How do you avoid gold diggers?

[Dar13]

Title.How do I avoid girls who are like that in Asia,Africa and South America?Any tips,tricks and advice you guys could give to me?

 

[14passport]

-Date women close to your age
-Date women studying or with white collar jobs
-Don't go to expensive places on the first dates
-If she likes you, she will offer to pay part of the date on the 1st or 2nd day
-For the most part avoid those with social media/dating apps full of expensive places and designer clothes in poor countries, women with rooftop pics, dubai, singapore, trips to Europe
-Be realistic, just because you are in a different country it doesn't mean women have no standards, if it's too good to be true, it probably is and she is after your money
-Avoid those obsessed with social media, partying, rooftops, travels, shopping... date someone that has hobbies, smart and ambitious

 

[ExcuseMe]

probably obvious, but avoid single mothers. and don't assume that if she's only 20, it means she's not a single mother. in third world countries people have kids at younger ages.

 

[Cigarette]

#1 advice is date someone that has something going on for themselves. avoid "rescuing" women. make sure she is either from a good family or is studying hard. most of these girls probably go to college but live off weekend to weekend leeching off of tourists. thats why its important to always date someone who comes from an established family or has someone paying for their stuff like college and other shit

 

[Orientalist]

-For the most part avoid those with social media/dating apps full of expensive places and designer clothes in poor countries, women with rooftop pics, dubai, singapore, trips to Europe

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[Cigarette]

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im 50/50 on this. i know girls that get with men to just travel and i also have personal friends that just travel with their families when they're on vacation from college. can't really know this days

but ngl once u see Dubai u know its over

 

[14passport]

im 50/50 on this. i know girls that get with men to just travel and i also have personal friends that just travel with their families when they're on vacation from college. can't really know this days

but ngl once u see Dubai u know its over

we are talking about geomaxx locations, it's 1% chance she visited with her family, 99% it was a rich simp flying her all over the world

in Europe, US and other rich countries its different ofc, as middle class girls can afford all those countries or with family

 

[Jamesothy]

Title.How do I avoid girls who are like that in Asia,Africa and South America?Any tips,tricks and advice you guys could give to me?

Don't give girls money beyond paying for dates. It's very simple.

You could also either be broke or look broke. It shouldn't stop you from getting any play.

 

[Jamesothy]

#1 advice is date someone that has something going on for themselves. avoid "rescuing" women. make sure she is either from a good family or is studying hard. most of these girls probably go to college but live off weekend to weekend leeching off of tourists. thats why its important to always date someone who comes from an established family or has someone paying for their stuff like college and other shit

That's no good either. What can a girl really have "going for herself"? Chasing a career is bullshit for girls.

What do you want her to be "educated" for? So she can go work and keep money separate from you for her and her family wherever she's from? Out of your house working to support another person's family?

A woman should be at home being a wife and mother.

 

[Cigarette]

That's no good either. What can a girl really have "going for herself"? Chasing a career is bullshit for girls.

What do you want her to be "educated" for? So she can go work and keep money separate from you for her and her family wherever she's from? Out of your house working to support another person's family?

A woman should be at home being a wife and mother.

No but chances are that you wont run into any gold diggers if the female comes from a good family

 

[Cigarette]

we are talking about geomaxx locations, it's 1% chance she visited with her family, 99% it was a rich simp flying her all over the world

in Europe, US and other rich countries its different ofc, as middle class girls can afford all those countries or with family

depends on location.

they probably get their ass filled with cum 24/7 if u see dubai, barcelona, madrid, ibiza, LA and miami

 

[geneblackman]

Be honest to yourself about your looks and don't shoot too high above your level, see if she offers to pay for anything (if a girl actually likes you she'll buy you something), see if she's passionate about hobbies or into volunteering.

Honestly, it's usually just a vibe you can feel when you subconsciously know someone is into you for you or not. The problem is many guys overlook glaring signs

 

[enrique]

why would you want to avoid them?

 

[14passport]

That's no good either. What can a girl really have "going for herself"? Chasing a career is bullshit for girls.

What do you want her to be "educated" for? So she can go work and keep money separate from you for her and her family wherever she's from? Out of your house working to support another person's family?

