Is your dad an inspiring figure

total bum unfortunately , he is inspiring in a way because I was always scared to be like him
 
total bum unfortunately , he is inspiring in a way because I was always scared to be like him
literally nobody in my family is inspiring to me

there are occasions when im on pregab or opiates and decide to talk to my dad, an interesting person on paper, but im constantly let down at the level he talks at.
 
literally nobody in my family is inspiring to me

there are occasions when im on pregab or opiates and decide to talk to my dad, an interesting person on paper, but im constantly let down at the level he talks at.
my dad talks to much about politics.
 
i love my dad and i love my family i could never move away due to how much i love and need them and my overall bigger family and friends, most i would do is probably a vacation and then come back
 
he has always been a slayer, even as an oldcel now. that is inspiring enough for me
 
So bluepilled it hurts my head to interact. If I was my honest personality around him I’d be correcting every single thing he says.

Extremely beta in conversation and refuses to discipline, or argue his point forcefully. Likes to masturbate inside of his brain about how smart he is but never test it in discourse.

Really addicted to biases, especially emotionally comforting ones and will nitpick stuff, backtalk you and use bad faith arguments to try and “win”. All under some sort of non-confrontational edge.

Example: make a statement he disagrees with and maybe you mispronounce a word, instead of saying why he disagrees, or making a logical argument or whatever or try to have a productive discussion, he will just say “it’s pronounced xyz not that” you said it wrong. Focus in on it, and tune out everything else.

Another option would be to agree with you, then go behind your back and talk to everyone with how he disagrees with you, and how your statements are stupid so that you aren’t able to reply with your counter argument or actually describe what you meant.

Multiple times I tested him by saying stuff that doesn’t make any sense and he will just agree with you and pretend to understand. Probably one of the most pussy male traits I can think of. Anyone who does this I instantly cut off.

He likes to pretend to read books to seem smart, but if you press into genuine content of the books he has no idea about any of the contents, books for him are more of a cosplay of being an intelligent person than the actual pursuit of information.

Gives actual awful advice about everything. I’ve never met someone as bad as him at primary research, finances and relationships.

Anyway regardless at least he’s disciplined, high pain tolerance, high stress tolerance and memorizing stuff? But if it wasn’t for my high IQ, hyper social mother he would be fucked.


To give you a more embarrassing example, for someone autistic like me that I notice, since the invention of short form content, AI, and his discovery of YouTube, I’ve now heard him parrot information, stories, and stuff like this and pawn it off as his own personal ones. 🥱🥱🥱.

Another good example is I told him about bitcoin obsessively at 5k and 16k, not urging him to buy but describing the mechanics how it can do stuff that our current financial system can’t, and told him IM buying as much as I can. I know this asset isn’t preforming well at the moment so it’s funny, but at 126k he decided to say random stuff about bitcoin, “well you know you’ve talked about bitcoin a lot but it doesn’t seem like anything has changed, maybe it went up a little bit that’s all”. 💀💀💀☠️☠️☠️💀💀


ANYWAY. He’s old so I can’t really judge him. The man did a good job? As a provider I guess and I can be grateful. But inspiring? Holy shit no way. Cautionary tale of letting people step on you, letting society step on you and take advantage of you, and also tunnel vision. Also a dangerous story about pride and ego or fragile identities.
 
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