Vent I think Jiangsu is a cursed province

[Exutoire]

Guys, do not go to Shanghai / Suzhou province, it’s an immense bait.
The girls there are not hot and harder becaue they’re richer and there are many chad foreigners I think.

As I travel into the great North of China, I find myself with more beautiful girls than ever, and they like my profile way more.
My bumble account is living again.

So yeah… gtfo of Shanghai / HK. These are cucked places (unless ur chad hitting the club)

 

[AlexBrown84]

go to inner mongolia

 

[awkward]

go to inner mongolia

What is so good about that?

 

[AlexBrown84]

What is so good about that?

slant eyed chinks

 

[Rance]

I mean that's mostly what I would expect from Shanghai, but I think you're making sweeping statements too soon dude. It might take you a couple months to get rolling especially as your Mandarin improves. Can't keep jumping all over the place, fleeing when it gets tough. Gotta lock in

 

[Rance]

What is so good about that?

Inner Mongolia is definitely Alex's speed because it's really great for adventure. You can ride horses across the steppes, eat goats and sheep, sing Mongolian chants around a bonfire, sleep in a yurt, etc. But I think for most people it's a pretty lame place to live. Dirty, poor, a bunch of grasslands and cow shit. Obviously I'll defer to people who've actually been there but that's my impression

 

[Exutoire]

go to inner mongolia

Too far, I’d rather go to Sichuan

 

[Exutoire]

I mean that's mostly what I would expect from Shanghai, but I think you're making sweeping statements too soon dude. It might take you a couple months to get rolling especially as your Mandarin improves. Can't keep jumping all over the place, fleeing when it gets tough. Gotta lock in

Ur right. But at the same time, it’s been way easier to arrange dates and stuff when going to other cities. And the girls are better looking.
For example I’m trying Beijing this weekend. I’ll report my experience.

 

[Exutoire]

Inner Mongolia is definitely Alex's speed because it's really great for adventure. You can ride horses across the steppes, eat goats and sheep, sing Mongolian chants around a bonfire, sleep in a yurt, etc. But I think for most people it's a pretty lame place to live. Dirty, poor, a bunch of grasslands and cow shit. Obviously I'll defer to people who've actually been there but that's my impression

It’s not my cup of tea

 

[predeterminism]

I see one massive mistake you're making which is ruining ur dating life but I'm not gonna help u

 

[Exutoire]

I see one massive mistake you're making which is ruining ur dating life but I'm not gonna help u

What is it ? Leg shortnening surgery

 

[Xavist]

Guys, do not go to Shanghai / Suzhou province, it’s an immense bait.
The girls there are not hot and harder becaue they’re richer and there are many chad foreigners I think.

As I travel into the great North of China, I find myself with more beautiful girls than ever, and they like my profile way more.
My bumble account is living again.

So yeah… gtfo of Shanghai / HK. These are cucked places (unless ur chad hitting the club)

Shit, HK and Shanghai are supposed to be the two easiest for foreigners lol

 

[Exutoire]

Shit, HK and Shanghai are supposed to be the two easiest for foreigners lol

You got 0 JBW going for u there. It’s bound to fail

 

[Xavist]

You got 0 JBW going for u there. It’s bound to fail

Yeah, just pointing out what’s the usual advice and common wisdom for China that I see online…

 

[Orientalist]

Shit, HK and Shanghai are supposed to be the two easiest for foreigners lol

Cap city

 

[Rance]

Shit, HK and Shanghai are supposed to be the two easiest for foreigners lol

Yes, because they are easiest for foreigners. Easiest to live daily life. Mostly because they are the two cities with the most English language, both in terms of infrastructure and people. This says nothing about how easy it is to date there, rather there is probably an inverse correlation

 

[Exutoire]

Yes, because they are easiest for foreigners. Easiest to live daily life. Mostly because they are the two cities with the most English language, both in terms of infrastructure and people. This says nothing about how easy it is to date there, rather there is probably an inverse correlation

Exactly. And with my recent experiences I can confirm this point even more.
You gotta Northmaxx and North Westmaxx guys

 

[BiggChungus]

I prefer south china personally. the northern girls are prettier but its harder to get around, air is worse.

I appreciate the lock in and grind mindset, build a rotation and live a comfortable life (especially in korea nad japan) but there are places you dont have to do that, especially in china. you could get a couple girls in every city and then change between the cities every couple of days when you want. depending, you could even get 2 or 3 different apartments. a fucking studio is like, 200 to 250. to me, this is a good lifestyle. not a bigger apartment, or better flooring, but actually moving around whenever the fuck you want and doing whatever the fuck you want. and I dont think I would want to lock in most places in china. not shanghai or most of jiangsu.

if I was going to lock in, I would prefer to lock in in a place like north bali or lombok, or some midsize resort town for locals, tbh. japan is cleaner and more convenient, but I think the lifestyle is less fun. to me, to lock in to a place would require someone worth marrying (still wouldn't marry, but commitment could be worth it one day) or maybe some good social circle with a good mix of foreigners that could travel with me. as much as I like to geomax, I think some aspects of it are shortsighted

speaking of which rance, is your social circle mostly hosts or something lol.

one of the things about japan and korea that never stops astounding me is that locals just dont have a social circle (generally.) any time I meet a remotely extroverted local, they're almost always playboys hiding their activity from their girlfriend/wife, or hosts. makes it hard to get established

 

[practicaleagle]

Guys, do not go to Shanghai / Suzhou province, it’s an immense bait.
The girls there are not hot and harder becaue they’re richer and there are many chad foreigners I think.

