Advice Rich chubby women in China

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I also don't mind chubby girls and to a lesser extent fat ones as long as they're still shapely. I would bang the 2nd one posted although her face could be better but the social stigma of being seen with that makes skinner chicks the more preferable option and I also like them just the same. I would only seriously date women 10 pounds overweight at most, the social cost is simply not worth it even if they are easier.

An exception would be a wealthy chubby woman that would otherwise be a stacylite to other guys if not for the weight to simp and financially take care of me in China.
This is an idea that I've been seriously mulling over since I also like overweight women and especially now that teaching salaries will probably keep dropping and more schools will shut down due to high energy costs for the foreseeable future.
I think i might seriously try pursuing a woman that genetically is a htb to stacylite and but is chubby with curves whether from working out or just by being slightly curvier on avg than other Chinese women and having that kind of fat distribution for this kind of relationship. I wonder how easy it would be to get an early to mid 20s wealthy chick like this that would sugar and simp for a white guy and financially assist him long term especially if they are htn looks wise or better which I am. I basically would be looking for a chick that looks like the following and who's body fat percentage falls somewhere in between these:

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While my own smv is good, I still recognize that there are a few Chinese guys that probably would still settle for some of these types as well as some foreign guys hence why I would avoid most of the big 4 where its probably more difficult to get this kind of relationship since I am also getting close to 30. Those cities are also harder for newbies with no experience to get teaching jobs in anyways. I also have to think that Tier 1.5s and 2s are better where more Chinese guys wouldn't touch these girls with a 10 foot pole.

Cucked gpt tells me that it wont be as easy as i think due to parents outside of Tier 1s having more say in relationships considering their expectations of you as the guy having wealth as well, which while somewhat true, ignores that white guys often get passes for these things. It of course also states that chubby women are only slightly undesirable and that I will only have a slight advantage, lol sure. It does agree that Guangzhou, Chengdu, Hangzhou, Chongqing, Nanjing Suzhou and then Wuhan or Qingdao are the easiest cities for this when comparing competitiveness, abundance of wealth and the amount of overweight curvy women as well as views on wealth in relationships. I can see smaller Tier 2 cities and under being bad choices since there are fewer rich and chubby women and their parents probably will be less willing to compromise and will be more involved.

Thoughts on how realistic this is?
 
Some of these chicks are attractive to me. The only place I've been to in East Asia was Japan, and I rarely encountered women like this. Japanese women seem to have much smaller standard deviation in body shape (and face) than other races.
 
Bro fell for the meme
China does import nat gas and oil from Russia Turkmenistan etc as well but I still don't see how their economy remains completely unscathed. I'm assuming infrastructure in the middle east keeps getting destroyed.
 
Also it's probably gonna be the born and raised tier 1 girls who will have more friction with their parents than tier 2 since they'll want to climb the social ladder even further up. Why care what tier 2 hukou girls family thinks.
Anyways you can also just look at a map of the obesity rate jfl. It's higher in the north where they eat more meat and fried shit instead of rice, veg, fruit, etc.
To Beijing you go! @Exutoire is getting betabuxxed there by a CCP girl as we speak
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I think they know their worth too unlike the delusional west. Jfl @ all the girls on Tinder in Hanoi and Beijing writing "chubby" in their bio for being 10kg overweight
 
i think you will fail and this post is very delusional

they are smart enough to know that money is more important than 10kg of bodyweight which can be shaped with surgery or lost with GLP-1s
 
it's really not worth the status min and the extra clinginess but if you're down for it then you will most likely succeed
 
Something also to remember is most chubby girls don’t stay chubby, their weight will just continue to climb until they’re obese
That's what the gym is for. But yeah id have to put her on a regimen where she goes with me regularly so she doesnt get any bigger.

it's really not worth the status min and the extra clinginess but if you're down for it then you will most likely succeed
A relationship where she betabuxxes me is the only way this would happen. Otherwise skinner women are way more worth it if I have to financially contribute as well.
As long as she has a low bodycount which is probably a given for obvious reasons and is not too westernized being in a zogged city like Beijing if I do end up there so yeah a Tier 2 transplant is better. I guess Tianjin might be a 2nd option based on the graph @Orientalist posted as under the old Tier system it was considered an unofficial Tier 1 and has 14 million people. Shandong cities could be a 3rd option when optimizing for obesity rate, pop size and wealth and also in case I forego this plan and go for a skinnier girl.
 
