i told my mother i was thinking about travelling SEA and EA and she said:

[awkward]

'Asia's where creepy old men go to prey on girls younger than them'.

I told her, that I would go to Vietnam to visit the rice paddies and she said 'Yes, I'm sure you would'.

After a moments pause, I told her of a family friend who went there and showed her pictures of large picturesque rice paddies and green mountains. She acknowledges that the scenery in Vietnam and China and so forth, is very beautiful.

The thing is though, my mother would be partially correct, as if I ever went to Vietnam or China, I would download tinder and try to meet cute asian girls and go on some cute dates (hiking, surfing, snowboarding, walking in the city taking pictures, going for dinner - all things I would like to experience with a cute girl).

I don't view this as 'preying' on people as I once downloaded passport tinder and offered a Vietnamese match to come hiking with me followed by dinner, and she said 'of course, that sounds amazing'. I then deleted my tinder acc as I was not in Asia at the time (never been).

This also made me realize that I should try approaches and dating applications in my home country, as I have never asked out anyone before, so I do not know if I would have dating success in my home country.

 

[Exutoire]

'Asias where creepy old men go to prey on girls younger than them'.

I told her, that I would go to Vietnam to visit the rice paddies and she said 'Yes, I'm sure you would'.

After a moments pause, I told her of a family friend who went there and showed my mother pictures of large picturesque rice paddies and green mountains. She acknowledges that the scenery in Vietnam and China and so on, was very beautiful.

The thing is though, my mother would be partially correct, as if I ever went to Vietnam or China, I would download tinder and try to meet cute asian girls and go on some cute dates (hiking, surfing, snowboarding, walking in the city taking pictures, going for dinner - all things I would like to experience with a cute girl).

I don't view this as 'preying' on people as once downloaded passport tinder and offered a vietnamese match to come hiking with me and dinner, and she said 'of course, that sounds amazing'. I think deleted my tinder acc as I was not in Asia at the time (never been).

Parents cuck men.

 

[biggunsar]

well you have two choices. follow your heart or marry your mother.

whats it gonna be?

 

[iiwii]

'Asia's where creepy old men go to prey on girls younger than them'.

I told her, that I would go to Vietnam to visit the rice paddies and she said 'Yes, I'm sure you would'.

After a moments pause, I told her of a family friend who went there and showed her pictures of large picturesque rice paddies and green mountains. She acknowledges that the scenery in Vietnam and China and so forth, is very beautiful.

The thing is though, my mother would be partially correct, as if I ever went to Vietnam or China, I would download tinder and try to meet cute asian girls and go on some cute dates (hiking, surfing, snowboarding, walking in the city taking pictures, going for dinner - all things I would like to experience with a cute girl).

I don't view this as 'preying' on people as I once downloaded passport tinder and offered a Vietnamese match to come hiking with me followed by dinner, and she said 'of course, that sounds amazing'. I then deleted my tinder acc as I was not in Asia at the time (never been).

This also made me realize that I should try approaches and dating applications in my home country, as I have never asked out anyone before, so I do not know if I would have dating success in my home country.

Your mom's a dumb cunt about that and asian women are more the predators than the guys coming there, dumb fucking western women always infantilizing. Those women are adults too, they know what they're doing.

 

[awkward]

Your mom's a dumb cunt about that and asian women are more the predators than the guys coming there, dumb fucking western women always infantilizing. Those women are adults too, they know what they're doing.

That makes some sense. There are many gold diggers or some that simply fetishize whites.
Also, don't call my mother that. She's amazing and I love her.

 

[FoidGrabber]

it’s from their own sexism and racism. Which is true. SEA women are dumb as bricks. They just don’t want to admit it.

NO DONT BE A SEX HAVER YOU HAVE TO FOLLOW THE DEMANDS OF A WESTERN WOMAN.

she also probably scared you will meet a girl and go live there far way from her. She might even be concerned that you’ll get taken advantage of by the women there…

Anyway what do you have to lose? In societies eyes you are already a worthless piece of shit; a loser. Ur not supposed to have fun. You are subhuman, “creepy”. Everyone deeply hates you when they figure out you aren’t NT. What’s wrong with being the creepy guy in Asia? What more does it do to your already tarnished reputation?

 

[predeterminism]

shes jealous and insecure to asian women cos they mog her so shes trying to shame you

 

[awkward]

it’s from their own sexism and racism. Which is true. SEA women are dumb as bricks. They just don’t want to admit it.

NO DONT BE A SEX HAVER YOU HAVE TO FOLLOW THE DEMANDS OF A WESTERN WOMAN.

she also probably scared you will meet a girl and go live there far way from her. She might even be concerned that you’ll get taken advantage of by the women there…

Anyway what do you have to lose? In societies eyes you are already a worthless piece of shit; a loser. Ur not supposed to have fun. You are subhuman, “creepy”. Everyone deeply hates you when they figure out you aren’t NT. What’s wrong with being the creepy guy in Asia? What more does it do to your already tarnished reputation?

