for non NT freaks like myself, that’s never gonna happen

Which means I’ll most likely never go thru the marriage ritual, simply cuz I have no social circle to begin the courting process

Thus I must double down on looksmaxxing to survive off of pure aesthetics only

Truth. The hardest part about being non-NT is that your opportunities to be a large fish in a small pond is much lower. You're forced to literally compete with literally millions of men online, instead of a few other guys in a preselected social circle. Geomaxing compensates for a lot of this but not all.

 

[younglivinglife]

I’ve found the opposite actually. I think this depends on if you’re the type of guy who gets friendzoned a lot

Way easier barrier to entry and building rapport

Truth. The hardest part about being non-NT is that your opportunities to be a large fish in a small pond is much lower. You're forced to literally compete with literally millions of men online, instead of a few other guys in a preselected social circle. Geomaxing compensates for a lot of this but not all.

Without being NT gonna be hard to get a good relationship

 

[younglivinglife]

Actually skip these apps - they are for learning languages

 

[geneblackman]

dating apps have scarred me for life. i went from having my pick of the litter to getting unmatched by sub 5 chinks and deathnics

besides, they're cope. pay to play is law if you're sub 8 and not NT, massive gender imbalance, women looking for jesters or who have ulterior motives, the necessity to be NT. unless bumble and hinge are now normalized in asia then i probably won't be able to mentally deal with such women who go against the grain because that's a sign of mental instability and im the only one who's allowed to be mentally unstable in the relationship

 

[Life]

dating apps have scarred me for life. i went from having my pick of the litter to getting unmatched by sub 5 chinks and deathnics

besides, they're cope. pay to play is law if you're sub 8 and not NT, massive gender imbalance, women looking for jesters or who have ulterior motives, the necessity to be NT. unless bumble and hinge are now normalized in asia then i probably won't be able to mentally deal with such women who go against the grain because that's a sign of mental instability and im the only one who's allowed to be mentally unstable in the relationship

What countries and apps? I'm MTN but doing fairly well with OLD in SEA. No pick of the litter but a steady stream of 20-30 y/o MTBs. For reference: I haven't even tried OLD in the west in many years but I imagine I'd get pretty much zero there.

 

[geneblackman]

What countries and apps? I'm MTN but doing fairly well with OLD in SEA. No pick of the litter but a steady stream of 20-30 y/o MTBs. For reference: I haven't even tried OLD in the west in many years but I imagine I'd get pretty much zero there.

in the US before covid i had crazy likes and matches on tinder and also when i geospoofed on tantan.

i tried hinge and bumble recently in the US but besides looksflation there's also the fact they throttled the algo so if you're not a NT chadlite or above then it's over on the free versions. i cant bring myself to try SEA

 

[younglivinglife]

in the US before covid i had crazy likes and matches on tinder and also when i geospoofed on tantan.

i tried hinge and bumble recently in the US but besides looksflation there's also the fact they throttled the algo so if you're not a NT chadlite or above then it's over on the free versions. i cant bring myself to try SEA

"i cant bring myself to try SEA"

Im not really sure what you are expecting then. Dating has gotten harder and its been 6 years since COVID.

 

[nomad]

 

[geneblackman]

"i cant bring myself to try SEA"

Im not really sure what you are expecting then. Dating has gotten harder and its been 6 years since COVID.

it's either white or east asian women for me. everything else is cope and doesn't give me validation

 

[younglivinglife]

it's either white or east asian women for me. everything else is cope and doesn't give me validation

And you have been to SEA many times?

 

[geneblackman]

And you have been to SEA many times?

there is nothing about SEA that interests me in the slightest except singapore and maybe kuala lumpur where ethnic chinese women would be

 

[AlexBrown84]

there is nothing about SEA that interests me in the slightest except singapore and maybe kuala lumpur where ethnic chinese women would be

bro doesn’t know thailand has da 2nd biggest overseas chinese population in da world

 

[younglivinglife]

there is nothing about SEA that interests me in the slightest except singapore and maybe kuala lumpur where ethnic chinese women would be

Have you been to China/Singapore/KL/Bangkok?

 

[geneblackman]

bro doesn’t know thailand has da 2nd biggest overseas chinese population in da world

im too innocent for BK that city will eat me alive

Have you been to China/Singapore/KL/Bangkok?

no

 

[younglivinglife]

im too innocent for BK that city will eat me alive


no

it's either white or east asian women for me. so this can not apply - when you meet a long term partner that will fit your criteria it's impossible to say what ethnicity she will be.

 

[Life]

im too innocent for BK that city will eat me alive


no

BKK must be one of the easiest cities in the world to live in if you have just a bit of money. Literally everything is on tap.