The NT pill (1 Viewer)

[FoidGrabber]

People always tell me to be “more NT” to get girls and LTR. Are you guys seriously telling me you would live in what is essentially a mental prison of masking in a long term relationship?

I mean sure you can NT fraud for a hookup, but isn’t this the point?


“Being more NT” isn’t a solution, you need to be desirable enough so it doesn’t matter or just in a tolerant culture. This is why dating in USA feels like a waste of time.

 

[geneblackman]

as far as geo maxing goes, it's possible to be desirable enough if you're white and tall with a mental illness. this isn't the case for everyone

it's an unfortunate reality even if you geomax. you have to be able to know when to be vulnerable, what to say, how to communicate for a LTR. schizophrenics, neurotics and autists wont be able to do this and even asian women will just find another jbw to do it

 

[Yuezhi]

I'm of the opinion that at least autism wise as long as it's not too extreme, you can learn to mask enough where it won't be as much of a problem in Asia.

Granted it may take a while though and it helps if you already have been practicing for years which in my case I have been since high school onwards and have gotten better since overtime. If you do it long enough it becomes much more natural but it wasn't easy at first messing up a lot making faux paus when I was younger although I learned from those experiences.

In my case getting older and going to the gym also really helped as well since you learn to give less of a fuck of what other people think from the test boost and as a result confidence which counterintuitively helped me act more normal and more masculine.

You will still prob never act 100% NT and some women will still be able to tell something is slightly off still since they're better at picking up on body language but it is what it is.

Anyways acting NT goes beyond just women and will improve your life in other ways with business opportunities, making friends etc.

 

[Yuezhi]

Anyways dwelling on your deficits too much doesn't help and it can become a cognitohazard. My advice is its better to focus on improving yourself in anyway you can with social skills and other areas of your life like gymaxing and making money all of which will help you with geomaxing.

I'm at the point where I forget I even have it anymore and most people cant tell but maybe I have a mild case which might be because I recieved early childhood intervention and again kept self improving on that front.

 

[masonfrancis]

People always tell me to be “more NT” to get girls and LTR. Are you guys seriously telling me you would live in what is essentially a mental prison of masking in a long term relationship?

I mean sure you can NT fraud for a hookup, but isn’t this the point?


“Being more NT” isn’t a solution, you need to be desirable enough so it doesn’t matter or just in a tolerant culture. This is why dating in USA feels like a waste of time.

Sadly true and it’s where i fuck up with white girls.


I somehow bring up bp, right wing etc up to them out of nowhere idk why.

 

[Yuezhi]

Sadly true and it’s where i fuck up with white girls.


I somehow bring up bp, right wing etc up to them out of nowhere idk why.

Yeah never mention this stuff to most people irl let alone chicks. If you're dating a non western chick long term and she's intelligent enough then maybe some of the rw stuff but that's it.

 

[geneblackman]

I somehow bring up bp, right wing etc up to them out of nowhere idk why.

because white girls aren't fun. i bring up bp all the time to ethnics and they agree with me

 

[explorer7878]

because white girls aren't fun. i bring up bp all the time to ethnics and they agree with me

most white girls have been exposed to lots of anti white pc propaganda . ofc they do not like this kind of topic

 

[FoidGrabber]

Tbh I just hate NT people. They aren’t rational people. I literally feel uncomfortable around them.

I’m starting to think about this differently, it’s not us it’s them.