Thailand was easier than Philippines for me. It makes no sense (3 Viewers)

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Thai girls give me chad treatment

Filipino girls are weird. They say im good looking, don't believe im real, and I get a LOT of matches but they won't even speak to me much on apps, don't give chad treatment

Some girls say im too good looking for them. But it doesnt make sense my treatment then

And then i see them walking around with old guys and locals who I mog to death in looks and money

Makes no sense. Do they just want a low smv guy with money for financial security or what?
 
You basically nailed it. Pinays are so poor that survival is their number one priority. Getting a young, good looking guy but he ain't gonna be providing doesn't satisfy that need. Older, more desperate guys are easier to manipulate, hustle, and managed. Thais on the other hand are richer so they are not on survival mode as Pinays.

This is kinda well known and I have friends who have been to the Philippines who dated there and came to the same conclusion. The exemption is of course, if you go after the high society, rich, attractive Filipinas.
 
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You basically nailed it. Pinays are so poor that survival is their number one priority. Getting a young, good looking guy but he ain't gonna be providing doesn't satisfy that need. Older, more desperate guys are easier to manipulate, hustle, and managed. Thais on the other hand are richer so they are not on survival mode as Pinays.

This is kinda well known and I have friends who have been to the Philippines who dated there and came to the same conclusion. The exemption is of course, if you go after the high society, rich, attractive Filipinas.
It makes no sense though because I'd be willing to be a provider + I'm good looking and young.

But they're skipping the full package to date old guys with money or long distance relationships with losers who will never visit them

Makes no sense. I mog all competition in every metric but they're all won't date me.
 
You are not thinking from THEIR perspective.

Even if you are genuine in saying that, for Pinays, they see you as a much higher risk to bet on. They would much rather take on the much safer option in their eyes.
 
Filipino girls are weird. They say im good looking, don't believe im real, and I get a LOT of matches but they won't even speak to me much on apps, don't give chad treatment

Some girls say im too good looking for them. But it doesnt make sense my treatment then
is it possible they believe you are catfishing? they are used to oldcels, ugly guys so not believing you are real checks out if you good looking and have a good profile
did you offer to videocall after the say you are not real?
is your bio giving red flag that you would be a catfish or something weird?

And then i see them walking around with old guys and locals who I mog to death in looks and money

Makes no sense. Do they just want a low smv guy with money for financial security or what?
in all these countries you will have a % of girls that only go after guys with money, they are looking for something completely different

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I don't know, your report is weird because you are not attracting normal girls nor gold diggers, never heard of anyone that had this happen
or are you complaining that the matches that would meet with you/showing interest aren't that hot compared to back in thailand?
if even average girls are not giving you dates, something about your profile or the way you message them is not adding up
 
is it possible they believe you are catfishing? they are used to oldcels, ugly guys so not believing you are real checks out if you good looking and have a good profile
did you offer to videocall after the say you are not real?
is your bio giving red flag that you would be a catfish or something weird?


in all these countries you will have a % of girls that only go after guys with money, they are looking for something completely different

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I don't know, your report is weird because you are not attracting normal girls nor gold diggers, never heard of anyone that had this happen
or are you complaining that the matches that would meet with you/showing interest aren't that hot compared to back in thailand?
if even average girls are not giving you dates, something about your profile or the way you message them is not adding up
Yes I get accused of catfishing many times but even after video call they barely talk to me.

Bio is normal.

Yes I agree it literally makes 0 fucking sense. I'm the full package but getting neither normal girls nor gold diggers.

The girls I meet show interest after meeting, but it's a nightmare to get girls to talk to me on dating apps/social media and to get them to meet

And they don't show as much interest as thai girls. Thai girls were chadstruck by me

I speak to them normally and have a normal profile. Normal profile hence so many matches




I have a feeling Philippines is overrun by western losers pretending to be here despite not really being here and being simps/paypigs/LDR cucks.

More so than thailand because pinays speak english
 
I have a feeling Philippines is overrun by western losers pretending to be here despite not really being here and being simps/paypigs/LDR cucks.

More so than thailand because pinays speak english
that happens a lot but it shouldn't affect you that much, as those guys are usually much older and uglier, they are not even there, and the kind of women going for them are not the ones you want to be dating anyway

only thing you can do is change your profile to get as many regular women as you can get
and filter all the red flags before hand, don't match with ones just because they are hot if they have weird profiles
 
31, white, 5ft10, htn, manila, cebu
were u in cebu for 1 week or some shit? i dont know how the fuck you arent giga slaying php is my paradise but its expensive to not live like shit.

i havent been to manilla cant speak on it.

my only guess is your pictures are actually sus and/or 31 is actually past the great filter over there (i cant speak on this as im younger than you)

also man on the overrunning of foreigners... i didnt really see it that much, ig i go to more local spots i really got plugged in/lucky, barely any foreigners maybe some koreans, very rarely i see old white coomers, the exceptions to this are when i go to a big foreigner hotspot aka siquijor

another guess i can think of is ur NT levels, prob matters less to the thai monkeys who don't ahve english as their first language, while the filipinos are low iq english is basically their main language, they know our modern slang and stuff
but it's a nightmare to get girls to talk to me on dating apps/social media and to get them to meet
this is common, its a slight factor, but should be volumemogging it
 
were u in cebu for 1 week or some shit? i dont know how the fuck you arent giga slaying php is my paradise but its expensive to not live like shit.

i havent been to manilla cant speak on it.

my only guess is your pictures are actually sus and/or 31 is actually past the great filter over there (i cant speak on this as im younger than you)

also man on the overrunning of foreigners... i didnt really see it that much, ig i go to more local spots i really got plugged in/lucky, barely any foreigners maybe some koreans, very rarely i see old white coomers, the exceptions to this are when i go to a big foreigner hotspot aka siquijor

another guess i can think of is ur NT levels, prob matters less to the thai monkeys who don't ahve english as their first language, while the filipinos are low iq english is basically their main language, they know our modern slang and stuff

this is common, its a slight factor, but should be volumemogging it
I was there for quite a while

I did slay a lot but it was difficult and I didn't get chad treatment like I did in thailand

Maybe the nt filter as yoy said but to be honest I feel like I just speak to these girls like a normal guy

They just give me 1 word replies.though
 
I was there for quite a while

I did slay a lot but it was difficult and I didn't get chad treatment like I did in thailand

Maybe the nt filter as yoy said but to be honest I feel like I just speak to these girls like a normal guy

They just give me 1 word replies.though
is this the same between the manilla and cebu girls?

if you dont mind this is actually perplexing me, i believe u but im shocked at the scale that you are implying of this, can u dm ur profile and some of these dms?
 

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