Chinese girl told me she thinks white guys in China are losers

[AlexBrown84]

I'd also not worry about the whole "loser" thing once you close a lay. Sex should be priority #1 even if you're a strict LTR guy. It has a rewiring effect.

No girl will think you're a loser when her ass is in the air and her face is in a pillow

idk how guys can entertain girls if they’re not fucking within the first 2 meets. preferably 1st meet

 

[Rance]

idk how guys can entertain girls if they’re not fucking within the first 2 meets. preferably 1st meet

3 is my limit, only because I notice a lot of girls do end up sleeping on the third date. I don't mind as long as the first two dates are quick and easy, which they usually are.

 

[Yuezhi]

idk how guys can entertain girls if they’re not fucking within the first 2 meets. preferably 1st meet

Do Chinese girls still usually take 3 dates to bang outside of the big 4 cities? From my very limited experience and from what guys were saying on those threads this was the norm pre covid but maybe things have changed. In Shanghai I dont think this was as much the case with locals but back then I hooked up with a transplant from Jiangxi.

 

[AlexBrown84]

Do Chinese girls still usually take 3 dates to bang? From my very limited experience and from what guys were saying on those threads this was the norm pre covid but maybe things have changed.

from my experience most of them have been on the second date. only one girl two chinks I met fucked on first meet. one girl agreed to stay at my place but told me she was a virgin so even tho we were kissing i decided to wait until the second time we met

 

[zaneslayerasianbaddies]

She is a student in Europe. Yesterday she told me she thinks white guys in China are losers in their home country that's why they go to China because there they get more success and attention. She did not say success with girls specifically but I know she (also) meant that. She then said she likes white guys but only the white guys who live in Europe. She is very smart so there is still hope that not all Chinese girls realise that

I watched a rehab room video recently about this, a Chinese girl dated a shy white guy in Europe and decided to take him to China and there he received validation from several other girls and started cheating on her, but they didn't end it lmao

 

[biggunsar]

from my experience most of them have been on the second date. only one girl two chinks I met fucked on first meet. one girl agreed to stay at my place but told me she was a virgin so even tho we were kissing i decided to wait until the second time we met

virgin slayer LOL

i don't do those. The sex really cannot be that good

 

[Orientalist]

I think this is changing rapidly. Chinese tourism and soft power is skyrocketing in the post-ishowspeed aka hyperthyroid bro era. He should probably be awarded a Nobel peace prize for how much he's disspelled all the American red scare propaganda the glowies have been churning out
Like I mentioned:

I glaze China life around chinese people even if it's hard to believe when you're a poor local and it makes the US/West seem worse by comparison. QOL and infrastructure is still better in almost every way. Joke that the CCP is paying you to betray your country and that you feel like you're living in 2040, pretty simple.

None of that stuff matters anyways if you present yourself accordingly. It's a global world/economy these days; you can live where you want. If you're in the provinces of the Philippines yeah different story

The whole world is waking up to the fact that the QOL in China is very high given enough dough and that the vvest has fallen. It's a pretty valid reason to just say "I like it here" at this point.

 

[AlexBrown84]

I think this is changing rapidly. Chinese tourism and soft power is skyrocketing in the post-ishowspeed aka hyperthyroid bro era. He should probably be awarded a Nobel peace prize for how much he's disspelled all the American red scare propaganda the glowies have been churning out
Like I mentioned:


The whole world is waking up to the fact that the QOL in China is very high given enough dough and that the vvest has fallen. It's a pretty valid reason to just say "I like it here" at this point.

Everyone should be moving to China in this pre aquarian age, or get left behind

 

[ExcuseMe]

I know one Chinese woman that raves against "sexpats" in Asia, calls them disgusting, but still ended up dating a non-Asian guy
make of that what you will

 

[14passport]

I know one Chinese woman that raves against "sexpats" in Asia, calls them disgusting, but still ended up dating a non-Asian guy
make of that what you will

any educated asian woman knows about sexpat at this point

you just don't need to look and act like one

 

[geneblackman]

I know one Chinese woman that raves against "sexpats" in Asia, calls them disgusting, but still ended up dating a non-Asian guy
make of that what you will

I thought I was the only one who came across this lmfao. She went on and on about sexpats in SEA but then mentioned her bf is from France. I guess her French guy isn't a sexpat!

 

[14passport]

I thought I was the only one who came across this lmfao. She went on and on about sexpats in SEA but then mentioned her bf is from France. I guess her French guy isn't a sexpat!

cause many associate sexpat = fat old guy

if you are attractive or regular guy they dont really care

 

[younglivinglife]

I mean that's a reason why I glaze China life around chinese people even if it's hard to believe when you're a poor local and it makes the US/West seem worse by comparison. QOL and infrastructure is still better in almost every way. Joke that the CCP is paying you to betray your country and that you feel like you're living in 2040, pretty simple
Like yeah if you "made it" in life you can live in LA, Miami, Silicon Valley, Paris, Milan or whatever these bitches are told is fancy but living in West Virginia instead of being a ""loser back home"" in Shanghai isn't the slightest halo in the galaxy
None of that stuff matters anyways if you present yourself accordingly. It's a global world/economy these days; you can live where you want. If you're in the provinces of the Philippines yeah different story

Jfl

I just couldn't get myself to live in Philippines

 

[Orientalist]

I just couldn't get myself to live in Philippines

You don't live there anymore?

 

[younglivinglife]

You don't live there anymore?

I just coudn't do it. Maybe I could try again but i rather test travel around asia