Vent my narcissism ruined my life

[geneblackman]

my non NT is palpable and im continuously told that i come off as arrogant and cold. i always care more about what picture to put online or what outfit to wear rather than if people find me nice to be around or not. i'll never be NT and NT sub 7s will always be happier than me

it's over

 

[wannaimprove]

if you have decent iq you can just learn some patterns to have people respond to you positively or at least increase the rate at which they do

I had the same problem when I was younger I came off as very unapproachable pissed off and cold - it was not the genuine hatred for people but just introversion and stoicism but combined with my physical presence that's the impression people got off me

then I got a sales job for a bit and read some books and at least reached the normie level - am no social butterfly at all but goal is to not have super major deficits in any area

bluepill advice but am genuinely trying to help you - have you heard of how to win friends and influence people for example ?

arent you in china btw ? i'd assume it's easier to ntmog them than let's say brasilians or italians

 

[masonfrancis]

Being narcissistic as a young male is a gift

 

[geneblackman]

if you have decent iq you can just learn some patterns to have people respond to you positively or at least increase the rate at which they do

I had the same problem when I was younger I came off as very unapproachable pissed off and cold - it was not the genuine hatred for people but just introversion and stoicism but combined with my physical presence that's the impression people got off me

then I got a sales job for a bit and read some books and at least reached the normie level - am no social butterfly at all but goal is to not have super major deficits in any area

bluepill advice but am genuinely trying to help you - have you heard of how to win friends and influence people for example ?

arent you in china btw ? i'd assume it's easier to ntmog them than let's say brasilians or italians

thanks bro i appreciate it. i did actually read that book and i think it helped a little but i still have this ingrained instinct to look down on people on sight even though i don't want to it's like embedded in my psyche

im not in china but i have an abg gf and im going to her country but she's incredibly NT with hyper NT hobbies and a large social circle so im probably gonna get nt mogged when i meet her friends and family unless i drink or do drugs beforehand. i already know i'll take their jokes as a personal insult then get pissed off and ruin the vibe

 

[geneblackman]

Being narcissistic as a young male is a gift

yeah it only works until you're like 25, 26 then it's a huge min unless you're successful and good looking

 

[masonfrancis]

yeah it only works until you're like 25, 26 then it's a huge min unless you're successful and good looking

If you are deeply narcissistic why you not 80kg lean and surgery maxed yet, you don’t want to be better than others?

your narcissism would then be seen/portrayed as “oh he’s just confident” “he’s just a keep himself to himself type of guy”

 

[wannaimprove]

look down on people on sight even though i don't want to it's like embedded in my psyche

what do you mean by look down on people on sight ?

you mean you got a bitch face and give cold stern to anybody ?

or do you actually look down on them (and if so is it most or those of lower status ? )

just curious

 

[geneblackman]

If you are deeply narcissistic why you not 80kg lean and surgery maxed yet, you don’t want to be better than others?

your narcissism would then be seen/portrayed as “oh he’s just confident” “he’s just a keep himself to himself type of guy”

because ive convinced myself that im ideal as i am without surgical intervention even though it's far from the truth and im objectively probably average or maybe slightly above max. i didn't even start editing my photos until this year because i never thought i needed to

you mean you got a bitch face and give cold stern to anybody ?

this. it's very off putting but i cant fix it

 

[masonfrancis]

because ive convinced myself that im ideal as i am without surgical intervention even though it's far from the truth and im objectively probably average or maybe slightly above max. i didn't even start editing my photos until this year because i never thought i needed to

Gotchya, yeah you need to shut that shit down ASAP


My autistic kkhv friend is like that, skinny fat but thinks he’s a chad and feels entitled to pussy.

 

[wannaimprove]

because ive convinced myself that im ideal as i am without surgical intervention even though it's far from the truth and im objectively probably average or maybe slightly above max. i didn't even start editing my photos until this year because i never thought i needed to


this. it's very off putting but i cant fix it

i have a mean/bitch face too

double edged sword but for women obviously negative

i cant even smile lol it looks unnatural on me