i think you will fail and this post is very delusional

they are smart enough to know that money is more important than 10kg of bodyweight which can be shaped with surgery or lost with GLP-1s
Not too concerned about that since they would have lost weight already if they were motivated enough before meeting me and in general that goes for all of the other overweight rich people in bigger cities like Beijing that stay overweight. I do see quite a few women that fit what I am looking for in Beijing malls and in Chaoyang and other central district yt videos.
But worst case I can always gaslight them into not doing that and have her go to the gym and slip her weight gain protein powder to counteract it or whatever lol

Being even a little fat in China is a major looksmin for the most part and you can get a sense of this in that what is considered obese for instance is based on a bmi over 28 vs 30 in many other countries so its not surprising women only 10kg over label themselves chubby on dating apps which is the demographic im going for and im thinking they should be desperate enough

On a side note I'm going to have to do some rigorous skin management in the winter in the north with the dry winters but im thinking its worth it. Tianjin also has few schools so will just focus on Beijing and then Qingdao Dalian etc if i dont get any good offers
 
Some of these chicks are attractive to me. The only place I've been to in East Asia was Japan, and I rarely encountered women like this. Japanese women seem to have much smaller standard deviation in body shape (and face) than other races.
"They all look the same"

Is that what it was like for you? Imagine cheating on your Asian girlfriend and saying it was accidental, because you coudln't tell the difference.
 
Also it's probably gonna be the born and raised tier 1 girls who will have more friction with their parents than tier 2 since they'll want to climb the social ladder even further up. Why care what tier 2 hukou girls family thinks.
Anyways you can also just look at a map of the obesity rate jfl. It's higher in the north where they eat more meat and fried shit instead of rice, veg, fruit, etc.
To Beijing you go! @Exutoire is getting betabuxxed there by a CCP girl as we speak
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Isn’t Beijing highly competitive ? So maybe other cities are better

Some of the girls op posted are decent maybe a little too big for my taste but I think it’s true that they prob have a tough time getting love from guys even in Beijing but I’ve heard that people are still status and money obsessed in the capital so not sure if it’s enough to offset that although maybe it’s not as bad as Shanghai which I know someone who went there and complained about all the women being vapid as hell

tb fair I’ve never been tho but am considering going to China at some point myself
 
Isn’t Beijing highly competitive ? So maybe other cities are better

Some of the girls op posted are decent maybe a little too big for my taste but I think it’s true that they prob have a tough time getting love from guys even in Beijing but I’ve heard that people are still status and money obsessed in the capital so not sure if it’s enough to offset that although maybe it’s not as bad as Shanghai which I know someone who went there and complained about all the women being vapid as hell

tb fair I’ve never been tho but am considering going to China at some point myself
Yeah not too sure how hard Beijing would be even for this also moreso if I end up closer to the outskirts of the city and if like I said i should prioritize Qingdao or again Tianjin/Dalian? but overall QD and BJ have the most teaching opportunities and the other surrounding provincial capitals are gonna be poorer and possibly too conservative.

With BJ, I only went there once when I was looksminned so can't say how the dating market is and ill refer to @Exutoire and anyone else who's more familiar with the city but I do see women of this type there on YouTube videos. Also ime Shenzhen is worse in that regard than Shanghai as I am more familiar with both cities.
 
Yeah not too sure how hard Beijing would be even for this also moreso if I end up closer to the outskirts of the city and if like I said i should prioritize Qingdao or again Tianjin/Dalian? but overall QD and BJ have the most teaching opportunities and the other surrounding provincial capitals are gonna be poorer and possibly too conservative.

With BJ, I only went there once when I was looksminned so can't say how the dating market is and ill refer to @Exutoire and anyone else who's more familiar with the city but I do see women of this type there on YouTube videos. Also ime Shenzhen is worse in that regard than Shanghai as I am more familiar with both cities.
You should be fine anywhere in China with your looks level if you target younger leftover women in your age range especially, so don’t worry about it too much…
As for prime girls yeah they seem too difficult online even with age frauding so cold approaching them like on a university campus would probably also suck but I have yet to do that plus use the regular dating apps more so idk for sure…
 
Yeah not too sure how hard Beijing would be even for this also moreso if I end up closer to the outskirts of the city and if like I said i should prioritize Qingdao or again Tianjin/Dalian? but overall QD and BJ have the most teaching opportunities and the other surrounding provincial capitals are gonna be poorer and possibly too conservative.

With BJ, I only went there once when I was looksminned so can't say how the dating market is and ill refer to @Exutoire and anyone else who's more familiar with the city but I do see women of this type there on YouTube videos. Also ime Shenzhen is worse in that regard than Shanghai as I am more familiar with both cities.
Beijing is cool. You should go test it for yourself. If ur Chinese is decent then Tianjin may be even better, there is really a foreigner halo there and the city is cheap. You can go close to Nankai university area and there will be lots young people. I also particularly like the center.
 

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