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and i've been generous with my likes, swiped right on everything from 4-10.

without any mentionable results that lead to a date.

looks like they're all waiting for chad.

if you search for fun here, it's over 💀
 
In West and South Europe it's chad or HTN softmaxxed (tan, tattoos, physique) only if you want to have an active sex life with attractive girls on a consistent basis. For normies and below is all about social circle, status and getting lucky in locking up a decent girl in a ltr (and even then you will always be the weak part in the relationship)
 
it's the same everywhere, if you want easy hookups you need to be in the top 10-20% profiles

why is it so easy in SEA? because you pretty much mog all the locals due to height, whiteness, status and money
and it's not very hard either to look better than your average sexpat
 
ask yourself, why would they choose you over the 100s of simps that look exactly like you?
if you want to stand out in the west and have bad genetics the only way is to gymaxx, fashion maxx and build a good tinder profile
 
True if you are not tall or are not attractive then it’s not enough. Genetics is number one nowadays
 
it's not enough
i disagree, i have yet to see many examples of guys that have gymaxxed and fashion maxxed + built a coherent tinder profile and that dont have good success (forget about dating 8s 9s and 10s thats not realistic or big age gaps in the west)

most guys have done neither of those, and the few that have done it and still failed its because they have fucked up by getting roided physique, retarded haircut and fashion, or simply low quality effort on the tinder side

i have checked close to a 100 tinder profiles of people that claimed to have done all those things and get no results, and have yet to see someone that failed because of their genetics, and not their style choices

if you are gymaxxed and fashion maxxed, send me your profile and i can tell you how to improve it
 
I’m in Madrid right now and I’ve never seen more single, mid looking women going out to bars and cafes alone in one city than here.

The few couples I see are foreigners or the guy mogs the girl into oblivion. No doubt their expectations are sky high.
 
I’m in Madrid right now and I’ve never seen more single, mid looking women going out to bars and cafes alone in one city than here.

The few couples I see are foreigners or the guy mogs the girl into oblivion. No doubt their expectations are sky high.
i noticed the same when i was living in spain.

the guys look better on average than the girls. and they are extroverted and dress well.

for dating locals it's pretty much a geomin destination.
 
i noticed the same when i was living in spain.

the guys look better on average than the girls. and they are extroverted and dress well.

for dating locals it's pretty much a geomin destination.
dressing well in Spain?
what? in Europe its one of the worse countries in terms of fashion (source: i have lived there for multiple years)
 
dressing well in Spain?
what? in Europe its one of the worse countries in terms of fashion (source: i have lived there for multiple years)
i have no idea what you are talking about.

were you hanging out with perroflautas? are you comparing them to fashion models in eastern europe?

madrid or sevilla are definitely miles ahead of berlin. or any city in usa, uk, australia.
 
i have no idea what you are talking about.

were you hanging out with perroflautas? are you comparing them to fashion models in eastern europe?

madrid or sevilla are definitely miles ahead of berlin. or any city in usa, uk, australia.
madrid is years behind cities like Paris, Tokyo, Seoul

most guys are wearing skinny jeans, hoodies, ugly jackets, shorts, graphic tees, chandal

there's a few trendy spots ofc, but the average guy dresses like shit
can't imagine how bad it must be in other countries if you think spain dresses well lol
 
I gotta agree its 80% or more about genetics these days. that doesn't mean you cant still pull off a few wins, but literal top tier slayer game and optimized tinder profiles from 7 years ago will land you in the bottom 50% still these days. these effects have even filtered down to people making 200 dollars a month in russia or cambodia.

I think europe is still a little better for social circle game or, in other words, betabuxx.
 
Lolz…doom and gloom about Europe while one of my Asian bros built a 3 girl rotation within a month in a Central European city. Get off online and go approach IRL or something.
 
It really does feel like the age of online dating is completely over unless you’re a giga chad or in a super easy location. Cold approach is getting popular on TikTok and instagram too but luckily gen z is too risk averse so most still won’t do it

Guys can still have success with instagram maxxing and I heard TikTok and Snapchat are good for getting girls though
 
It really does feel like the age of online dating is completely over unless you’re a giga chad or in a super easy location. Cold approach is getting popular on TikTok and instagram too but luckily gen z is too risk averse so most still won’t do it

Guys can still have success with instagram maxxing and I heard TikTok and Snapchat are good for getting girls though
Tiktok and IG are the best
 
Lolz…doom and gloom about Europe while one of my Asian bros built a 3 girl rotation within a month in a Central European city. Get off online and go approach IRL or something.
I‘d approach if i received flirt signals, like holding eye contact or smiling. it’s just not happening to me here.

What looks level is the guy? Does he betabux?
 
Wow...See that is where there lies a BIG problem. Never in CE/EE have I waited for a girl to give me a choosing signal...nor has any of my Chad friends who do really well here. If you are depending on a choosing signal from a girl in order to approach in Europe...it's OVER for you my guy. This is especially true if you are in the normie tier of looks. My Asian buddy I would say is a HTN but only 5'7" and definitely does not wait for choosing signals. All of it was from IRL (street approach) and him just going for it.
 
Wow...See that is where there lies a BIG problem. Never in CE/EE have I waited for a girl to give me a choosing signal...nor has any of my Chad friends who do really well here. If you are depending on a choosing signal from a girl in order to approach in Europe...it's OVER for you my guy. This is especially true if you are in the normie tier of looks. My Asian buddy I would say is a HTN but only 5'7" and definitely does not wait for choosing signals. All of it was from IRL (street approach) and him just going for it.
How often does he get shot down tho?
I saw a foreign, above average guy get rejected publicly in Warsaw last year, not brutally, but he was dismissed very quickly after asking for some girl’s IG lol
 
He gets shut down plenty of times. All of us do including my Chad friends. But we don't give AF. It is just part of the game.

If you are a pussy and are afraid of getting rejected in CE/EE, you can forget about getting attractive CE/EE girls.
 
He gets shut down plenty of times. All of us do including my Chad friends. But we don't give AF. It is just part of the game.

If you are a pussy and are afraid of getting rejected in CE/EE, you can forget about getting attractive CE/EE girls.
how tall are you
 
I'm 5'8" but wear 2" inch insoles in my shoes so I'm 5'10" when I go out. 5'10" is giga average height here in CE.
 

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