Bro,
I know dudes in their 50s that got married and had kids.
I know a dude that spent most of his life in hostels. He got a career in his 40s.
I know a dude who worked as a paramedic and partied hard. In his late 30s he went to medical school.
....and more examples out there.
Things are actually getting easier out there, not harder.
More and more people are checking out (addicted to video games, porn, drugs, etc.)
“The greatest jihad is to battle your own soul, to fight the evil within yourself.” – Prophet Muhammad
Whether you are a muslim or not, that quote is powerful. People thousands of years ago realized this truth: What holds us back the most is ourselves.
So go out there and do something!