Vent I need your help guys. Girlfriend situation

[wannaimprove]

Yup, it’s pretty comfortable and cool right now. Financially pretty advantageous because I am still studying, it’s also a good way to progress rapidly in mandarin and she even helps me fix my autistic fashion.
rn I am focusing on properly leanmaxxing and looksmaxxing to get to my prime, then if I feel I have high enough SMV for it to be worth it, I will explore other options.

you doing well bro dont let others convince you to fuck it up

27 is young

 

[Exutoire]

just keep progressing in life, hold her down, keep ascending, cheat on the side when you feel like it. You got this king, i shall rejoin the journey to the East circa q4

I wouldn’t cheat on her though. This crosses the ethical line for me, especially for such a good girl.

 

[wannaimprove]

Can you give me her number once you've dumped her? I'm really looking for a rich Asian mommy

no asian mommy for your 160cm

 

[Exutoire]

W penis and height mog

The poor lad was a premature cummer apparently ;/

 

[wannaimprove]

I wouldn’t cheat on her though. This crosses the ethical line for me, especially for such a good girl.

i meant like fuck it up through not appreciating or breaking or whatever even cheating

but yeah you're right

 

[Exutoire]

i meant like fuck it up through not appreciating or breaking or whatever even cheating

but yeah you're right

I was responding to Acolyte but yeah I know what you mean and agree

 

[AlexanderAcolyte]

I wouldn’t cheat on her though. This crosses the ethical line for me, especially for such a good girl.

you said you're lacking experience though? I get what you mean but if I was in that situation I'd do it. Think about the benefits for her, you could become a better lover.

win win

 

[wannaimprove]

I’m really wondering how easy it would be for a white man in China to get a rich chinese women.

I remember i was in a chinese airline and i walked past first class and it was just full of singular chinese girls

nohomo but seeing you you have a fucking ideal phenotype you are wasting your time in europe

just go to china already lol

if you find some rich auntie then donate to the forum that helped you

 

[AlexanderAcolyte]

you said you're lacking experience though? I get what you mean but if I was in that situation I'd do it. Think about the benefits for her, you could become a better lover.

win win

@Exutoire im not trolling btw, it's a shame to grow old without seeing your full potential

 

[Exutoire]

you said you're lacking experience though? I get what you mean but if I was in that situation I'd do it. Think about the benefits for her, you could become a better lover.

win win

Nah I’m confident in my dick game haha

 

[myeyes]

nohomo but seeing you you have a fucking ideal phenotype you are wasting your time in europe

just go to china already lol

if you find some rich auntie then donate to the forum that helped you

I think @masonfrancis could become super rich if he worked as an OF recruiter in Thailand or Philippines and got paid in commission (and avoided the police)

 

[Exutoire]

@Exutoire im not trolling btw, it's a shame to grow old without seeing your full potential

Yeah agreed. That’s why I still keep exploring other horizons as a very probable option. I still got a bit of time in front of me realistically though so I prefer testing my max SMV before

 

[masonfrancis]

I think @masonfrancis could become super rich if he worked as an OF recruiter in Thailand or Philippines and got paid in commission (and avoided the police)

I’m geomaxing full time from july, will keep that in mind.

i fumbled badly, i already told you but my ex who’s obsessed with me started OF and she’s now making a fuck ton of money i had the chance to manage her but i fumbled it..


i wonder how id go about it in asia tho.

There seems to be a pattern, when i was in BKK and met guys similar age to me, id sometimes ask “what you doing for money out here” it’s always OFM or something girl related.

 

[14passport]

I think @masonfrancis could become super rich if he worked as an OF recruiter in Thailand or Philippines and got paid in commission (and avoided the police)

iirc filipinas cant even signup for onlyfans
and in Thailand its illegal if you do full nudes, and they arrest people quite often

 

[geneblackman]

The poor lad was a premature cummer apparently ;/

brutal me too and she brings it up all the time

 

[14passport]

Yup, it’s pretty comfortable and cool right now. Financially pretty advantageous because I am still studying, it’s also a good way to progress rapidly in mandarin and she even helps me fix my autistic fashion.
rn I am focusing on properly leanmaxxing and looksmaxxing to get to my prime, then if I feel I have high enough SMV for it to be worth it, I will explore other options.

so what are you expecting to get even if you improve your SMV a bit?
she is hot, rich, and loves you

how much better does it get?

 

[nomad]

I wouldn’t cheat on her though. This crosses the ethical line for me, especially for such a good girl.

