I don't. I like to control my environment. I would need to have that person come to my house first. Size her up. get as much information as i can about her. And let her know thats' exactly what im doing. So if anything goes south, she knows i have talked to other people about her. It may sound paranoid, but better to do it that way. This way, she wont' take you for a fool (like this idiot) i mean, how old is that guy? and he's still being led around by his dick?! guy is a moron who doens't value his life. ya...if he was 20 something. I get it, your dumb. But anyone 30 plus should NOT be getting into these situations with an IQ over 110.