No one wants to be a 'creepy' guy. Everyone (who is mentally healthy) should want to mog other males, at all ages, and induce genuine attraction from women.

shes jealous and insecure to asian women cos they mog her so shes trying to shame you

Jfl my mother is very old so its not that. My mother is a saint, a lovely women and only wants the best for me, so is mollycoddling me. Do not talk ill of her.

She has that perception because historically its been true and she likely beliefs the media programming. However, its the 21st century and now every influencer and travel flogger is travelling to Asian countries. Times have changed.

 

[FoidGrabber]

No one wants to be a 'creepy' guy. Everyone (who is mentally healthy) should want to mog other males, at all ages, and induce genuine attraction from women.

Jfl my mother is very old so its not that. My mother is a saint, a lovely women and only wants the best for me, so is mollycoddling me. Do not talk ill of her.

She has that perception because historically it’s been true and she likely beliefs the media programming. However, it’s the 21st century and now every influencer and travel flogger is travelling to Asian countries. Times have changed.

Why play these narcissistic games at the expense of your life enjoyment. Seems silly and sub 90 IQ.

 

[awkward]

Why play these narcissistic games at the expense of your life enjoyment. Seems silly and sub 90 IQ.

I've in the lookism/looksmax community for over a decade. I can't avoid looksmaxxing, its become apart of me. I will surgerymaxx before I travel.

 

[FoidGrabber]

I've in the lookism/looksmax community for over a decade. I can't avoid looksmaxxing, it’s become apart of me. I will surgerymaxx before I travel.

That’s not what I meant, I mean if it’s all about mogging men and not getting girls that’s kinda gay…

 

[predeterminism]

Do not talk ill of her

Also cucked to defend a woman who has failed you (making you a virgin)

 

[signal100]

This also made me realize that I should try approaches and dating applications in my home country, as I have never asked out anyone before, so I do not know if I would have dating success in my home country.

wanting to seamaxx and havent even attempted anything ever

 

[signal100]

'Asia's where creepy old men go to prey on girls younger than them'.

normies know lol. we all want to go to asia for the same shit but for different reasons. some bc its just overall easier getting hoes and u can spend way less money partying some go to lose the v card

 

[awkward]

That’s not what I meant, I mean if it’s all about mogging men and not getting girls that’s kinda gay…

Why is it gay? Getting validation from everyone is ideal. If one is rich but ugly, and just purchases love from pretty females, there I assume one would become jaded and depressed. It's better looksmaxx and become as good looking as possible before pursuing romance.

Also cucked to defend a woman who has failed you (making you a virgin)

She never made me a virgin. She actively encouraged me to ask out girls when I turned 13 and between 18-24 seemed genuinely distressed that I hadn't had a gf unlikely other guys my age. I have always been too awkward and shy to ask a female out.

wanting to seamaxx and havent even attempted anything ever

Correct, I've never asked anyone out before and I am a 27 yo virgin.

normies know lol. we all want to go to asia for the same shit but for different reasons. some bc its just overall easier getting hoes and u can spend way less money partying some go to lose the v card

Of course my mother is a normie. If she wasn't a normie then I wouldn't have had such a peaceful and happy childhood.
It was simply my own self imposed autism where I cornered myself off from society and got addicted to vidya gaems between 12-20, that caused my lacking social life, awkwardness and my 27 yo virginity status.

 

[biggunsar]

Why is it gay? Getting validation from everyone is ideal. If one is rich but ugly, and just purchases love from pretty females, there I assume one would become jaded and depressed. It's better looksmaxx and become as good looking as possible before pursuing romance.

She never made me a virgin. She actively encouraged me to ask out girls when I turned 13 and between 18-24 seemed genuinely distressed that I hadn't had a gf unlikely other guys my age. I have always been too awkward and shy to ask a female out.

Correct, I've never asked anyone out before and I am a 27 yo virgin.

Of course my mother is a normie. If she wasn't a normie then I wouldn't have had such a peaceful and happy childhood.
It was simply my own self imposed autism where I cornered myself off from society and got addicted to vidya gaems between 12-20, that caused my lacking social life, awkwardness and my 27 yo virginity status.

men dont' need validation. That's a womans thing.

 

[Rance]

Everybody gotta stop hating on this man's mother lol, so disrespectful

Your mother is ignorant, and incorrect. Lots of people are ignorant about the world. That doesn't make you a bad person. You need to acknowledge that your mother does not know what's best for you in this case.

I would also encourage you to approach life from a less "principled" position. You keep musing and second-guessing about "preying" and a bunch of vague nonsense. Brother, just look at the material facts and make a decision. It doesn't matter what other people think because most people have no idea what the fuck is going on. You need to just make decisions.

 

[Sneep]

You should just try to listen to your mom and follow her advice. I'm sure she has your best interests at heart. Try finding a girl in your home country. If all else fails, wait until she is very old or dead to go to Asia. You'll be a creepy old pervert probably but at least your mom won't have to see you that way.

Everybody gotta stop hating on this man's mother lol, so disrespectful

I agree.