A woman should be at home being a wife and mother.

so you want traditional women but at the same time not pay for it?
thats dumb as fuck

 

[14passport]

depends on location.

they probably get their ass filled with cum 24/7 if u see dubai, barcelona, madrid, ibiza, LA and miami

not really, at least in Europe its quite common for middle class to go there

 

[14passport]

Be honest to yourself about your looks and don't shoot too high above your level, see if she offers to pay for anything (if a girl actually likes you she'll buy you something), see if she's passionate about hobbies or into volunteering.

Honestly, it's usually just a vibe you can feel when you subconsciously know someone is into you for you or not. The problem is many guys overlook glaring signs

i think most guys know but they prefer a gold digger than getting a girl on their league, if they are dumb enough to not recognise the gold diggers theres no saving them

 

[Jamesothy]

so you want traditional women but at the same time not pay for it?
thats dumb as fuck

I said nothing beyond dates. What else could a traditional woman want a man she's dating to pay for? What's she need to do, get her fucking nails done?

 

[14passport]

I said nothing beyond dates. What else could a traditional woman want a man she's dating to pay for? What's she need to do, get her fucking nails done?

I'm not sure if you're trolling, but what do you expect a hot young woman to stay at home all day waiting for you? Just because you pay her rent and food?

 

[Orientalist]

That's no good either. What can a girl really have "going for herself"? Chasing a career is bullshit for girls.

Getting her MRS degree
In other words, you’re already playing a losing game if she’s older than early 20s

 

[Jamesothy]

I'm not sure if you're trolling, but what do you expect a hot young woman to stay at home all day waiting for you? Just because you pay her rent and food?

Not just waiting. Cleaning and preparing food. Absolutely that's what I expect.

 

[biggunsar]

Title.How do I avoid girls who are like that in Asia,Africa and South America?Any tips,tricks and advice you guys could give to me?

from what i have learned from both living in DR and indonesia

date girls with jobs. ALL girls are "gold diggers" period.

anyone that thinks otherwise is delusional. They want to be pampered, treated to food drinks ect
if you find that rare girl that gives up the pussy for nothing.. never asks you for a thing. SHE LOVES YOU UNCONDITIONALLY. and that's rare

so learn your limits. Set limits. and when the pussy crosses those lines. Ghost her.
2 outcomes. she will beg for forgiveness because she was shit testing you, on how far she could push you and she will correct herself (but trust me they never stop shit testing you)
or she will say good bye. (THAT was the real gold digger) she didnt' give a fuck if you got hit by a bus.

 

[Rance]

if you find that rare girl that gives up the pussy for nothing.. never asks you for a thing. SHE LOVES YOU UNCONDITIONALLY. and that's rare

Idk if it's that rare. Several of the girls I dated were waiting on me hand and foot, to the point where it was a little weird. Honestly treated a couple of them like trash, not because I wanted to but because I was depressed, and it made them even more driven to make me happy and "fix" me, lots of bringing stuff to my house, somewhat pricey gifts, etc.

However, maybe I am coping and it is rare, maybe I got lucky and blew those opportunities.

Also, maybe it's a Japanese style of gold-digging that I've heard about. Very doting before marriage, then gold-dig the shit out of you when you get married? Who knows.

 

[Rance]

I am also considering sending a couple of these girls long hand-written letters because I know they'd break into sobbing upon reading them. Kind of fun to think about

 

[BiggChungus]

even the non gold diggers end up costing a lot. I never thought it was that hard to tell gold diggers apart from better women. most social sense boils down to intuition

 

[JohnGotti]

Title.How do I avoid girls who are like that in Asia,Africa and South America?Any tips,tricks and advice you guys could give to me?

In South America . . .

If they bring friends, especially unannounced, be fucking careful. One girl would try to pin the bill on me when they thought I did not speak any Spanish at all. They would tell the waiters that I was paying for all of them before I would interject. Another girl brought her FUCKING BROTHER to the date, and I slipped away into the night after saying I had to use the bathroom. Seems like indigenous/indigenous mixed girls would try to pull this crafty bullshit on you. I'd say they were the most likely to always to use you for a free meal, especially the ugly ones.

Oh yeah, never let them choose the restaurants either. They always choose the fucking tourist locations with shit overpriced food and drinks, especially in Peru.