 

[AlexanderAcolyte]

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almost spit out my coffee

 

[Exutoire]

so what are you expecting to get even if you improve your SMV a bit?
she is hot, rich, and loves you

how much better does it get?

Good point. I guess if I could get a stacylite down the line it would be worth it

 

[nomad]

Good point. I guess if I could get a stacylite down the line it would be worth it

brutal hypergamy pill

 

[14passport]

Good point. I guess if I could get a stacylite down the line it would be worth it

I don't see a lot of upside unless you believe you can get stacylite and all of the good things you had before

for a relationship your girl being slightly hotter doesn't make much of a difference

 

[Exutoire]

brutal hypergamy pill

Thinking back about it, the blackpill has probably rotten my brain quite a bit.
Maybe this economic and transactional approach to relationships has its limits after all..
« Ascend and forget » : maybe that’s the right path

 

[wannaimprove]

Thinking back about it, the blackpill has probably rotten my brain quite a bit.
Maybe this economic and transactional approach to relationships has its limits after all..
« Ascend and forget » : maybe that’s the right path

brother I can go on a date and if some girl brutally mogs my date then my date is ruined

Fucking mental issue

 

[nomad]

Thinking back about it, the blackpill has probably rotten my brain quite a bit.
Maybe this economic and transactional approach to relationships has its limits after all..
« Ascend and forget » : maybe that’s the right path

it has. if you still have the mental fortitude to leave bp, then do so and never look back

 

[AlexanderAcolyte]

Thinking back about it, the blackpill has probably rotten my brain quite a bit.
Maybe this economic and transactional approach to relationships has its limits after all..
« Ascend and forget » : maybe that’s the right path

the power of belief is strong, just believe in yourself that you can get a stacylite, don't let anyone tell you otherwise king

 

[Exutoire]

it has. if you still have the mental fortitude to leave bp, then do so and never look back

Maybe I will try that. The knowledge never really goes away for the best and the worst. But having less reminders of it can definitely improve QOL and make you a more healthy human being

 

[14passport]

Thinking back about it, the blackpill has probably rotten my brain quite a bit.
Maybe this economic and transactional approach to relationships has its limits after all..
« Ascend and forget » : maybe that’s the right path

easier said than done but with this mentality you will never be happy about your life

 

[PointOfNoReturn]

She is extremely possessive, while we are far away, constantly ringing my phone, putting me in horrible situations because if I don’t answer her she will go absolutely crazy. For example when I welcome friends at my home she will keep calling me, and I awkwardly have to deal with it and look like an absolute cuck.

crazy chink things

Just keep your phone out of reach or mute her. She is going to continue interfering with your life if you don't set boundaries.

but you gotta put that hoe in her place.

^

 

[PointOfNoReturn]

it has. if you still have the mental fortitude to leave bp, then do so and never look back

Also cut off everyone associated with bp if you have them as contacts outside the forum
I stayed in touch with one and they kept bringing up shit I could care less about nigh daily till I eventually returned after a year or so

Maybe I will try that. The knowledge never really goes away for the best and the worst. But having less reminders of it can definitely improve QOL and make you a more healthy human being

Tbh once you leave these spaces you realize blackpill POV comes from neckbeards spreading theories from the confines of their basement or people who have experienced the worst of it. Most of this shit isn't applicable to the majority on forum users imo

 

[Exutoire]

crazy chink things

Just keep your phone out of reach or mute her. She is going to continue interfering with your life if you don't set boundaries.

^

Haha it’s low key solved now that I am in China but yeah it was annoying

 

[Exutoire]

Also cut off everyone associated with bp if you have them as contacts outside the forum
I stayed in touch with one and they kept bringing up shit I could care less about nigh daily till I eventually returned after a year or so

Tbh once you leave these spaces you realize blackpill POV comes from neckbeards spreading theories from the confines of their basement or people who have experienced the worst of it. Most of this shit isn't applicable to the majority on forum users imo

Yeah ur right. Lucky me, I only have « normie » friends.
I think ur right. Clearly also too many autists on these spaces which give a completely warped view of reality.
Leaving org and deleting my account back in 2024 was already a blessing for my mental health.

Maybe it’s time for a farewell.

 

[PointOfNoReturn]

Yeah ur right. Lucky me, I only have « normie » friends.
I think ur right. Clearly also too many autists on these spaces which give a completely warped view of reality.
Leaving org and deleting my account back in 2024 was already a blessing for my mental health.

Maybe it’s time for a farewell.

If you can leave without checking your acc or notifs on forums daily, keep your acc. Some people say they'll leave but never do till they are banned or acc deleted.

