I'm scared of being used for a visa

[lustfullydownbeat]

I'm down to fuck foreigners and have met a lots of them online that are down for me. But I think I would never marry one of them or start a family with them because if I do they're probably gonna wanna come to USA and if they come to USA I know more than likely they're going to change their mind about a lot of things including their relationship with me even if they did truly love me before they got here which is already uncertain and they might plan to just use me for visa from the beginning. And besides, I'm certain I can start a family at some point with someone who is already an american citizen without too much difficulty. What do you guys think? Am I being too paranoid or am I just reasonable?

 

[Cigarette]

welcome to the forum

 

[AlexBrown84]

How old are you

Study old material and develop the mindset of a metaphysical geomaxxer that focuses on all areas in order to avoid falling for such traps

 

[ExcuseMe]

maybe she will dump you after coming to the US, maybe not, who knows. I would first focus on meeting the woman IRL before theorymaxxing about what to do after marriage.

 

[lustfullydownbeat]

maybe she will dump you after coming to the US, maybe not, who knows. I would first focus on meeting the woman IRL before theorymaxxing about what to do after marriage.

I guess I can do that. I just have a tendency of falling in love fast and planning my life with a girl as soon as she shows interest so I was wondering if I should avoid doing this from the beginning or altogether.

 

[ExcuseMe]

I guess I can do that. I just have a tendency of falling in love fast and planning my life with a girl as soon as she shows interest so I was wondering if I should avoid doing this from the beginning or altogether.

if you feel like you're legitimately vibing with the woman, and the relationship is healthy, I don't see why you shouldn't imagine a future together

 

[geneblackman]

If you can attract MTB white women in the west then chances are the women you meet abroad will be genuinely attracted to you. Women who want a green card usually only target guys below their looks level. This happens a lot on muslim, indian and passportbro subreddits. A lot of those guys are delusional and uninteresting.

Make sure she's either of equal or below level in looks to you, or at most maybe 1 point higher and around the same age give or take 5 years. Make sure she's average or above average IQ. Make sure she has a stable life in her country.

It's pretty easy to tell if a woman is really into you or not. She'll make it incredibly obvious and you'll be able to feel it. Even online.

Look on Rednote. There are tons of Chinese women who are happily married to western guys both in- and outside of China and the couples are always looksmatched whether they're both 4s or both 7s.

 

[Rance]

Everything geneblackman said, plus try to go LTR with girls who maximize your "personal SMV" while also minimizing the "societal SMV". For example if you like girls with monolids, you should marry a girl with monolids, because she will be less attractive to potential rivals in the West

 

[RetireAndCope]

Everything geneblackman said, plus try to go LTR with girls who maximize your "personal SMV" while also minimizing the "societal SMV". For example if you like girls with monolids, you should marry a girl with monolids, because she will be less attractive to potential rivals in the West

This is good advice

Could you give some examples as you've probably thought about it more?

What I can think of for myself off the top is darker skin as I don't really care about whiteness

 

[Rance]

This is good advice

Could you give some examples as you've probably thought about it more?

What I can think of for myself off the top is darker skin as I don't really care about whiteness

For me another one would be short. I prefer girls in the 4'11"-5'2" height range, which I thought was pretty normal for a while but I eventually realized most guys like girls in the 5'3"-5'7" height range

And another, body proportions. I have no problem with a girl who has small boobs or a flat ass (within reason), as long as she's thin. A lot of American guys want the gyatt

I have said this before, but in my mind the greatest gift you could be born with is a strong attraction to black women. Sadly black women's SMV is in the gutter for most guys. If you have a thing for them you will have little competition except from black guys

 

[myeyes]

For me another one would be short. I prefer girls in the 4'11"-5'2" height range, which I thought was pretty normal for a while but I eventually realized most guys like girls in the 5'3"-5'7" height range

And another, body proportions. I have no problem with a girl who has small boobs or a flat ass (within reason), as long as she's thin. A lot of American guys want the gyatt

I have said this before, but in my mind the greatest gift you could be born with is a strong attraction to black women. Sadly black women's SMV is in the gutter for most guys. If you have a thing for them you will have little competition except from black guys

DON’T marry a short women if you’re planning on having kids in the west. The height pill will be 10x worse by the time your kid will grow up

Also to answer in general. The divorce rate doesn’t seem to change that much so your chances are probably the same with a foreign woman, the only difference is if you do get divorced normies will laugh at you and say you deserve it more than if you get divorced with a Western woman

 

[ExcuseMe]

For me another one would be short. I prefer girls in the 4'11"-5'2" height range

And another, body proportions. I have no problem with a girl who has small boobs or a flat ass (within reason)

 

[14passport]

I'm down to fuck foreigners and have met a lots of them online that are down for me. But I think I would never marry one of them or start a family with them because if I do they're probably gonna wanna come to USA and if they come to USA I know more than likely they're going to change their mind about a lot of things including their relationship with me even if they did truly love me before they got here which is already uncertain and they might plan to just use me for visa from the beginning. And besides, I'm certain I can start a family at some point with someone who is already an american citizen without too much difficulty. What do you guys think? Am I being too paranoid or am I just reasonable?

-most don't want to move to the USA, they prefer middle to upper class in their home country
-if you are properly looksmatched its not likely she will leave, that often happens because a fat 50 yo brings back a 20 yo

 

[F_Wilks]

Everything geneblackman said, plus try to go LTR with girls who maximize your "personal SMV" while also minimizing the "societal SMV". For example if you like girls with monolids, you should marry a girl with monolids, because she will be less attractive to potential rivals in the West

Gotta go find me a Mongolian warrior princess.

 

[F_Wilks]

And another, body proportions. I have no problem with a girl who has small boobs or a flat ass (within reason), as long as she's thin. A lot of American guys want the gyatt

Is it true that that describes the vast majority of girls you met in Japan?

For me it's probably the number 1 reason for not going to East Asia. Flat chest for me is an instant 0/10. Everything else could be perfect, but a flat chest would be an instant dealbreaker.

 

[Rance]

Is it true that that describes the vast majority of girls you met in Japan?

For me it's probably the number 1 reason for not going to East Asia. Flat chest for me is an instant 0/10. Everything else could be perfect, but a flat chest would be an instant dealbreaker.

Small breasts yeah, most of them are in the A cup to C cup range. Ass is pretty great though depending on what you want. They don't have BIG asses but they're cute and shaped well.

When I say "flat chest" I don't mean literally flat, I mean like A cup territory