 

[signal100]

Your mother is ignorant, and incorrect

how is she ignorant and incorrect when she literally clocked the reason he wanted to go instantly

 

[Rance]

how is she ignorant and incorrect when she literally clocked the reason he wanted to go instantly

Lol I mean you're not totally wrong, but indirectly calling OP a "creepy old man" and suggesting he'd "prey on young girls" is crazy coming from his mother. It's a far cry from saying "people go there to find love".

 

[Pained4ever]

Everybody gotta stop hating on this man's mother lol, so disrespectful

Your mother is ignorant, and incorrect. Lots of people are ignorant about the world. That doesn't make you a bad person. You need to acknowledge that your mother does not know what's best for you in this case.

I would also encourage you to approach life from a less "principled" position. You keep musing and second-guessing about "preying" and a bunch of vague nonsense. Brother, just look at the material facts and make a decision. It doesn't matter what other people think because most people have no idea what the fuck is going on. You need to just make decisions.

unbelievably based advice you're most high iq user here

 

[awkward]

men dont' need validation. That's a womans thing.

Giga cope. Everyone seeks validation in all areas of life. If you deny this, you would be an absolute social recluse without an account on this forum and you would not seek affection from the opposite gender (validation that the opposite gender sees you as attractive enough to engage in sexual relations with).

Everybody gotta stop hating on this man's mother lol, so disrespectful

Your mother is ignorant, and incorrect. Lots of people are ignorant about the world. That doesn't make you a bad person. You need to acknowledge that your mother does not know what's best for you in this case.

She is part correct (people travel to sight see but also because they benefit from outgroup popularity and curiosity). Whenever an outgroup travels to an ingroup (demographically homogenous place like Asia) there is always at least a small minority in the ingroup that will see the outgroup with an enhanced SMV, as a subconscious evolutionary hedge against the outgroup.

I would also encourage you to approach life from a less "principled" position. You keep musing and second-guessing about "preying" and a bunch of vague nonsense. Brother, just look at the material facts and make a decision. It doesn't matter what other people think because most people have no idea what the fuck is going on. You need to just make decisions.

True. I will travel to Mediterranean first and then to Japan or Korea, as I consider those place noob travel destinations.

Lol I mean you're not totally wrong, but indirectly calling OP a "creepy old man" and suggesting he'd "prey on young girls" is crazy coming from his mother. It's a far cry from saying "people go there to find love".

Coming from her, she was simply describing the stereotypical assumption for why old men (as in 50+ year old men) travel to Asian countries.

Obvious my mother see my as a young guy in his twenties who just wants a gf who like him.

It's worth also stating that my mother said there can be a lot of manipulative gold diggers who might emotional toy with me and because I am so innocent, awkward and autistic, she didn't want me to be abused or taken advantage of.

She thinks I should just try to be social in my home country first before gallivanting internationally on adventures in all my naivety and lack of social experience. As I have never asked out anyone before, I think she is right.

 

[kizakiari]

U must travelto geomax country as a white male. West is cooked if not 8/10 in looks or rich. Stfu ablut ur mom ur grown adult nigga man the fuck up.

 

[awkward]

U must travelto geomax country as a white male. West is cooked if not 8/10 in looks or rich. Stfu ablut ur mom ur grown adult nigga man the fuck up.

Yeah that general sentiment is probably true but my mother is my favorite person on planet earth (because she has always been there for me and supported me unlike other people in life) so I value her opinion.

 

[Mid]

'Asia's where creepy old men go to prey on girls younger than them'.

I told her, that I would go to Vietnam to visit the rice paddies and she said 'Yes, I'm sure you would'.

i'm surprised she showed her true feelings. my mother talked shit about "losers" in the military that got married to korean women, but she didn't say anything like that to me before i left. it's more typical for a mother to see their son as "special" and "not like that" and other copes

Anyway what do you have to lose? In societies eyes you are already a worthless piece of shit; a loser. Ur not supposed to have fun. You are subhuman, “creepy”. Everyone deeply hates you when they figure out you aren’t NT. What’s wrong with being the creepy guy in Asia? What more does it do to your already tarnished reputation?

this.

 

[biggunsar]

U must travelto geomax country as a white male. West is cooked if not 8/10 in looks or rich. Stfu ablut ur mom ur grown adult nigga man the fuck up.

you confuse validation with love

validation is recognizing you have done or doing something

 

[awkward]

i'm surprised she showed her true feelings. my mother talked shit about "losers" in the military that got married to korean women, but she didn't say anything like that to me before i left. it's more typical for a mother to see their son as "special" and "not like that" and other copes

this.

Coming from her, she was simply describing the stereotypical assumption for why old men (as in 50+ year old men) travel to Asian countries.

As it relates to me, my mother see me as a young guy in his twenties who just wants a gf who likes me.

It's worth also stating that my mother said there can be a lot of manipulative gold diggers who might emotional toy with me and because I am so innocent, awkward and autistic, she didn't want me to be abused or taken advantage of.

you confuse validation with love

validation is recognizing you have done or doing something

Cope. Love/romance is intrinsically tied to validation.

When a girl shows interest in a guy and engages in sexual relations with him, she is validating his genetic value or his social value. She is saying you are good enough.