Advice Is japan really sexless? and why? [answers inside]

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A foreigner’s perspective for what it’s worth. I’m British but lived in Japan for two years for work purposes from late 2010 to late 2012. While there I was lucky enough to get to know and socialise with a group of Japanese guys, who were all about my age - early thirties. They were totally cool. Outgoing, confident, modestly successful career wise etc. They really made me feel at home and they couldn’t do enough to help me find my feet. I was a bit clueless about living in Japan at first and needed all the help I could get. But after about a month I started to realise these guys mostly had no women in their life. Just one of the six men was in a long-term relationship but the others? Nothing. No wives, no girlfriends, zilch....

After about a month I worked up the confidence to tactfully ask them what the deal was In terms of their lack of female company. I was genuinely shocked by the response. The five single guys more or less said the same thing. That they’d tried dating years ago, kept getting knocked back, got embarrassed and demoralised by the whole process and gradually gave up on the idea of ever being able to have a proper relationship with a woman. Remember.....these guys were in their early 30s, not just teenagers. I tried to build up their confidence, telling them there was NOTHING wrong with them (which was true - these were not loner type gaming fanatics or anything) but I don’t think I had much success. It was like they were all traumatised or something.

One of the guys later quietly admitted that he visited prostitutes once or twice a month,
just to handle the physical side of things. He wasn’t boasting about it. He felt ashamed of doing it, and even hid it from his other Japanese friends. I think he only told me because of me being a foreigner.

The crazy thing was that even the one guy who WAS in a long-term relationship wasn’t entirely happy either. He confided that he constantly worried his girlfriend would dump him. He told me he lay awake at night stressing about it. Guess what. He was dumped, several months after I’d left Japan. Today he’s still doing well career wise, but is still single and now expects he’ll never get the chance to be married or have kids.

That’s just my personal, very limited experience of Japan and of some young Japanese men I knew there. I’m not saying it’s typical or a scientific survey of course!








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The latest government survey found that 42 % of men aged between 18 to 34 were still virgins. Japan has one of the world's lowest birthrates and is home to a severely aging population, with a recent survey finding 34.6 million Japanese aged over 65.
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The average American loses his or her virginity at age 17. Virgins make up 12.3 percent of females and 14.3 percent of males ages 20 to 24.

damn.

its much much worse than the west.

imagine hypergamy and girls coldness towards guys in the west but x10 worse

no wonder they need you to upload ID to dating app. geomaxxers would make things even worse.


do you guys think its hypergamy and girls only fucking the top % guys? or do you think its just their toxic work culture and just conservative culture in general?
 
In my opinion it's the work culture and Japanese women finding their men ugly, women just dont have a high sex drive like men do, so they don't get desperate and they'll wait to fuck a foreigner or a good looking japanses guy.
 
Japan is extremely K-selected (It takes a long to form relationships plus they are centred around child rearing not sex) plus it's high in social shame.

Also the marriage laws are weird (which makes it harder for japanese people) and it's looked down upon to get married outside of wedlock and to a foreigner.
 
it's looked down upon to get married outside of wedlock and to a foreigner.
that confuses me tbh

like in this video. the japanese woman basically admits shes got a bf but doesnt feel attraction towards him. so pays to get fucked by this half white half japanese male escort once per week

so it seems the whiter features are more attractive to the women. but the hapa guy said he grew up looking different to everyone else and was shamed and bullied for it rather than looked up to

i dont understand that. why would someone who is more attractive to women be shamed by the men? usually the more attractive people do the bullying to the unattractive people

maybe its just the male inferiority insecurity? or am i missing something?
 
that confuses me tbh

like in this video. the japanese woman basically admits shes got a bf but doesnt feel attraction towards him. so pays to get fucked by this half white half japanese male escort once per week

so it seems the whiter features are more attractive to the women. but the hapa guy said he grew up looking different to everyone else and was shamed and bullied for it rather than looked up to

i dont understand that. why would someone who is more attractive to women be shamed by the men? usually the more attractive people do the bullying to the unattractive people

maybe its just the male inferiority insecurity? or am i missing something?
Probably an inferiority complex tbh since the Japanese are so homogenous.
 
If this was in 2010 imagine how it is now lol
saw this earlier. good watch

its popular apparently to rent a gf for a few hours to have some food with and have a coffee and then just go seperate ways:ROFLMAO:

and ur not even allowed to hug her, only shake hands:ROFLMAO:

i swear japanese guys must be so low t. maybe im wrong tho and its just the fucked up women
 
So geomaxing to Japan as a white is hard mode or easy mode 😂
Easy and even easier in cities outside of Tokyo

Japans been closed for years to most westerners so girls will be even easier. Same thing when I went to Mongolia I think that’s why it was so easy there
 

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