Based on my observations among middle-class young Chinese tourists here in Malacca, I rarely see top-tier Chinese girls with chiseled Asian Chads. In China, a man who is rough, tanned and muscular is a lowly laborer, not a Chad. So the Chinese cuties are always with goofy-looking boys. Their mannerisms, speech and appearance is not in line with the norms of Western masculinity.
About boys wearing makeup and being k-pop glamorous, that would be a nightclub thing. It doesn't happen on the street. Some Korean boys like the ones you see around Malate in Metro Manila do look rather androgynous, but nothing as extreme as the k-pop stars on TV.
White Chads with a pretty girl usually have an air of alpha male possessiveness and capability for aggression about them. For Asian women it's the opposite; I think they are deeply afraid of white men who are both physically strong and prone to sudden anger, a stereotypical whiteoid behavior. Even beards and mustaches give many Asian women second thoughts as being overly rough and masculine. (Muslim Asian women a strong exception to the beard rule.) That's why Asian women go for "betas". In Bangkok I saw very few Chads with Asian partners...they were either walking about with their white girlfriend, or if they were young, hanging out with their bros and chasing tail at the bars.
Your thread about "east asian beauty standards" is worthless, because you picked a random photo of a dysgenic Asian laborer from a century ago in order to castigate the supposed ugliness of the entire Asian race.
Chances are Koreans banned whiteoids from their clubs because many whiteoids are unruly violent drunks who start shit after being bumped or pushed on a crowded dancefloor, or turn mean when another guy steals a dance with "their" girl. While whiteoids are far less murderous than niggers or spics, they have sensitive egos and a propensity for starting conflict when they feel disrespected. One big, drunk, angry whiteoid can ruin everyone's fun.