Is inviting girls for dinner and buy drinks for them to have sex with them betabuxxing?

[explorer7878]

It is my dating strategy in the west. Taking girls to restaurants having dinner with them and buying them drinks.
I spend lots of money on girls through this but it works because so far every girl opened their legs on the first date.
I feel this is the only way to have short term dating success with MTB+ girls in the west if you are below chadlite. Buying them good food and drinks

 

[14passport]

It depends, i think the best definition of betabuxxing is when you overpay for a girl

if you take a low class or hoodrat girl to the most expensive place in town and spend 100s of $$$ on her, you are clearly betabuxxing

if you take a middle/high class girl to a trendy spot, it's not betabuxxing, as she would herself go to these spots and its her standard lifestyle

take the most extreme example: the Philippines where you got foreigners spending 100s of $$$ on women that would go with a local guy to a 1$ street food spot

and to be clear i don't think there's anything wrong with betabuxxing, as long as you are aware of it and can afford it, it can bring great results
just don't delude yourself into thinking its because of your game or whatever bullshit people cope with