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I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months. She is from China, I will come live with her soon while continuing my studies. She is HTB, very rich, smart and very conservative.
She loves me immensely and I love her too. However I feel I start to be a cuck more and more. I am getting more and more blue pilled.
She is extremely possessive, while we are far away, constantly ringing my phone, putting me in horrible situations because if I don’t answer her she will go absolutely crazy. For example when I welcome friends at my home she will keep calling me, and I awkwardly have to deal with it and look like an absolute cuck.

She is so possessive and jealous, I feel like I am losing freedom. I feel like I am developing anxiety because of this shit too.

On the other side, I don’t think I can find a girl who is more loving, sexier and as serious as her. She really sacrifices herself a lot for me too.

So what do you guys think ? I need advice from you experienced guys since it’s my first girl, I don’t want to get trapped but losing her would really hit hard.
 
dm me pics of her

but you gotta put that hoe in her place.

Exutoire said:
She loves me immensely and I love her too. However I feel I start to be a cuck more and more. I am getting more and more blue pilled.
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you shouldn’t try to repress your anima. if you do it right, being around ur gf can help you become balanced

on the flip side for her, she’s acting more masculine for her because of repressed emotions, mostly masculine in nature. probably feelings of inferioirty and acting out against you as a coping mechanism

why don’t you come to my clinic here in china? it wouldn’t be more than a few hours train ride from where you’re at.i’ve recently opened up one now that i’m officially a licensed psychologist

i’ll give you a few free sessions as you’re a member of the geomaxia society
 
Exutoire said:
I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months. She is from China, I will come live with her soon while continuing my studies. She is HTB, very rich, smart and very conservative.
She loves me immensely and I love her too. However I feel I start to be a cuck more and more. I am getting more and more blue pilled.
She is extremely possessive, while we are far away, constantly ringing my phone, putting me in horrible situations because if I don’t answer her she will go absolutely crazy. For example when I welcome friends at my home she will keep calling me, and I awkwardly have to deal with it and look like an absolute cuck.

She is so possessive and jealous, I feel like I am losing freedom. I feel like I am developing anxiety because of this shit too.

On the other side, I don’t think I can find a girl who is more loving, sexier and as serious as her. She really sacrifices herself a lot for me too.

So what do you guys think ? I need advice from you experienced guys since it’s my first girl, I don’t want to get trapped but losing her would really hit hard.
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Just let her keep you as a white monkey boy toy lol
 
AlexBrown84 said:
dm me pics of her

but you gotta put that hoe in her place.


you shouldn’t try to repress your anima. if you do it right, being around ur gf can help you become balanced

on the flip side for her, she’s acting more masculine for her because of repressed emotions, mostly masculine in nature. probably feelings of inferioirty and acting out against you as a coping mechanism

why don’t you come to my clinic here in china? it wouldn’t be more than a few hours train ride from where you’re at.i’ve recently opened up one now that i’m officially a licensed psychologist

i’ll give you a few free sessions as you’re a member of the geomaxia society
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Wonderful
 
Xavist said:
Why is she so obsessed with you do you think?
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Tall and white is of course part of the equation but she knows many foreign models so it’s not only looks.
I think I filled a kind of fantasy. Like pure, European guy fantasy. For some reason she is obsessed with purity. If I had a lot of lays she would hate it. The fact that I was incel paradoxically helped me there.
It’s really strange.
 
Exutoire said:
Tall and white is of course part of the equation but she knows many foreign models so it’s not only looks.
I think I filled a kind of fantasy. Like pure, European guy fantasy. For some reason she is obsessed with purity. If I had a lot of lays she would hate it. The fact that I was incel paradoxically helped me there.
It’s really strange.
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do you make her cum

do you use condom
 
Same old story, the longer you wait to put down your boundaries the harder it will be to control the relationship. You settled down with the first girl who was willing to date you. We all told you that this would happen. It's not that you made the wrong choice, but that the consequences of settling before playing are coming home to roost. You're feeling anxious because your mind is telling you that this is your sole shot at love, which is not the case, but you believe it because you haven't experienced any different.

You need to de-center your mind from her and demonstrate, both to her and to yourself, that you have other things going on that demand your attention and emotional resources. This can be done from a place of love. It's never an argument. It's always from the position of "I'm living a cool life, and you're an important part of that, so let me do my work and trust that it'll make us both happy".

Relevant quote from a post I made (from https://geomax.me/threads/hot-girls-in-philippines.7331/post-81847)
Rance said:
If you are not willing or able to multi-date, you should at least be doing a "diet" version of it by having good looking female friends, being a little mysterious about where you're hanging out, and ideally building a strong presence on social media. "I would never cheat on you, I love you" ... but I could!
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If she’s the rich girl who is constantly calling you, she’s the cuck. You also get some SMV bonus points in front of your friends.

