How do you even do club game?

[myeyes]

A girl I slept with from Laos who very obviously has a white guy fetish told me she and her friends sometimes like to party on Khao san road. I thought it was a meme, but it seems some girls actually go there to meet white dudes.

So I go there for the first time in my life, the street is so crowded with tourists (and this is low season…) you can’t stop to hit on any of them, and the clubs are so incredibly loud (even for clubs standards) that you physically can’t shout hard enough for them to hear.

So how does this shit work? The only conclusion I can think of is hiring a dance coach to teach me how to dance at these clubs and then just do dance game on the girls. But I don’t have the money for that at the moment anyway.

I feel like I’m too autistic for this, can any Chads here give me any advice?

 

[AlexBrown84]

Height + fitting into the big 3 phenotypes is law on khaosan.

 

[Orientalist]

I mean somewhere like Khaosan probably needs you to be profoundly NT/extraverted and tall. Probably a lot of classic redpill stuff applies like being loud and AMOGing everyone
Not like I would compare it to being at some local venue.

But I have no fucking idea since I've never gone clubbing other than to actually dance to EDM. If you're chad I think you just stand around in the corner and inevitably get approached

 

[EEmaxxer]

A girl I slept with from Laos who very obviously has a white guy fetish told me she and her friends sometimes like to party on Khao san road. I thought it was a meme, but it seems some girls actually go there to meet white dudes.

So I go there for the first time in my life, the street is so crowded with tourists (and this is low season…) you can’t stop to hit on any of them, and the clubs are so incredibly loud (even for clubs standards) that you physically can’t shout hard enough for them to hear.

So how does this shit work? The only conclusion I can think of is hiring a dance coach to teach me how to dance at these clubs and then just do dance game on the girls. But I don’t have the money for that at the moment anyway.

I feel like I’m too autistic for this, can any Chads here give me any advice?

Hey, Asian Chad here, all you gotta do is just stand in the middle of the dance floor and hot girls will just approach you bro. You don’t even need to dance. Works for me every time.

 

[ExcuseMe]

club game is all about the lizard brain. the music is usually so loud that it's literally impossible to have a conversation. the key is to be physically masculine and low-inhib.
personally I never liked clubs, I only ever went there with friends, and I have zero idea how to dance with a woman - but I still had some success thanks to being gymmaxxed. I know that because women would sometimes comment about my muscles or ask if I work out.

 

[fatchadlitecel]

A girl I slept with from Laos who very obviously has a white guy fetish told me she and her friends sometimes like to party on Khao san road. I thought it was a meme, but it seems some girls actually go there to meet white dudes.

So I go there for the first time in my life, the street is so crowded with tourists (and this is low season…) you can’t stop to hit on any of them, and the clubs are so incredibly loud (even for clubs standards) that you physically can’t shout hard enough for them to hear.

So how does this shit work? The only conclusion I can think of is hiring a dance coach to teach me how to dance at these clubs and then just do dance game on the girls. But I don’t have the money for that at the moment anyway.

I feel like I’m too autistic for this, can any Chads here give me any advice?

I talked to a girl on tinder and met her at the train station and we walked to a club at KSR together while talking. We were making out in the club after a couple beers.

The club was also dead it was mostly Asian people standing around not dancing with extremely loud music. We left after an hour and then did the same shit at another bar but that bar had more westerners and Indians. It was alright but I just said lets go back to my place and took a grab to my hotel while she was making out with me in the back seat. Then she had to hand over her ID to the hotel clerk and we fucked in my hotel.

 

[myeyes]

Hmmm so the general consensus seems to just be Chad, but that doesn’t explain why this girl from Laos is seeing me when she could just get a Chad from Khaosan road. She’s 7/10 skinny and fairly big boobs, could easily get a Chad.

So there must be potential girls there for me if I can work out what I’m meant to be actually doing

 

[14passport]

You are in Bangkok and want to go to Khaosan Road? Why?
Only reason is if you are chad backpacker that's there for 3 days or if you enjoy getting drunk.

It has to be the worse place, its full of good looking tourists and the girls are freelancers or foreigner chasers that have been with a 100 before.

 

[myeyes]

You are in Bangkok and want to go to Khaosan Road? Why?
Only reason is if you are chad backpacker that's there for 3 days or if you enjoy getting drunk.

It has to be the worse place, its full of good looking tourists and the girls are freelancers or foreigner chasers that have been with a 100 before.

I mean I explained why I went there in the post

Also girls on the dating apps probably been with 100 guys before too

 

[ExcuseMe]

@myeyes how did you meet the Laotian girl? was it in a nightclub?

 

[14passport]

I mean I explained why I went there in the post

Also girls on the dating apps probably been with 100 guys before too

but at the very least chad backpackers in hostels aren't grinding tinder
and that's the only serious competition in bangkok

 

[myeyes]

@myeyes how did you meet the Laotian girl? was it in a nightclub?

