The Ultimate Guide To Fapping
Here are the things you'll need:
- Lube (Water or Oil based)
- Soft towel
- Fragrance Free Body Lotion
- Water
- Sugar (If you're diabetic or just have low blood sugar)
Now when you first start out remember that this is a marathon, not a sprint. If you've been deathgripping your cock since an early age and or have been fapping in places where you could get caught at any moment you've probably been masturbating incorrectly.
A fap session needs to planned out, block out at least an hour that's safe from interruption and stress. Do all the housework, finish any projects for that day, tie up all obligations so that for the next hour you can focus solely on masturbating.
Lay out the towel onto your bed, it should be long enough that you can get your ass underneath it and still have room to wipe your hands/toys on it easily. Now, here is where advice branches depending on the type of pornography you're using.
In general you want to have one hand dedicated to browsing the porn while the other hand strokes your dick. Now if you like to watch long form videos without skipping around you can use both hands and massage your balls or play with any other erogenous zone with your non-dominant hand. If you're using eroge or some type of pornography that's more interactive you might need to skip the lube entirely. This is generally okay, because interactive porn tends to have lull periods where your dick can recuperate while still maintaining arousal.
Once you've picked your pornography of choice, pour a bead of lube onto your penis and rub it all across the length until your lubricated penis can easily penetrate your loosely closed fist without any resistance. Don't "jerk it" your hand should be moving up and down from the base to the tip and back down in smooth fluid strokes. At no point should you be forcefully moving the tissue of your penis, let the lube and the inside of your hand provide all the stimulation for this session.
Play around with your penis while you're doing this. Massage your penis head, play with the area where the base of your shaft meets your scrotum, explore your penis and find out what works for you. Whatever you do, keep your strokes on the slower side of things, the goal is to build up to the orgasm, not knock it out like a fastball. As you slowly build up your arousal, your dick will get more engorged with blood, making your dick both harder and very slightly larger. The longer you stay in deep arousal before cumming the longer and more powerful your orgasm will be. You'll also shoot pornstar levels of ejaculate as an added bonus.
Some people enjoy edging, some people enjoy "ruining" their orgasm by getting right up to the point of orgasm and ceasing sensation/stroking causing you to ejaculate but not orgasm thus allowing you to continue masturbating ad infinitum, in the end the most important thing is to actively delay your orgasm until the very end of your fap session.
Once you've jizzed, use the towel to completely wipe your penis, hands, testicles, and taint dry. After this take your body lotion and make sure to rub just enough onto your penis and testicles to make sure it doesn't dry out and become damaged. You can skip this step if you're using an oil based lubricant.
Take a celebratory drink of water and beg Christ for forgiveness because all sexual activity outside of marriage is an aberration of the Lord your God's will
