MrStealYoPinay
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- Apr 17, 2026
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I know its kind of a meme on this website about learning tagalog , cos you don't really need to, expecially for slaying many girls
Even my girl said if I spoke tagalog when we met then she wouldn't have dated me
I forgot why, but I think because they think it means u got with many girls or something or something else
Also I feel like it's mad cringe to speak the local language here as a foreigner
But to be honest I feel like when ur 1on1 with ur girl they like it if u gonna be able to speak the language. You can tell it makes them happy
Also if you meet their family etc they always gonna be speaking tagalog and it's mad awkward cos u cant really speak to them or be involved in the group conversations
It's times like that where a local girl here will probably wish she dated a local for that aspect to be able to integrate with her family and shit
And also I don't like it. Its like feeling outcast. Socializing would be Nice especially when having nofriends here
Also if her parents/family are provincial they likely won't speak english/will have shit English (understandably)
Also applies to integrating with locals and making friends, building a life here
Cos all the foreigners u can become friends with are either 60yo or autistic af young guys
Tldr it's worth it to learn tagalog but maybe keep it secret. Dont use it in everyday life. Only use it sometimes when 1on1 with ur girl or in group conversations outside/with ur girls family
Maybe 1 lesson per week with an online tutor. Also don't show ur face on the calls with the teacher cos its embarrassing
Even my girl said if I spoke tagalog when we met then she wouldn't have dated me
I forgot why, but I think because they think it means u got with many girls or something or something else
Also I feel like it's mad cringe to speak the local language here as a foreigner
But to be honest I feel like when ur 1on1 with ur girl they like it if u gonna be able to speak the language. You can tell it makes them happy
Also if you meet their family etc they always gonna be speaking tagalog and it's mad awkward cos u cant really speak to them or be involved in the group conversations
It's times like that where a local girl here will probably wish she dated a local for that aspect to be able to integrate with her family and shit
And also I don't like it. Its like feeling outcast. Socializing would be Nice especially when having nofriends here
Also if her parents/family are provincial they likely won't speak english/will have shit English (understandably)
Also applies to integrating with locals and making friends, building a life here
Cos all the foreigners u can become friends with are either 60yo or autistic af young guys
Tldr it's worth it to learn tagalog but maybe keep it secret. Dont use it in everyday life. Only use it sometimes when 1on1 with ur girl or in group conversations outside/with ur girls family
Maybe 1 lesson per week with an online tutor. Also don't show ur face on the calls with the teacher cos its embarrassing
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