Can you guys send me tinder chats you’ve had? I’m bad at texting

[AlexBrown84]

They always send me stuff but idk what to say. With girls that speak English, it’s easier but here in the orient i feel creatively restricted to my message options

 

[geneblackman]

ask them if they're excited for christmas

 

[AlexBrown84]

ask them if they're excited for christmas

Great one unc

Will be adding that to my arsenal

 

[14passport]

They always send me stuff but idk what to say. With girls that speak English, it’s easier but here in the orient i feel creatively restricted to my message options

always start with a message that can go somewhere interesting, and don't sexualize anything unless she does first

you dont want to be stuck in the typical tinder convo:
how are you doing?
good, and you?
good

ask her anything about her profile, the more interesting and funny, the better your conversion rate will be, but just dont make a joke, make some kind of question or something she will be able to keep going

if you see she goes to the gym, ask her which gyms are good in that city
if you see she likes fashion, compliment her style and ask her for local brands recommendation
if you see she is a foodie, ask for her must try places
if you see she got pics at some cool beach, say it looks very cool and ask her where that is

theres probably much better examples but you get the idea

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once the convo is on going, no need to exchange 100s of messages
keep it max 2-3 days, or if 1st day you chat for a long time, ask her out rather quickly (just make sure to exchange at least a few 10s of messages so it doesnt feel rushed)

at some point ask her if she works or study
and once you know have that info: lets meet on X day after you finish work/classes
or i just say i enjoy chatting with you, we have a lot in common, bla bla bla, lets meet this week

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not every convo will be succesful, if the girl thinks your SMV is low, she will do 1 word replies, thats a waste of time
just unmatch if she doesnt put some work, and ask you things, and give some good answers

 

[14passport]

why dont you post some of your convos screenshots and we can see where you're having trouble?

 

[AlexBrown84]

why dont you post some of your convos screenshots and we can see where you're having trouble?

i ask wanna meetup in the first message and they quickly change the topic then I stop responding cuz they see me as subhuman betabuz

 

[14passport]

i ask wanna meetup in the first message and they quickly change the topic then I stop responding cuz they see me as subhuman betabuz

i assume you're trolling, but unless you are chad and don't care about quality, that will never work
you need to at least chat for a bit, and then ask

unless she is very aggresive and sexual, then you can match her level

 

[AlexBrown84]

i assume you're trolling, but unless you are chad and don't care about quality, that will never work
you need to at least chat for a bit, and then ask

unless she is very aggresive and sexual, then you can match her level

It used to work, hence why i’ve kept doing it..

Feels like a humiliation ritual to text girls on these apps any other way ngl after having experienced that

 

[geneblackman]

they quickly change the topic

 

[OliveNotBrown]

I can't help, I'm KHHV at 22 but I hope to change that on my next expedition!

 

[myeyes]

Just watch some basic YouTube videos about text game. Playing with Fire (Alex) and Austin Summers are good to start. Although they’re western focused so just tone down the sexual aspect in Asia, but the concept is the same. They probably have “free” pdfs in their email marketing funnel too

Another tip is those AI text response apps. Most are overpriced, but if you use ChatGPT premium for work or other stuff, you can add CupidGPT for free. This is the best GPT in my experience, just screenshot and conversation and post it there, but take the messages as suggestions and always reword them to how you would say them (it always uses too many emojis), and also sometimes all the suggestions are bad

But sometimes it helps out when I’m stuck or gives a surprisingly creative message

 

[Orientalist]

Just watch some basic YouTube videos about text game. Playing with Fire (Alex) and Austin Summers are good to start. Although they’re western focused so just tone down the sexual aspect in Asia, but the concept is the same. They probably have “free” pdfs in their email marketing funnel too

Another tip is those AI text response apps. Most are overpriced, but if you use ChatGPT premium for work or other stuff, you can add CupidGPT for free. This is the best GPT in my experience, just screenshot and conversation and post it there, but take the messages as suggestions and always reword them to how you would say them (it always uses too many emojis), and also sometimes all the suggestions are bad

But sometimes it helps out when I’m stuck or gives a surprisingly creative message

These guys are grifters and not BP. 95% of their advice is probably useless. The words you say do not matter bro. Using chatgpt for tinder responses, let alone any interpersonal communication…… jfl

 

[myeyes]

The words you say do not matter bro.

This is objectively not true