All in all, time spent on forums could be better invested elsewhere. Hardest part is taking the first step. I mostly just come here for motivation since it is nice to see others progressing. Feels sort of liking having an accountability partner. This seems to be the only space in blackpill sphere where people don't remain sedentary and post about their pipe dreams.

 

[Exutoire]

If you can leave without checking your acc or notifs on forums daily, keep your acc. Some people say they'll leave but never do till they are banned or acc deleted.

All in all, time spent on forums could be better invested elsewhere. Hardest part is taking the first step. I mostly just come here for motivation since it is nice to see others progressing. Feels sort of liking having an accountability partner. This seems to be the only space in blackpill sphere where people don't remain sedentary and post about their pipe dreams.

Yeah I guess I’ll just keep my account and check it sometimes. I have been spending a little too much time on here lately.

You’re definitely right about time wasted on forums. Honestly, even talking about the internet more widely, it’s crazy how much time and attention we modern people lose on useless bullshit. I can’t remember how many times I spent watching a video on YouTube or a reel on instagram, thinking it would be useful or important, and then absolutely never utilized the knowledge. I am not even talking about video games, which honestly probably took away a third of my life so far and are the most gigantic time pit ever created, I am very happy to have stopped that for good.

It’s only when your mind is freed from all the distracting slop that you can really take action and do impressive things in life.

 

[AlexanderAcolyte]

Haha it’s low key solved now that I am in China but yeah it was annoying

u were ldr'ing her before coming?

 

[Exutoire]

u were ldr'ing her before coming?

Nah, it’s because I went back to Europe for a while

 

[FoidGrabber]

Ascend and forget. I like this logic actually. I think everyone should shoot for HTN then be bluepilled lnfaoooo.

 

[AlexanderAcolyte]

Ascend and forget. I like this logic actually. I think everyone should shoot for HTN then be bluepilled lnfaoooo.

of course, you never reveal the blackpill to ANYONE

 

[Orientalist]

It's over, this more or less happened to me. When I fuck off out of this city in June, saying goodbye to my main squeeze is gonna be some kdrama shit for sure


Every Sunday I have to deal with some emotional episode. This thread is your warning for anyone coming to China and staying in one city for more than several months, e.g. working/studying. What are you gonna do if a girl falls in love with you or vice versa?
Personally I'm schizoid and basically incapable of reciprocating that emotion which adds some complexity but that's just me

 

[wannaimprove]

It's over, this more or less happened to me. When I fuck off out of this city in June, saying goodbye to my main squeeze is gonna be some kdrama shit for sure

Personally I'm schizoid and basically incapable of reciprocating that emotion which adds some complexity but that's just me

if you dont have emotion then why do you care ?

 

[Orientalist]

if you dont have emotion then why do you care ?

I still have ethics and can comprehend the negative effects of what I’m doing by making a girl fall in love with me without intention to take things seriously and consider marriage, etc.
I’m a very all or nothing person; this experience has made me realize I’d rather stick with the nothing option. Never had an LTR before this. That’s just me though. But this seems to be a common experience with Chinese girls.. they try and lock you down and don’t really fuck around.
Time to jump ship as smoothly as possible and avoid this in the future

 

[wannaimprove]

@Orientalist

Ok I understand and respect that

I have been fucked over too many times to care about stuff like that anymore

Are you young by any chance?

Just curious


Btw if you don't love her you are actually doing a noble thing pulling off the bandaid rather than letting it stick more

 

[masonfrancis]

I still have ethics and can comprehend the negative effects of what I’m doing by making a girl fall in love with me without intention to take things seriously and consider marriage, etc.
I’m a very all or nothing person; this experience has made me realize I’d rather stick with the nothing option. Never had an LTR before this. That’s just me though. But this seems to be a common experience with Chinese girls.. they try and lock you down and don’t really fuck around.
Time to jump ship as smoothly as possible and avoid this in the future
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China is ideal for marriagemaxing??

 

[AlexanderAcolyte]

It's over, this more or less happened to me. When I fuck off out of this city in June, saying goodbye to my main squeeze is gonna be some kdrama shit for sure
View attachment 13591

Every Sunday I have to deal with some emotional episode. This thread is your warning for anyone coming to China and staying in one city for more than several months, e.g. working/studying. What are you gonna do if a girl falls in love with you or vice versa?
Personally I'm schizoid and basically incapable of reciprocating that emotion which adds some complexity but that's just me

ending ur first LTR is always character development, W ascension