I’m pretty sure she can help you more than your degree ever will. Universities sell you the dream of a successful career, but in most cases you’re on your own. Just show that you’re studying Chinese and her culture at the same time, and she will likely help you in the future
 
She’s showing her true colours, this is classic Chinese girl behaviour.

What reason exactly does she need you to respond right away? Have you asked her?

You’re at a crossroads, you have to nip this in the bud now.
 
Meeks said:
She’s showing her true colours, this is classic Chinese girl behaviour.

What reason exactly does she need you to respond right away? Have you asked her?

You’re at a crossroads, you have to nip this in the bud now.
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Apparently she is extremely possessive. She gets very anxious. She thinks I am cheating.
 
Exutoire said:
I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months. She is from China, I will come live with her soon while continuing my studies. She is HTB, very rich, smart and very conservative.
She loves me immensely and I love her too. However I feel I start to be a cuck more and more. I am getting more and more blue pilled.
She is extremely possessive, while we are far away, constantly ringing my phone, putting me in horrible situations because if I don’t answer her she will go absolutely crazy. For example when I welcome friends at my home she will keep calling me, and I awkwardly have to deal with it and look like an absolute cuck.

She is so possessive and jealous, I feel like I am losing freedom. I feel like I am developing anxiety because of this shit too.

On the other side, I don’t think I can find a girl who is more loving, sexier and as serious as her. She really sacrifices herself a lot for me too.

So what do you guys think ? I need advice from you experienced guys since it’s my first girl, I don’t want to get trapped but losing her would really hit hard.
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okay from a guy that is divorced and regret.
a girl that is completelly into you. means you control the story.
NO OTHER GIRL i going to be like that with you.
PERIOD
keep her. Make her do whatever you want.
"bitch, i want blow jobs while we watch movies"
do that.
"lets fuck on an airplane or a train" kinda thing
TRUST ME............
i been in a fuck ton of a relationships. keep her
pussy all gets old, or else your going to be liek me. chasing, allways fuckng chasing the perfect and the truth is. you had perfect. DO NOT be me
 
Meeks said:
update on this?
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I have continued it normally, held tight and now I am in China with her. It’s going well but I still have the thought of breaking up in my mind. Rationally she is very good for me but at the same time she is my only experience so I still have an itch to scratch and a desire to see other girls, try something new…
However, I am no statusmaxxed male model so I know the other option is not bright and I am well with her.
So far so good.
 
biggunsar said:
okay from a guy that is divorced and regret.
a girl that is completelly into you. means you control the story.
NO OTHER GIRL i going to be like that with you.
PERIOD
keep her. Make her do whatever you want.
"bitch, i want blow jobs while we watch movies"
do that.
"lets fuck on an airplane or a train" kinda thing
TRUST ME............
i been in a fuck ton of a relationships. keep her
pussy all gets old, or else your going to be liek me. chasing, allways fuckng chasing the perfect and the truth is. you had perfect. DO NOT be me
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Thanks for the advice mate
 
Exutoire said:
I have continued it normally, held tight and now I am in China with her. It’s going well but I still have the thought of breaking up in my mind. Rationally she is very good for me but at the same time she is my only experience so I still have an itch to scratch and a desire to see other girls, try something new…
However, I am no statusmaxxed male model so I know the other option is not bright and I am well with her.
So far so good.
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Would you say it’s quite easy to model in china as a european?
 
Does she still call you all the time and think you’re cheating on her?

She sounds great otherwise tbh
 
Meeks said:
Does she still call you all the time and think you’re cheating on her?

She sounds great otherwise tbh
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Well now I came back to China so the problem is solved since I am with her. However, lately I discovered she was a little bit older than I expected… (I am 21 and she is 27). I guess it was too good to be true.
This age gap is really not ideal
 
Exutoire said:
Well now I came back to China so the problem is solved since I am with her. However, lately I discovered she was a little bit older than I expected… (I am 21 and she is 27). I guess it was too good to be true.
This age gap is really not ideal
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she has been lying to you about her age for months? massive red flag.
 
explorer7878 said:
she has been lying to you about her age for months? massive red flag.
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She hasn’t been lying to me actually, it’s just that the topic wasn’t approached and I knew she was older and she gave me a rough timeline which made me believe she was 25ish.
Well she’s great otherwise but that age gap is really a pain
 
Exutoire said:
Well now I came back to China so the problem is solved since I am with her. However, lately I discovered she was a little bit older than I expected… (I am 21 and she is 27). I guess it was too good to be true.
This age gap is really not ideal
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Wow. Usually it’s the passport bros doing the age frauding!
 
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