Geomax How big of a difference does it make to speak Chinese for dating ?

[Exutoire]

Title.
Would you think it’s as significant as ascending looks wise by 2 points for example ?

 

[explorer7878]

depends if girl speaks english. if she does not it can be like 2 points. but not worth investing 10.000,00 + hours to LTR a gook.

 

[AlexBrown84]

now that I’ve spent considerable time in China, i can just be walking down the street in Tokyo and recognize when it’s a chink

i can usually tell difference between jap and gook but not all the time. some are mixed




but yea i think it would be a big difference. just saying a few words and they get excited. we shall all come back in a few years after our chinese language training arcs to update on our experiences!

 

[geneblackman]

It will make a massive difference. Not many, even in Tier 1/New Tier 1 cities, speak good English.

You should try to study to at least a B1 level.

 

[Meeks]

depends if girl speaks english. if she does not it can be like 2 points. but not worth investing 10.000,00 + hours to LTR a gook.

They say you marry a Chinese gif you marry her whole family. What’s the end game? You spend 10,000+ hours learning there Ching Chong language and your reward? You end up marrying her and have Wang Fen and Lin Yi as your parents in law who live with you in your house and tell you what to do all day as they eat pigs feet for dinner

 

[14passport]

Title.
Would you think it’s as significant as ascending looks wise by 2 points for example ?

it would mean pretty much unlimited girls that have never interacted with a foreigner

 

[Chud_in_CHINA]

Learning Chinese absolutely opens the door to hundreds of millions of more women in China, than simply speaking English. The English level there, while studied often and by many, simply isn't widespread. The girls who do study English and can speak it at any intelligible level are quite few and are usually bookworm studynerds. Some super hot girl who is a model, or successful in any other industry besides tourism, won't waste her time learning English.

English entertainment stopped with the TV Prison Break back in 2005-2007 era. China is a very inward focused country; with its own culture, language, and ideals. Most don't give a second thought about any other place on earth.

Now you're probably thinking "Where should I study?". I unironically used Rosetta stone back in the day, and then since I live in China I would go to a bar or get a taxi, and try out what I learned. Taxi drivers are always down to have a conversation. Walking up to random old dudes outside are also usually open to speaking. I'm sure there are better methods now, search on youtube for some path, but practice is key.

They say you marry a Chinese gif you marry her whole family. What’s the end game? You spend 10,000+ hours learning there Ching Chong language and your reward? You end up marrying her and have Wang Fen and Lin Yi as your parents in law who live with you in your house and tell you what to do all day as they eat pigs feet for dinner

Of the Chinese girls I have dated, I absolutely love family time. The dads, uncles, and cousins are absolute bros. Always handing me cigs, going out to fun dinners, going to massage parlors, and drinking. The girls' moms usually love to visit, clean the apartment, cook for us, and overall a good experience. Yes some families are way, too much or rude or something off about them. That's just something you have to weigh when you consider marriage. Family in China is everything, they will forgive anything, and always support you. In return, you must also be there for them.

 

[explorer7878]

Learning Chinese absolutely opens the door to hundreds of millions of more women in China, than simply speaking English. The English level there, while studied often and by many, simply isn't widespread. The girls who do study English and can speak it at any intelligible level are quite few and are usually bookworm studynerds. Some super hot girl who is a model, or successful in any other industry besides tourism, won't waste her time learning English.

English entertainment stopped with the TV Prison Break back in 2005-2007 era. China is a very inward focused country; with its own culture, language, and ideals. Most don't give a second thought about any other place on earth.

Now you're probably thinking "Where should I study?". I unironically used Rosetta stone back in the day, and then since I live in China I would go to a bar or get a taxi, and try out what I learned. Taxi drivers are always down to have a conversation. Walking up to random old dudes outside are also usually open to speaking. I'm sure there are better methods now, search on youtube for some path, but practice is key.


Of the Chinese girls I have dated, I absolutely love family time. The dads, uncles, and cousins are absolute bros. Always handing me cigs, going out to fun dinners, going to massage parlors, and drinking. The girls' moms usually love to visit, clean the apartment, cook for us, and overall a good experience. Yes some families are way, too much or rude or something off about them. That's just something you have to weigh when you consider marriage. Family in China is everything, they will forgive anything, and always support you. In return, you must also be there for them.

Marrying into a chinese family seems lika an absolute nightmare to me

 

[Xavist]

Learning Chinese absolutely opens the door to hundreds of millions of more women in China, than simply speaking English. The English level there, while studied often and by many, simply isn't widespread. The girls who do study English and can speak it at any intelligible level are quite few and are usually bookworm studynerds. Some super hot girl who is a model, or successful in any other industry besides tourism, won't waste her time learning English.

English entertainment stopped with the TV Prison Break back in 2005-2007 era. China is a very inward focused country; with its own culture, language, and ideals. Most don't give a second thought about any other place on earth.

Now you're probably thinking "Where should I study?". I unironically used Rosetta stone back in the day, and then since I live in China I would go to a bar or get a taxi, and try out what I learned. Taxi drivers are always down to have a conversation. Walking up to random old dudes outside are also usually open to speaking. I'm sure there are better methods now, search on youtube for some path, but practice is key.


Of the Chinese girls I have dated, I absolutely love family time. The dads, uncles, and cousins are absolute bros. Always handing me cigs, going out to fun dinners, going to massage parlors, and drinking. The girls' moms usually love to visit, clean the apartment, cook for us, and overall a good experience. Yes some families are way, too much or rude or something off about them. That's just something you have to weigh when you consider marriage. Family in China is everything, they will forgive anything, and always support you. In return, you must also be there for them.

Are you an English teacher?
And how old are you?
When did you get there and how has it changed over the years?

 

[Chud_in_CHINA]

Marrying into a chinese family seems lika an absolute nightmare to me

ok, then don't marry into one.

Are you an English teacher?
And how old are you?
When did you get there and how has it changed over the years?

I am not an English teacher, but I was one. Teaching is actually fun, perhaps I'll pick it up again once I have kids and need to send them to a good school, but that's just a future plan.
I am an oldfag, but I will not say my actual age but 30+.
I've been in China on and off since 2015. The change has been massively positive. The city I first moved to is unrecognizable to me it's developed so much.