my situtation is hopeless

[currylarper]

no matter how hard i try i can never escape my loneliness and isolation
completely over for me, im only 17 and i already know i have a miserable life alone ahead of me

 

[predeterminism]

literally just walk outisde

 

[currylarper]

literally just walk outisde

i do all the time

 

[AlexBrown84]

you’ve been psyoped into thinking your life has ended at the age of 17 jfl

but sadly it probably has, since everything you can achieve stems from your thoughts. if you think you’re a loser you’ll be a loser haha

i’m an emperor

 

[JustGo]

you’ve been psyoped into thinking your life has ended at the age of 17 jfl

the human brain is still developing at 17, and is capable of embracing radical life changes.

no matter how hard i try i can never escape my loneliness and isolation
completely over for me, im only 17 and i already know i have a miserable life alone ahead of me

Accepting misery as inescapable, and getting hooked on copes like alcohol, weed, porn, vidya is the only thing which will surely doom you to a life of solitary misery from the get-go.

Life vitality and enjoyment peak around 23 or 24...so you have seven years to work on building your life through experiences. Don't assume that heading straight to a party hostel in Nicaragua on your 18th birthday will be the best move. First you have to learn what you are capable of, putting yourself through ordeals and struggles, building confidence in your physical and mental abilities, building cameraderie and learning masculinity from the men you are working with, and hopefully saving up some money in the process. Not all seasonal jobs are hyper-macho, of course; you can clean rooms or wash dishes in a national park resort, make many acquaintances who gradually turn into friends as you hang out together after work.

Then hell, fly out to a party hostel in Nicaragua with a couple friends at season's end and live it up for a couple weeks.

Don't judge your progress against the achievements of others, as there will always be others who achieve far more than you do. Judge it by your own personal development. Okay, maybe the first girl you got with was a drunk fattie, and all your buddies made fun of you for the next week. Maybe you didn't even fuck, only cuddle. Life is like that. Experience builds on experience.

Who knows, by 21 you might be thru-hiking the appalachian trail and mooning the cog with some thru-hiker friends.

 

[currylarper]

the human brain is still developing at 17, and is capable of embracing radical life changes.

Accepting misery as inescapable, and getting hooked on copes like alcohol, weed, porn, vidya is the only thing which will surely doom you to a life of solitary misery from the get-go.

Life vitality and enjoyment peak around 23 or 24...so you have seven years to work on building your life through experiences. Don't assume that heading straight to a party hostel in Nicaragua on your 18th birthday will be the best move. First you have to learn what you are capable of, putting yourself through ordeals and struggles, building confidence in your physical and mental abilities, building cameraderie and learning masculinity from the men you are working with, and hopefully saving up some money in the process. Not all seasonal jobs are hyper-macho, of course; you can clean rooms or wash dishes in a national park resort, make many acquaintances who gradually turn into friends as you hang out together after work.

Then hell, fly out to a party hostel in Nicaragua with a couple friends at season's end and live it up for a couple weeks.

Don't judge your progress against the achievements of others, as there will always be others who achieve far more than you do. Judge it by your own personal development. Okay, maybe the first girl you got with was a drunk fattie, and all your buddies made fun of you for the next week. Maybe you didn't even fuck, only cuddle. Life is like that. Experience builds on experience.

Who knows, by 21 you might be thru-hiking the appalachian trail and mooning the cog with some thru-hiker friends.
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good post, thanks for this bro

 

[QuantativeAnalyticalBS]

since everything you can achieve

What a person can achieve is LIMITED and it varies from person to person.

 

[AlexBrown84]

What a person can achieve is LIMITED and it varies from person to person.

not if they have the right mindset

you clearly lack such and therefore won’t achieve much

 

[QuantativeAnalyticalBS]

not if they have the right mindset

you clearly lack such and therefore won’t achieve much

You are acting like we have free will because you are delusional. If a person is autistic or schizophrenic, there's a limit to what he can achieve. No amount of positive thinking can override physics. We are bound by it. We all can't shoot for the stars because not everyone has exceptional talent or the connections to fully succeed in life. But that doesn't mean we can't live the best lives possible for our individual self. Your best effort is someone else's worse day. That doesn't mean we should hold ourselves to unattainable standards that don't apply to us individually. Find your level and do your best to standout from amongst them.