As I travel into the great North of China, I find myself with more beautiful girls than ever, and they like my profile way more.
My bumble account is living again.

So yeah… gtfo of Shanghai / HK. These are cucked places (unless ur chad hitting the club)

Tell us how Sichuan/Chengdu goes, I didn't see any foreigners pulling at the clubs there but my chinese friends swear it has "open girls looking to have fun".
I was only there for a couple days so I can't say for certain, but I have a feeling of north of china could be an untapped market, I hung out with a chinese born ethnically korean girl who's grandpa was from north korea or some shit and she was telling me these stories about going over to NK for summer camp, it might be the only option to probe into the elusive north korean market.

 

[Exutoire]

Tell us how Sichuan/Chengdu goes, I didn't see any foreigners pulling at the clubs there but my chinese friends swear it has "open girls looking to have fun".
I was only there for a couple days so I can't say for certain, but I have a feeling of north of china could be an untapped market, I hung out with a chinese born ethnically korean girl who's grandpa was from north korea or some shit and she was telling me these stories about going over to NK for summer camp, it might be the only option to probe into the elusive north korean market.

I will ! But Beijing has already been amazing I can’t express how crazy this is

 

[Xavist]

I will ! But Beijing has already been amazing I can’t express how crazy this is

Post the hotties you matched with in Beijing…

 

[Exutoire]

Post the hotties you matched with in Beijing…

I will a bit later, remind me

 

[Xavist]

I will a bit later, remind me

Bump

 

[Exutoire]

Bump

I forgot and already deleted Bumble cuz of my new girl.
But you can trust me there were some solid 7s.
Compared to Jiangsu, I estimate there was increase of 1,5 to 2 points on the quality of female I matched with on average.
To illustrate my point I can talk about my attitude for the short time I swiped : In Jiangsu I swiped right when I thought they swiped right. In Beijing I swiped right when I thought they were really attractive.

 

[Rance]

I prefer south china personally. the northern girls are prettier but its harder to get around, air is worse.

I appreciate the lock in and grind mindset, build a rotation and live a comfortable life (especially in korea nad japan) but there are places you dont have to do that, especially in china. you could get a couple girls in every city and then change between the cities every couple of days when you want. depending, you could even get 2 or 3 different apartments. a fucking studio is like, 200 to 250. to me, this is a good lifestyle. not a bigger apartment, or better flooring, but actually moving around whenever the fuck you want and doing whatever the fuck you want. and I dont think I would want to lock in most places in china. not shanghai or most of jiangsu.

if I was going to lock in, I would prefer to lock in in a place like north bali or lombok, or some midsize resort town for locals, tbh. japan is cleaner and more convenient, but I think the lifestyle is less fun. to me, to lock in to a place would require someone worth marrying (still wouldn't marry, but commitment could be worth it one day) or maybe some good social circle with a good mix of foreigners that could travel with me. as much as I like to geomax, I think some aspects of it are shortsighted

That's a pretty interesting idea. I never even considered that I could have two homes because I've never been in a place where it would be financially feasible.

I think that, even though I am a geomaxxer, I am not a "passport bro". I do not have the fire in me to travel and tour. Most of the people on this forum are adventurers at heart and get a lot of value from exploring and experiencing new things. But for me, I'm more of a lock-in type. People ask me if I regret not exploring Japan more. Not really, because my form of exploration was knowing a few neighborhoods of Tokyo like the back of my hand. All the people, venues, systems, processes, etc. I value mastery over novelty.

speaking of which rance, is your social circle mostly hosts or something lol.

one of the things about japan and korea that never stops astounding me is that locals just dont have a social circle (generally.) any time I meet a remotely extroverted local, they're almost always playboys hiding their activity from their girlfriend/wife, or hosts. makes it hard to get established

My male social circle was mostly nightlife workers. Some hosts but not all. All kind of on the same page though.

I agree with your assessment of social circles in Japan. Though I would argue that the lack of extended and strong social circles is useful for dating. I've always considered Tokyo a "city of outsiders". Everyone commutes in for nightlife; nobody knows each other. Thus everyone is open to mingling. This is the polar opposite of the U.S., where group chats and invitations reign supreme. "It's a big club, and you ain't in it..."

On the other hand, yeah, forming meaningful relationships is difficult in Japan. People don't have many friends, and the friendships they do have are largely superficial.

Great post btw