im sorry but dude....maybe you just aren't meant to travel
i could show you things, but you never asked me to show you things.
the water is fine. I brush with it every day, only got sick once in my 2 and a half years here, and it was the flu. Sick for 4 days.
and jakarta is 4 cities in one. Depends where you stay, how it will suit you, you want clean, hardly any mosques. Go south. you know near the downtown area that looks like newyork times square.
you want less noise, go west, tangerang area. Or east, apartments in the keymayoran area. very spacious lots of trees. golf courses are there.
north, ya, its old, dirty, noisy, and sidewalks are unwalkable. but it's where all the bad girls are.
take your pick
But what i love about indonesia. It's worse than thailand (if you know what i mean) but it's never in your face. So unless you explore or meet up with expats like me, you are never gonna know it. You can walk by bad ass clubs, and never know they were their. Its how they do it here. out of sight out of mind. remember it is after all a muslim country.
and if you find jakarta boring, it's because you want to be bored. There are a million things to do here. Not just malls, The clubs are off the chain (there is a website that shows you alot of them. let me know if you want it) . Or if you like doing nerdy things, like board games for example, there are groups and building catered around that (restaurants that host board game tables and always people wanting you to join). they have bowling, VR, arcades, shit......whatever you can think of. Infact, google whatever you want to do "________ jakarta". you will find it
But you are right the malls are MASSIVE here and crowded. Isn't that a good thing? Most people would think so.
grab is your travel mode.
As far as bumble. maybe it's just me, but i match with fucking all hot girls. Maybe your doing it wrong. Here is a girl im talking to on whatsapp for the past 2 days. named tiara. (sorry photo sucks, meh whatsapp) pulling the date trigger tomorrow if all goes well. I would post more of my matches, but unless bumble has an online version. fuck it, too much work
and shopee.co.id is your amazon. not shitty tokopedia
shopee does COD if it's under 100k. And if you select "pay with a mitra agent:, you can go to indo mart or alphamart and pay for your shit there.
and there is also gopay, download install, click top up. put in whatever. now go to indomart or alpha. say "top up go pay" put whatever money you want on it. BAM then transfer that to shopee or use it to buy shit.
and all of asia is hot bro. but it doesn't bother me. lived in the caribbean for over 20 years. So gimme da heat mon.
if you do want a night out with a bunch of expats let me know (ages 26 to 46). We go out often and do all you can eat buffets and hang out at malls, get numbers, ect. Infact we might be going out sunday night. For dinner, you are welcome to join. there will only be 3 of us this time, friday night it was 8 of us.