Does it not look weird if I go out alone while geomaxxing, how to pull it off?

[explorer7878]

I had good online dating success so far geomaxxing but when going out I feel weird and have less sucess than in Middle Europe. In Middle Europe I can blend in well as a white male and nobody sees that I am going out alone, but when you are white in an Asian club going alone everyone realises you are alone. Sometimes people even ask me to their table but then I have the feeling they pity me because I look lonely and sad. how to pull it off even if you are low energy and shy ?

 

[AlexBrown84]

look like a cowboy

 

[Orientalist]

Meet fellow solo travelers at digital nomad meetups

 

[Emoticon]

Meet fellow solo travelers at digital nomad meetups

Yup, I'm organizing meetups myself at the moment. Got one scheduled already that I will advertise once I touch down.

Just by starting one yourself you appear as a leader. People will come up and introduce themselves to you.
Great way to meet locals who are interested in learning English too. (Can pick up some tutoring clients for extra $, do a language exchange where they teach you their native tongue, or just make friends).

 

[predeterminism]

Don't go alone its autistic af

Worst case scenario hire an escort to go with you for some social proof

 

[Rance]

Entirely depends on how large of a city you live in and how tight the social circle scene is. In Tokyo you can go out alone and build a solid network in like a week. In a smaller city it will be more awkward.

You shouldn't be going to clubs alone. Typically you should be going to bars and rallying a group together to hit a club.

Always remember that you feel more socially isolated than others around you but it is not the case. There are others there, female or male, who are alone. They want to talk to you but are often too shy to strike it up.

 

[Orientalist]

You shouldn't be going to clubs alone. Typically you should be going to bars and rallying a group together to hit a club.

Why do people say this? I don’t entirely get it ngl

 

[14passport]

Why do people say this? I don’t entirely get it ngl

Because hitting clubs by yourself is usually awkward and you are mostly seen as desperate

 

[Orientalist]

Yup, I'm organizing meetups myself at the moment. Got one scheduled already that I will advertise once I touch down.

Just by starting one yourself you appear as a leader. People will come up and introduce themselves to you.
Great way to meet locals who are interested in learning English too. (Can pick up some tutoring clients for extra $, do a language exchange where they teach you their native tongue, or just make friends).

I like the way you think bro next time you're in Bangkok/Bali let's link up and create
Trying to network with like-minded entrepreneurs

 

[predeterminism]

I like the way you think bro next time you're in Bangkok/Bali let's link up and create
Trying to network with like-minded entrepreneurs

Autist link up

 

[fatchadlitecel]

You have about 30 prime years if you take care of yourself, why would you spend any of that time caring about what other people think of you? You are an NPC that will leave their mind within a minute, just like everyone else is for you

 

[explorer7878]

You have about 30 prime years if you take care of yourself, why would you spend any of that time caring about what other people think of you? You are an NPC that will leave their mind within a minute, just like everyone else is for you

What are the prime years in you opinion? 15-45?

 

[Rance]

Why do people say this? I don’t entirely get it ngl

Varies per person but I find hitting clubs solo to be draining and unfun. I want to be in a high energy state as I'm walking in the door, and that's basically impossible if I haven't been vibing with friends before going in.

 

[fatchadlitecel]

What are the prime years in you opinion? 15-45?

18 you are legally an adult

When you hit 50 almost everyone looks beat

 

[masonfrancis]

I had good online dating success so far geomaxxing but when going out I feel weird and have less sucess than in Middle Europe. In Middle Europe I can blend in well as a white male and nobody sees that I am going out alone, but when you are white in an Asian club going alone everyone realises you are alone. Sometimes people even ask me to their table but then I have the feeling they pity me because I look lonely and sad. how to pull it off even if you are low energy and shy ?

Are you a bitch?