predeterminism
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I had a choice between 2 cities in the country I am rn.
1 city 1 hour bike ride from the beach, closer to the city center
and 1 city 5 mins from the beach, and like 20 min bike ride from city center
and i asked like 5 normies here, and they all told me this beach city is full of gangsters, and it's a shithole, and dont go there ill get robbed.
And when i came here it's literally paradise, everyone is normal, no bad people, right on a beatufiul beach, not too busy. ideal place to live imo...
So now im wondering between Bangkok and Pattaya
people saying pattaya is shit, beaches is shit, every girl is a prostitute no real relationships, smells of sewage. telling me to go to bangkok
but im wondering.. am i experiencing the same thing again? people just chatting shit and scapegoating despite it's actually good there?

are the beaches shit in pattaya?
are all the girls prostitutes/only short time fling girls?
you're telling me an entire city, every single girl there is a prostitute?
I'm pretty sure only a tiny % will be prostitutes. and most will be normal girls seeking normal relationships with normal people. but maybe im wrong
i just dont wanna go bangkok because cities with no beach makes me feel depressed af
but then i cant decide whether maybe it will be ok without beach if i just chill at parks/gardens or something when bored instead of the beach like alex said. fuck man idk
1 city 1 hour bike ride from the beach, closer to the city center
and 1 city 5 mins from the beach, and like 20 min bike ride from city center
and i asked like 5 normies here, and they all told me this beach city is full of gangsters, and it's a shithole, and dont go there ill get robbed.
And when i came here it's literally paradise, everyone is normal, no bad people, right on a beatufiul beach, not too busy. ideal place to live imo...
So now im wondering between Bangkok and Pattaya
people saying pattaya is shit, beaches is shit, every girl is a prostitute no real relationships, smells of sewage. telling me to go to bangkok
but im wondering.. am i experiencing the same thing again? people just chatting shit and scapegoating despite it's actually good there?

are the beaches shit in pattaya?
are all the girls prostitutes/only short time fling girls?
you're telling me an entire city, every single girl there is a prostitute?
I'm pretty sure only a tiny % will be prostitutes. and most will be normal girls seeking normal relationships with normal people. but maybe im wrong
i just dont wanna go bangkok because cities with no beach makes me feel depressed af
but then i cant decide whether maybe it will be ok without beach if i just chill at parks/gardens or something when bored instead of the beach like alex said. fuck man idk