On a dating app, she just told me her and her friends go there. She’s in Laos for a little bit now so I decided to go there

But the main point of the thread was how to do club game: maybe there’s better clubs? I still don’t know

 

[ExcuseMe]

the main point of the thread was how to do club game

when you're in the type of venue that has loud music and a big dancefloor (i.e. not a lounge bar or a sit-down pub kinda thing), then IMO the crucial but often neglected foundation is to have fun dancing.
everytime you go to the club, you will see those guys who just stand there awkwardly, kinda swaying from one leg to the other, looking around. it's very obvious they don't like being in a dancefloor environment, and are just scouting for a woman to approach. you don't want to be one of those guys. if you're feeling awkward or uncomfortable, it will show in subtle ways and throw off your vibe.

so when you're already in the dancefloor getting your groove on, you make contact non-verbally. interrupting a woman's dance to yell into her ear like "hey I'm [name]" or "you're very beautiful" is a huge failo. I've done that mistake and it's lead to brutal rejections.
instead it's better to act goofy and spontaneous - if you make eye contact with someone you can smile and shoot them a comically exaggerated wink, or you can start "showing off" some goofy moves, or during a vocal part you sing together at the top of your lungs, you can extend your arms to a woman and if she grabs you give her a few twirls, during a slow bridge in the song you can put your arms around her etc. etc. it's all very monkey-brained. a club is supposed to be a fun place and women also come there to have fun. this is why everybody in this thread points out that being low-inhib is crucial for dancefloor game. also this is why people drink to lower their inhibitions.

if you want to have a conversation, obviously you do it in a quieter place. the outdoor smoking areas are your best friend. it's also very socially acceptable there to strike up smalltalk with random people.

also I'll add that often it's good to come with a friend. especially a female friend if you have one. the value of a wing(wo)man is to just make things less awkward and give eachother a bit of social proof.

 

[Orientalist]

when you're in the type of venue that has loud music and a big dancefloor (i.e. not a lounge bar or a sit-down pub kinda thing), then IMO the crucial but often neglected foundation is to have fun dancing.
everytime you go to the club, you will see those guys who just stand there awkwardly, kinda swaying from one leg to the other, looking around. it's very obvious they don't like being in a dancefloor environment, and are just scouting for a woman to approach. you don't want to be one of those guys. if you're feeling awkward or uncomfortable, it will show in subtle ways and throw off your vibe.

so when you're already in the dancefloor getting your groove on, you make contact non-verbally. interrupting a woman's dance to yell into her ear like "hey I'm [name]" or "you're very beautiful" is a huge failo. I've done that mistake and it's lead to brutal rejections.
instead it's better to act goofy and spontaneous - if you make eye contact with someone you can smile and shoot them a comically exaggerated wink, or you can start "showing off" some goofy moves, or during a vocal part you sing together at the top of your lungs, you can extend your arms to a woman and if she grabs you give her a few twirls, during a slow bridge in the song you can put your arms around her etc. etc. it's all very monkey-brained. a club is supposed to be a fun place and women also come there to have fun. this is why everybody in this thread points out that being low-inhib is crucial for dancefloor game. also this is why people drink to lower their inhibitions.

if you want to have a conversation, obviously you do it in a quieter place. the outdoor smoking areas are your best friend. it's also very socially acceptable there to strike up smalltalk with random people.

also I'll add that often it's good to come with a friend. especially a female friend if you have one. the value of a wing(wo)man is to just make things less awkward and give eachother a bit of social proof.

Great advice but the thing is though, in many Asian countries like China, AFAIK people don't really even use the dancefloor much if there even is one at the venue

 

[DeathWish188]

dance or sit down. wait for IOI, approach. if no IOI dont approach.

or... talk with dating app girls, meet the ones who are out with their friends (most common nt way of doing it)

 

[ExcuseMe]

Great advice but the thing is though, in many Asian countries like China, AFAIK people don't really even use the dancefloor much if there even is one at the venue

yep, like I said there are different types of venues, I was specifically talking about the loud music dance-focused nightclubs because this is what OP was wondering about

and yes this is based on my experience in Europe
in Asia maybe the most important thing is being karaoke-maxxed

 

[DeathWish188]

yep, like I said there are different types of venues, I was specifically talking about the loud music dance-focused nightclubs because this is what OP was wondering about

and yes this is based on my experience in Europe
in Asia maybe the most important thing is being karaoke-maxxed

karaoke maxxed jfl

 

[masonfrancis]

On a dating app, she just told me her and her friends go there. She’s in Laos for a little bit now so I decided to go there

But the main point of the thread was how to do club game: maybe there’s better clubs? I still don’t know

just get friends to go w