Street Photography Hack: IG from Cold Approaches

[Bellamy]

I have a routine that lets me get the IG of any girl on the street within 5 minutes. I use a real camera with a professional portrait lens that gives a nice look, different from smartphones.

My routine: spot a girl on the street → "Love your outfit, can I take a quick portrait?" → they almost always say yes → shoot a few pics → "Want the photos?" → give my private IG handle (she has to follow) → goodbye. Later, I send her the pics via DM.

I’m in my 40s, prefer girls in their 20s, and get the IG super easily, but struggle to turn it into dates. How do I improve the routine or the follow-up messaging to actually get dates? Any advice is welcome.

 

[Pained4ever]

I’m in my 40s, prefer girls in their 20s, and get the IG super easily, but struggle to turn it into dates.

Are you wealthy at all?

 

[EEmaxxer]

You communicate your level of wealth and status on your IG when they follow you. Being a 40+ guy trying to date much younger girls, money is basically a requirement. I’m assuming you aren’t a particular good looking guy either because if you were, your attempts to get them on a date would yield better result.

And if you are not wealthy, GG.

 

[Marco Pumpo]

This is a blackpill forum so don't expect to hear many red pill hacks like the one you are using. It's a pretty good door opener indeed.

You'll see in the very moment though if they are actually interested in you. If they give you bored signals, it won't magically change later on IG just because you've opened the door.

So @EEmaxxer is right unfortunately, your best bet to turn it around at a later stage is flashing status and money. Otherwise it's just a long numbers game until luck hits you.

 

[14passport]

Women aren't stupid, and there's always been plenty of creepy photographs using it to date.

Don't be creepy, be funny and fashion maxxed, just because you have their Instagram doesn't guarantee a date, especially in this context...

I know people that use this method with very good results but the guy is age matched and looks trendy, which makes it very easy because women like those kind of guys
+ he is kinda famous on Instagram with good pics

as others said if your Instagram sucks, you wont get any dates
if you want to betabuxx go the rich lifestyle, if not gymaxx and fashion maxx and post some good pics

 

[Bellamy]

I'm financially stable from early career success, but it won’t repeat, and I'm not willing to grind. I don't flash money, and honestly, I think it's prudent - especially when seeking a relationship.

I could dress sharper, but can't grow taller or regrow hair. Looks aren't my strength.

My IG is a travel log - pictures of places and people. I also photograph elderly folks, parents with kids, and cool-looking guys, and these types of photos make up most of my feed.

 

[myeyes]

You communicate your level of wealth and status on your IG when they follow you. Being a 40+ guy trying to date much younger girls, money is basically a requirement. I’m assuming you aren’t a particular good looking guy either because if you were, your attempts to get them on a date would yield better result.

And if you are not wealthy, GG.

Are you trying for instadates after the photo? I think 40s going for 20s is going to be hard anywhere unless you do money game.