Most guys put 0 effort into dating apps

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It's crazy how there's less than 5% of the profiles that are well optimized, and I'm being generous when saying 5%, it's more 1 to 2%
And once they get a match for the first time in 2 months, they can't think of anything better than sending some stupid pickup like or saying hello/how are you

its funny cause most of these guys are probably crying about chads or being short, when their profile is a 1/10

if your profile looks like that it doesn't matter if you are 6'4, or not, your sex appeal is 0

and these videos are UK and US, where guys are supposed to have good genetics and can afford to take care of themselves, in third world countries you are competing against poor locals and sexpats, you just need to stand out by having good pics
 
and this is why it works so well if you put in some effort
for most its much easier to blame everything on being ugly, and they dont even try
just by doing something you are ahead
 
Improving my photos worked in Geomax locations but not in the West. You still get filtered by the height filter. Might work for tallfags though
 
Sadly having good candid photos is usually intertwined with having a good social life and partially being naturally good looking, this is why a lot of people even here don't really have a huge pool of photos to choose from, since neurodivergent people usually prefer alone activities. There is always the option to pay a photographer but the result is not always genuine or believable, also you can't really "fake" being in certain social situations (parties, concerts, sports activities with friends). It's kinda of a paradox since you would have lots of photos to choose from if you were NT and good looking, since you would be doing lots of activities and living life to the fullest with your friends, but at that point you wouldn't probably need dating apps to slay girls, it's all a virtuous cycle
 
Sadly having good candid photos is usually intertwined with having a good social life and partially being naturally good looking, this is why a lot of people even here don't really have a huge pool of photos to choose from, since neurodivergent people usually prefer alone activities. There is always the option to pay a photographer but the result is not always genuine or believable, also you can't really "fake" being in certain social situations (parties, concerts, sports activities with friends). It's kinda of a paradox since you would have lots of photos to choose from if you were NT and good looking, since you would be doing lots of activities and living life to the fullest with your friends, but at that point you wouldn't probably need dating apps to slay girls, it's all a virtuous cycle
I think there’s Facebook groups for guys wanting to get Tinder photos together. They get the private yacht photos together (I don't do this but if you wanna do wealth frauding probably worth it). Can probably join these to meet other autists and get photos
 
Improving my photos worked in Geomax locations but not in the West. You still get filtered by the height filter. Might work for tallfags though
What type of photos do you recommend, i just have boring mirror pics and a selfie
 
Sadly having good candid photos is usually intertwined with having a good social life and partially being naturally good looking, this is why a lot of people even here don't really have a huge pool of photos to choose from, since neurodivergent people usually prefer alone activities. There is always the option to pay a photographer but the result is not always genuine or believable, also you can't really "fake" being in certain social situations (parties, concerts, sports activities with friends). It's kinda of a paradox since you would have lots of photos to choose from if you were NT and good looking, since you would be doing lots of activities and living life to the fullest with your friends, but at that point you wouldn't probably need dating apps to slay girls, it's all a virtuous cycle
High IQ post. Very true
 
Sadly having good candid photos is usually intertwined with having a good social life and partially being naturally good looking, this is why a lot of people even here don't really have a huge pool of photos to choose from, since neurodivergent people usually prefer alone activities. There is always the option to pay a photographer but the result is not always genuine or believable, also you can't really "fake" being in certain social situations (parties, concerts, sports activities with friends). It's kinda of a paradox since you would have lots of photos to choose from if you were NT and good looking, since you would be doing lots of activities and living life to the fullest with your friends, but at that point you wouldn't probably need dating apps to slay girls, it's all a virtuous cycle
that's true but its not that hard to get pics, you can simply get a tripod
to have a good profile there's no need for party, concerts and all that

it does take a lot of effort if you got 0 pics and never been into photography, fashion and all that
 
Improving my photos worked in Geomax locations but not in the West. You still get filtered by the height filter. Might work for tallfags though
how did you get filtered? was that on bumble?

because other dating apps dont have height filters, and its not obvious if someone is short unless he is ultra manlet
 
you sound like a woman.

most guys are average. and women are DROWNING in likes, that's why average guys get no play online.
yes i’m speaking with the perspective of the female gaze in mind

the vast majority of men are ugly in the eyes of a female
 
Most guys are ugly
I think they're ugly to us cos we're not gay but tons of gay guys will hookup with literally any guy. It's a standards thing. Women have a much lower sex drive for men so naturally they will be more picky. They also tend to have more attention to detail. Girls will pick each other apart and call each other ugly when tons of guys will shag basically any female even if she is deformed tier.
 
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That would mean they’re more selective lol
I meant more, I don't know why I said less. I often think faster than I can type so the words get jumbled. That's why I say though, incel stuff is often water is wet. They complain about not getting girls while hardly putting in any of the effort required. The male working to get the female isn't bound to humans, other animals share this as well.
 

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