So ive been reading about geomaxxing for some time, and i understand the idea behind it and it honestly makes a lot of sense for a lot of situations, however my situation is a bit different. I am from Argentina and live in Buenos Aires, which is a huge south american city, i dont think many people are from latin american in this forum, let alone Argentina lol.
I would rate the city a 5/10 in terms of dating difficulty, not as easy as asian countries like philipines or thailand where it seems you get 100 matches on tinder per hour, but not all that hard like in the USA, Uk, Sweden, etc. On a daily basis you see a lot of couples on the street where the man is worse looking than the girl / the same looks. If you dont believe it check the 4k walking vids of BA there are plenty, and you will be realize theres not THAT many good looking guys here, and girls imo are hot as fuck (defo my type)
I read a lot about people recommending going to asia, but i dont think thats the case for me, im a bit lost regarding what i wanna do in that case, a flight to go to any asian country takes like 30 hours minimum from down here, with 2 layovers, moreover its expensive for most of us (a round trip costs 2000 dollars, some 2 months of salary), and theres a personal factor in that, i feel i will feel very out of place there, in regards to everything, food, people, language, overall aspect of the city, like i cant imagine myself landing in manila, alone, after 30 uncomfortable hours of flight, with no one to receive me, and saying something like "alright now ill go to my hotel and open tinder to get some matches"
Like i sometimes see the "data" and think thats the path to go, sometimes even the "only" path there is, then i remember i live in south america and realize i dont really need to go to such a far away and different place, where if i wanna go back ill be 20000km away from my home, alone, in such exotic foreign territories.
Now regarding where i stand personally, i will say i tend to be a lil introverted compared to other argentinians, dont get me wrong i understand social cues and slang, and i am pretty street smart HERE in buenos aires (i dont know how i would perform in a city like manila) i got friends and family and such, but i would still realistically regard myself as being half as extroverted as the average argentinian (which is extremely extroverted in a worldwide perspective). Other interesting data would be that im 20 years old, i stand at a 5/10 facially, not a single point above nor below, i am above average height (185cm aprox) and know spanish and english both on a native level.
One of my main concerns is that, i understand the blackpill, geomaxxing, ROI in dating, looksmaxxing and such, but i dont think i got the heart to have my first trip be to a south east asian country, alone, as a 20 year old. I love my city, i love the climate, geography, parks, access to the river, overall culture (futbol, parties, meetings with friends and family) cheap and safe means of public transportation, food, architecture, etc, like i was sort of "blessed" to be born here, but the girls aspect is just not that easy, like i see some other countries and its definetely not as hard, but again, its not SO easy as i would "like" it to be in order to gain experience, and in a way, make up for the lack of in the past. Maybe with some looksmaxxing i could improve, but i dont know, im pretty positive in that i will eventually find someone to marry and have a family here (GOD BLESS), but being inexperienced in all aspects of a relationship is probably not good either.
I havent read from anyone in a similar position as mine, thats why i also wanted to make this post.
I appreciatte any and all advice you can give me, or any comments you can make, sorry for the long post, its just something that i got in my head and want to put into words, see what you guys think about it. cheers!
I would rate the city a 5/10 in terms of dating difficulty, not as easy as asian countries like philipines or thailand where it seems you get 100 matches on tinder per hour, but not all that hard like in the USA, Uk, Sweden, etc. On a daily basis you see a lot of couples on the street where the man is worse looking than the girl / the same looks. If you dont believe it check the 4k walking vids of BA there are plenty, and you will be realize theres not THAT many good looking guys here, and girls imo are hot as fuck (defo my type)
I read a lot about people recommending going to asia, but i dont think thats the case for me, im a bit lost regarding what i wanna do in that case, a flight to go to any asian country takes like 30 hours minimum from down here, with 2 layovers, moreover its expensive for most of us (a round trip costs 2000 dollars, some 2 months of salary), and theres a personal factor in that, i feel i will feel very out of place there, in regards to everything, food, people, language, overall aspect of the city, like i cant imagine myself landing in manila, alone, after 30 uncomfortable hours of flight, with no one to receive me, and saying something like "alright now ill go to my hotel and open tinder to get some matches"
Like i sometimes see the "data" and think thats the path to go, sometimes even the "only" path there is, then i remember i live in south america and realize i dont really need to go to such a far away and different place, where if i wanna go back ill be 20000km away from my home, alone, in such exotic foreign territories.
Now regarding where i stand personally, i will say i tend to be a lil introverted compared to other argentinians, dont get me wrong i understand social cues and slang, and i am pretty street smart HERE in buenos aires (i dont know how i would perform in a city like manila) i got friends and family and such, but i would still realistically regard myself as being half as extroverted as the average argentinian (which is extremely extroverted in a worldwide perspective). Other interesting data would be that im 20 years old, i stand at a 5/10 facially, not a single point above nor below, i am above average height (185cm aprox) and know spanish and english both on a native level.
One of my main concerns is that, i understand the blackpill, geomaxxing, ROI in dating, looksmaxxing and such, but i dont think i got the heart to have my first trip be to a south east asian country, alone, as a 20 year old. I love my city, i love the climate, geography, parks, access to the river, overall culture (futbol, parties, meetings with friends and family) cheap and safe means of public transportation, food, architecture, etc, like i was sort of "blessed" to be born here, but the girls aspect is just not that easy, like i see some other countries and its definetely not as hard, but again, its not SO easy as i would "like" it to be in order to gain experience, and in a way, make up for the lack of in the past. Maybe with some looksmaxxing i could improve, but i dont know, im pretty positive in that i will eventually find someone to marry and have a family here (GOD BLESS), but being inexperienced in all aspects of a relationship is probably not good either.
I havent read from anyone in a similar position as mine, thats why i also wanted to make this post.
I appreciatte any and all advice you can give me, or any comments you can make, sorry for the long post, its just something that i got in my head and want to put into words, see what you guys think about it. cheers!
