How do you avoid gold diggers?
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14passport
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-Date women close to your age
-Date women studying or with white collar jobs
-Don't go to expensive places on the first dates
-If she likes you, she will offer to pay part of the date on the 1st or 2nd day
-For the most part avoid those with social media/dating apps full of expensive places and designer clothes in poor countries, women with rooftop pics, dubai, singapore, trips to Europe
-Be realistic, just because you are in a different country it doesn't mean women have no standards, if it's too good to be true, it probably is and she is after your money
-Avoid those obsessed with social media, partying, rooftops, travels, shopping... date someone that has hobbies, smart and ambitious
-Date women studying or with white collar jobs
-Don't go to expensive places on the first dates
-If she likes you, she will offer to pay part of the date on the 1st or 2nd day
-For the most part avoid those with social media/dating apps full of expensive places and designer clothes in poor countries, women with rooftop pics, dubai, singapore, trips to Europe
-Be realistic, just because you are in a different country it doesn't mean women have no standards, if it's too good to be true, it probably is and she is after your money
-Avoid those obsessed with social media, partying, rooftops, travels, shopping... date someone that has hobbies, smart and ambitious
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#1 advice is date someone that has something going on for themselves. avoid "rescuing" women. make sure she is either from a good family or is studying hard. most of these girls probably go to college but live off weekend to weekend leeching off of tourists. thats why its important to always date someone who comes from an established family or has someone paying for their stuff like college and other shit
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im 50/50 on this. i know girls that get with men to just travel and i also have personal friends that just travel with their families when they're on vacation from college. can't really know this days
but ngl once u see Dubai u know its over
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we are talking about geomaxx locations, it's 1% chance she visited with her family, 99% it was a rich simp flying her all over the world
in Europe, US and other rich countries its different ofc, as middle class girls can afford all those countries or with family
Don't give girls money beyond paying for dates. It's very simple.
You could also either be broke or look broke. It shouldn't stop you from getting any play.
That's no good either. What can a girl really have "going for herself"? Chasing a career is bullshit for girls.
What do you want her to be "educated" for? So she can go work and keep money separate from you for her and her family wherever she's from? Out of your house working to support another person's family?
A woman should be at home being a wife and mother.
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No but chances are that you wont run into any gold diggers if the female comes from a good family
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depends on location.
they probably get their ass filled with cum 24/7 if u see dubai, barcelona, madrid, ibiza, LA and miami
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Be honest to yourself about your looks and don't shoot too high above your level, see if she offers to pay for anything (if a girl actually likes you she'll buy you something), see if she's passionate about hobbies or into volunteering.
Honestly, it's usually just a vibe you can feel when you subconsciously know someone is into you for you or not. The problem is many guys overlook glaring signs
Honestly, it's usually just a vibe you can feel when you subconsciously know someone is into you for you or not. The problem is many guys overlook glaring signs
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so you want traditional women but at the same time not pay for it?
thats dumb as fuck
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not really, at least in Europe its quite common for middle class to go there
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i think most guys know but they prefer a gold digger than getting a girl on their league, if they are dumb enough to not recognise the gold diggers theres no saving them
I said nothing beyond dates. What else could a traditional woman want a man she's dating to pay for? What's she need to do, get her fucking nails done?
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I'm not sure if you're trolling, but what do you expect a hot young woman to stay at home all day waiting for you? Just because you pay her rent and food?
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Getting her MRS degree
In other words, you’re already playing a losing game if she’s older than early 20s