Some surface-level things that make girls easy to avoid:

They ask for Ubers (not to your place).
They just ask for money upfront before you even date.
They had or have an OF. I seldom see this in SA, but these girls are always escorts or some shit.
If you don't like a chick, or feel like there's going to be no fucking that night. Make it the first thing to tell the waiter or some staff at the counter that you want the bill and you'll be splitting (use Google Translate if you don't speak the language). Make an excuse that you need to use the bathroom or something, then do it.

 

[younglivinglife]

-Date women close to your age
-Date women studying or with white collar jobs
-Don't go to expensive places on the first dates
-If she likes you, she will offer to pay part of the date on the 1st or 2nd day
-For the most part avoid those with social media/dating apps full of expensive places and designer clothes in poor countries, women with rooftop pics, dubai, singapore, trips to Europe
-Be realistic, just because you are in a different country it doesn't mean women have no standards, if it's too good to be true, it probably is and she is after your money
-Avoid those obsessed with social media, partying, rooftops, travels, shopping... date someone that has hobbies, smart and ambitious

Only thing is 4th sometimes girls are rich enough to travel. but yeah rooftop is dead giveaway

 

[lustfullydownbeat]

What I do is tell girls in my first conversation with them that I'll never give them anything other than sex. I've met over a dozen filipinas online who were down for that. Haven't met one in person yet because I haven't been able to travel there. Girls from other countries don't even match with me on dating apps but if you're better looking than me I'm sure you'd be able to pull it off elsewhere.

 

[Marco Pumpo]

In South America . . .

If they bring friends, especially unannounced, be fucking careful.

i had the same shit happening to me in colombia. a girl brought her friend to the first date without announcing it and said "i hope it's okay". i thought it was fine because their country is not safe and maybe they are more careful and want to have some known company. but none of them made any effort to share the bill when it came.

another colombian that i dated had to pay a bill once because a restaurant didn't accept my card and i had no cash. until then i had paid every single thing on our dates. but i could sense that she was pissed for hours.

those colombian bitches are so shameless. i don't think i will return.

 

[14passport]

Only thing is 4th sometimes girls are rich enough to travel. but yeah rooftop is dead giveaway

yeah that's not wrong but 99% of times in poor countries its simps paying for it, and if she is rich in a good way you can actually see through it
which is very different from a money obsessed girl, in the kind of pictures and destinations she chooses to post, eg: tight dress + expensive bag + dubai is a big red flag
if she dresses well at a cool spot in Europe, yes, she could be higher class girl with her own money/family

 

[younglivinglife]

yeah that's not wrong but 99% of times in poor countries its simps paying for it, and if she is rich in a good way you can actually see through it
which is very different from a money obsessed girl, in the kind of pictures and destinations she chooses to post, eg: tight dress + expensive bag + dubai is a big red flag
if she dresses well at a cool spot in Europe, yes, she could be higher class girl with her own money/family

Yeah but those aren't on dating apps. Too many simps nowadays even in third world country

 

[14passport]

Yeah but those aren't on dating apps. Too many simps nowadays even in third world country

There are many of them in dating apps, however if you want a 7 + high class + non gold digger you gonna work hard for it
those are the most in demand girls

 

[Africamaxxer]

impregnate and escape give lesson them

 

[younglivinglife]

There are many of them in dating apps, however if you want a 7 + high class + non gold digger you gonna work hard for it
those are the most in demand girls

Yes I agree. I met some but hae some other issues (don't brush teeth or virgin and long game. Looks wise 6.5 IRL

 

[biggunsar]

i had the same shit happening to me in colombia. a girl brought her friend to the first date without announcing it and said "i hope it's okay". i thought it was fine because their country is not safe and maybe they are more careful and want to have some known company. but none of them made any effort to share the bill when it came.

another colombian that i dated had to pay a bill once because a restaurant didn't accept my card and i had no cash. until then i had paid every single thing on our dates. but i could sense that she was pissed for hours.

those colombian bitches are so shameless. i don't think i will return.

you should have side barred her and said "you are coming back to my place right, and your friend can go home".
if she didn't agree to that. ya, she's grifting you for free food for her and her friend.

 

[Shaktiman]

impregnate and escape give lesson them